The marriage of our ordinary people should be a husband and wife living a plain life, those marriages that contain gorgeous love may really be a luxury for us ordinary people, the wife's temperament, the husband's romance in the marriage of ordinary people Once married, there may be no romantic love and sweet warmth, in our eyes there is only life.
In the marriage of ordinary people, husband and wife are a kind of mutual tolerance, mutual understanding of each other, mutual respect, and mutual trust are the important prerequisites for couples to live a good life.
In 2018, 33-year-old Su Yong (pseudonym) and 34-year-old Wu Shuang (pseudonym) met after being introduced by friends. Su Yong is an ordinary worker and Wu Shuang is a kindergarten teacher. Both have their own stable jobs and careers.
Both of them were elderly young people, and Su Yong's mother was worried about her son's marriage. Wu Shuang is an only child, her parents do not want her to marry far away, and she is also older, in the face of her parents' urging to marry, she chose Su Yong, and Su Yong's home is only 5 minutes away from her home, Wu Shuang feels that this is also in line with her parents' wishes.
In 2019, the 34-year-old Su Yong spent a dowry of 18.8 to marry his wife Wu Shuang, but after marriage, his wife Wu Shuang stayed in his mother's house until June 2020, when the couple almost separated for a year. Because the nature of Su Yong's work is two shifts, the day shift of the last week, the evening shift of the last week, a lot of time is Wu Shuang's night guard, and Su Yong's accommodation is surrounded by tenants, and their marriage room is sandwiched between these tenants, which makes Wu Shuang feel very scared in the middle of the night.
Married for two years, the wife only lived for 8 nights, the mother-in-law frankly said that the 188,000 dowry was quite appropriate, Wu Shuang took the bride price, this family she did not come, the mother-in-law said that she was a "liar".
In May 2020, Wu Shuang completely moved away from the Su family, leaving not even a single piece of his own clothes. Su Yong said that since he married Wu Shuang, he handed over his salary card to Wu Shuang, leaving a small part of himself as living expenses, and from the moment he handed it to his wife Wu Shuang, Su Yong identified Wu Shuang as the owner of the family. This is a kind of trust between wives, and a man who gives his money to his wife is a kind of respect and trust for his wife.
However, by June 2020, Wu Shuang sued the court for divorce, on the grounds that the husband and wife were incompatible, the husband and wife were not in harmony, and the Husband Su Yong's WeChat was blocked, from Wu Shuang's lawsuit for divorce, the indifferent attitude and the determination to divorce made the Su family feel that this was a fraudulent marriage.
Su Yong's mother said that she had never abused her daughter-in-law, and her son had never treated his wife badly, and also handed over his salary card to his wife, believing that Su Yong was sincere enough with his wife, but his wife Wu Shuang still chose to divorce.
In Su Yong's heart, he believes that as a teacher, Wu Shuang's character must be no problem, so he blindly pays for his wife Wu Shuang, exchanging heart for heart, what does Wu Shuang want him to give? But as a wife, Wu Shuang never cared about her husband's life.
At home, the mother-in-law is too involved in the marriage of her son and daughter-in-law, frozen three feet, not a day of cold, Wu Shuang frankly said that her marriage to Su Yong is not random, she originally wanted to live well with Su Yong, but in life, husband and wife get together less and more, resulting in the husband and wife gradually drifting apart.
The reason why she chose to divorce Su Yong is on the one hand because Su Yong also has domestic violence, on the other hand, the couple has no children since they got married. Because of family trivia between husband and wife, the feelings of husband and wife are very delicate. Su Yong's repeated injuries to Wu Shuang, so that Wu Shuang lost confidence in Su Yong, coupled with the lack of children, so that Wu Shuang also lost confidence in the marriage, which is the direct cause of the breakdown of their husband and wife marriage, Su Yong said that he used his family strength, paid a dowry of 18.8 but in exchange for the marriage of the couple divorced, he was unwilling.
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The reason why Wu Shuang chose to divorce and move out of the Su family is because the husband and wife have been separated for a long time and have weak feelings, on the other hand, there is less communication between husband and wife.
For Su Yong and Wu Shuang, this is the most ordinary couple, they should have tolerated each other and understood each other.
There are more consultations, more communication, although the two husband and wife personalities are not compatible, the concept is different, but these are a kind of run-in for the couple in the marriage, as long as the husband and wife treat each other sincerely, there is something to say, the relationship may not be broken.
The feelings between any husband and wife are based on mutual trust, and if they are based on their own ideas, such feelings will not last long, but will only be short-lived.
The marriage of our ordinary people should be lived in the way of ordinary people, the wife understands the husband, the husband cares about the wife, and there is a saying that "if the two loves are long-lasting, they are in the twilight of the dynasty."
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