Ancient China was a patriarchal society, and women were in a weak position, but it was not excluded that some women's talents could indeed be compared with men, or even more than men. Just like wu Zetian, Empress Feng of Northern Wei and so on. However, these women have one thing in common, basically after the death of their husbands. Today, I am talking about a woman who will run away from home as the husband of the emperor and shout "I am the son of heaven, and I am not free." Eventually, the emperor returned to the palace under the advice of the civil and military officials and reconciled with the empress.
The male protagonist of this story is Yang Jian, the founding emperor of the Sui Dynasty, and the heroine is the literature empress Dugu Jialuo.
In the last year of the Kai Emperor (600), a strange incident occurred, when the Sui Wen Emperor Yang Jian lined up with Wei Chi's granddaughter Wei Chi (尉迟氏), and the lonely Jia Luo killed Wei Chi when Yang Jian was in the upper court, and Yang Jian was so angry that he felt that he was under the control of his wife at every turn. But for his wife, he could not beat or scold, and could only sulk and run away from home.
Why was Yang Jian, the Sui Emperor of Heaven, so afraid of his wife? This is actually related to the origin of the two people.
First, the gap in origin
Although the marriage between Yang Jian and Dugu Jialuo is still a door-to-door match, in detail, the status of the Yang family is still inferior to the status of the dugu family.
Dugu Jialuo's ancestors were the Northern Xiongnu nobles who were dependent on the Xianbei regime, and were one of the eight surnames of the Northern Wei Xunchen. His father DuGuxin entered the political arena with his own military merits during the Northern Wei Six Towns Uprising, and assisted Yuwen Tai in creating a hegemonic business, ranking in the Western Wei Eight Pillar State, the Great Sima And in the Northern Zhou Dynasty, he entered the Taibao and Weiguo Gongs, and ate 10,000 households. Lady Cui, the mother of Dugu Jialuo, was from the Zhengzhou Cui clan, one of the six houses of the Cui clan of Qinghe, and the granddaughter of Cui Yanzhen, the granddaughter of The Northern Wei Yongchang Taishou Cui. The Qinghe Cui clan was the leading han political and cultural gatekeeper in the Middle Ages, and has attached great importance to The Confucianism and cultural inheritance for generations, and there are many talents, and the family members have also made great contributions to the unification of the Yellow River Valley of the Northern Wei Dynasty.
Yang Jian's father, Yang Zhong, although a great general of the Northern Wei Dynasty, was given the title of Xiao Zongbo ,but he was DuGuxin's second-in-command. So to some extent, Yang Jian's marriage to LoneLy Garo is indeed a bit of a "high climb".
Second, the growth environment
Dugu Jia Luo was born into a general, but not a complete Han family, and his father also had the heroic spirit of a nomadic people, and under the influence of his father, Du Gu Jia Luo gradually developed a very strong personality.
On the other hand, Yang Jian, because the nuns in the nunnery at birth said that this son was not an ordinary person and could not be raised in an ordinary way. Therefore, Yang Jian was raised by a nun and lived in the temple since childhood, away from his parents and brothers, and accompanied him every day by the long scroll of green lanterns. Over time, he developed a cautious, calm, and taciturn personality.
Due to the difference in the environment in which the two grew up in childhood, the personalities of the two are also very different, which is also a reason for Yang Jian's "fear of his wife".
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Third, the legacy of ethnic minorities
Yang Jian and Dugu Jialuo both retain some ethnic minority relics, especially Dugu Jialuo. The surname Dugu is not a Han surname, some people think that this surname is the surname of the Xiongnu, and some people think that it is a humble surname, but no matter where it comes from, it shows the strong ethnic minority atmosphere carried by Dugu Jialuo.
Whether it is the Xiongnu or the Xianbei, there is a common heritage: the matrilineal heritage, the old custom of "women holding the door". The "Yan Family Training and Ruling the Family" says, "The custom of the Yan family, the custom of the woman presiding over the portal, the litigation is straight, asking the trustee to meet the greeting, riding in a car all over the street, carrying gifts to the official palace, asking for an official on behalf of the son, and calling for the husband's resignation, this is a humble legacy!" The Sinicized ethnic minorities were still weaker than the orthodox Han people, and the women of the Southern and Northern Dynasties were deeply influenced by this minority legacy, and Dugu Jialuo was an outstanding figure who emerged from this minority legacy. Just as Emperor Xuan of Northern Zhou was preparing to depose Empress Yang Lihua and wanted to put her to death, the lonely Garo, as a mother, knew about it. This incident is the embodiment of motherhood, but it also reflects the legacy of the ethnic minority in the lone garo.
However, although Yang Jian is "afraid of his wife like a tiger", their husband and wife relationship is still excellent. When Yang Jian was 17 years old, he married the 14-year-old Dugu Jialuo, "Gao Zu and hou xiang, the son of no alien birth", Yang Jian's five sons and five daughters, all born of Dugu Jialuo, and Dugu Jialuo is also Yang Jian's good wife. After she became empress, she did not spend all day with silk, but took the lead in frugality and vigorously advocated the style of simplicity in the harem, which also made Yang Jian greatly appreciated.
However, with the improvement of the status of Dugu Jia Luo and Yang Jian, there are also some estrangements between feelings. Lonely Garo was like a tigress, which not only made Yang Jian afraid, but also the Wenwu Hundred Officials were afraid of her. Her jealousy also grew stronger, not only did she kill the Wei Chi clan who was fortunate to be blessed when her husband ascended to the court, but even the people who "married concubines and had children" were also very annoying. This point was captured by Yang Guang, Yang Guang and Xiao Fei raised eyebrows all day long, this matter really made the Lonely Empress very happy, and later the Lonely Empress ruthlessly deposed the crown prince Yang Yong, and Yang Yong snubbed the princess all day long to spoil the side concubine.