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In life, we often have friction, unhappiness and grievances with others.
So do we want the tip of the needle to the point of mai mang, tit-for-tat?
At this time, the resentment in the heart is like a balloon, the more you think about it, the more you breathe, the bigger it blows, and finally it will swell to the point of uncontrollable.
Recently, because of something, I had an unpleasant affair with a relative, who was out of control and swear. He's still a generation below me. My mother is still his aunt. He actually opened his mouth and scolded: "~ your mother! "~ Your mother" was still raising her fists, and her face was vicious. I really haven't seen him in a few years, this 40-year-old person, and I am really stunned to become like this!
When I saw this scene, there were only thirty-six counts, and I went up to the top count. Fling up one's heels! In the future, only old and dead will not interact with each other!
The look of contempt says it all
I've seen such a thing on TV before.
On August 23, 2004, the men's horizontal bar final at the Athens Olympic Games was in full swing. The 28-year-old Russian star Nemov made his third appearance, and he conquered the audience with a series of difficult moves to grab the bar, but when he landed, he made a small mistake - moving forward, so the referee only gave him 9.725 points.
At this moment, a rare situation in the Olympic Games has emerged:
The audience kept shouting "Nemov", "Nemov", and all stood up, kept waving their arms, and expressed their anger at the referee with a long and loud boo.
The game was interrupted and the fourth American player, Paul. Hamm, though ready, could only stand awkwardly in place.
Faced with such a scene, Nemov, who had already left the scene, stood up from his seat, waved to the audience cheering at him, and bowed deeply, thanking them for their love and support for him. Nemov's generosity further stimulated the audience's dissatisfaction, and the boos became louder, and some viewers even extended their fists, thumbs down, and made inelegant movements.
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Faced with such enormous pressure, the referee was forced to re-score Nemov with 9.762 points. However, this score not only failed to calm the audience's dissatisfaction, but also made the boos sound again.
At this time, Nemov showed his extraordinary personality and broad mind. He returned to the arena, raised his right arm to greet the audience, and bowed deeply in thanks; then he extended the index finger of his right hand to make a silent gesture, and then pressed his hands down, begging and persuading the audience to stay calm, to Paul. Hamm a quiet playing environment.
Nemov's tolerance allowed the game to continue after a ten-minute hiatus.
In that competition, although Nemov did not win the gold medal, he was still the "champion" in the minds of the audience; he did not beat the opponent, but he conquered the audience with his tolerance.
Nemov's tolerance is commendable!
In the face of resentment, do we want to return the color? Or can be tolerant to be tolerant, to spare others and to spare others.
People who have watched the TV series "The Name of the People" will not forget this most classic scene, and countless people have taken this look as wallpaper, which is the contempt of the king.
Tolerance is to release one's own mind and save oneself from falling into the vulgar realm of the other party.
And contempt is not cowardice, it is disdain to confront it!
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