Whether a woman really loves you or not, these two things can tell you at a glance

Whether a woman really loves you or not, these two things can tell you at a glance

When you fall in love with a woman, she is with herself, but you don't know if she really loves you, but uses you as a transitional tool.

I don't know if you feel that way. The person you love is not actually the first person in her heart, but she still promises to associate with herself. However, after you are together, it is always you who take the initiative, and the other party keeps a distance from himself from time to time.

The more you love her, the more you want to be loved by her. You can't help but contact her, eat with her every day, give her gifts. She didn't seem too happy.

In fact, judging whether a woman really loves you sometimes doesn't need to ask. It can be felt after a while with her.

In general, whether a woman really loves you or not, will tell you two things.

1. Keep your distance after being with you

Whether a woman really loves you depends on whether she will come close to you after being with you.

Loving someone will have a physiological response, but if you don't love someone, you won't touch her or sleep with you.

In "Dear Parents", from Jiang Mei's performance of Huang Haijun, in fact, she just wants to use Huang Haijun as a tool. I didn't really love him, but really didn't want to marry him. I had just lost my love at the time, so I saw Huang Haijun as an over-the-top step.

After the marriage, Jiang Mei did not want to sleep with Huang Haijun at all, nor did she let him touch her. She pretended to be harmonious in front of the elders, but did not take Huang Haijun seriously in her room.

A woman who doesn't really love you and is unwilling to give herself up to you and even more unwilling to have children with you.

Jiang Mei is like this, that is, Huang Haijun loves her too much, so she has always accommodated Jiang Mei, always tolerated her, and respected her no matter what she said.

But I don't think this marriage is actually happy. Huang Haijun's heart was also bitter. He was already married to Jiang Mei, but he still couldn't get her. This kind of love is the most painful.

So, women don't love you, so don't want to be near you but keep their distance from you.

2. If a woman doesn't love you, she will treat you like a spare tire, not refuse, and don't say love

Whether a woman loves you or not, you can see it from her attitude towards you.

A woman who truly loves you is to accept your contribution and then give it to you sincerely. But the woman doesn't really love you and rejects you consciously, but she doesn't want to lose your kindness, so she still accepts your contribution, that is, treats you as a spare tire.

Fuchun (pseudonym) graduated in 985 and worked in a public institution in Wuhan. He met his current girlfriend online, who was three years older than him. He liked her very much because she was cheerful and could better complement his introverted personality.

She told him she had returned from studying in Canada and worked in Changsha. Her parents were ordinary employees and her family was ordinary. Because she was an only child, her parents loved her very much.

After being with her, I found that she was very materialistic, and she needed big brands in everything, wearing famous brands, watches, jewelry, shoes, and bags.

Once she happened to be in Wuhan on a business trip, and then he invited her to dinner and began to meet for the first time. They feel good and decide to fall in love.

After three months together, they couldn't see each other very often because of different places. Every time he called her to send a message, she became less enthusiastic.

She complained to him that he did not accompany her, did not come to see her, but because she could not find time for work, she saved up a few months of salary, bought her a bag, and wanted to make up for her guilt, so the relationship between the two slowly warmed up.

She hinted many times that she hoped he would come to work in her city and be with her forever. To that end, he also thought about quitting his job and going to her city.

When it was all over, he also bought a ring to propose, but he didn't expect her to send a message saying that she was pregnant and that the child was not his.

Pressed by him, she told me that she liked a guy who was eight years younger than her, had been together for months, and had accidentally conceived his child and said she was going to marry him.

If a woman doesn't love you, she will be with someone else behind your back, but she covets your love and keeps hiding you from your kindness. In fact, she treated you like a spare tire from the beginning.

He also said that when they were together, she never took the initiative to find him, nor did she say intimate words, but always accepted his kindness and enjoyed paying for her.

A woman really loves you. She'll be the first to tell you. She will offer to share her thoughts with you and confide in you. However, she didn't let you get involved, she just didn't want to find warmth in you.

A woman who doesn't love you, she's in a relationship with you and someone else at the same time, probably more than one, but she won't let you know.

In fact, you're just a fish in her tank and one of her spare tires.

If a woman really loves you, she won't treat you like a spare tire and instead wants to cling to you and be with you.

However, when she gets married, she tells you to go to her wedding. So, what were those things that were with you before?

She doesn't love you, but she sends you a message to say hello and warm. She just wants to stabilize you and make you pay for her all the time. Because she feels like a good spare tire, she will always accept your kindness, instead of confessing to you that she does not love you. Make you misleading and make you feel like you're her choice.

It's actually dangerous to be with such a woman because she won't keep to herself. Even if she does get together, sooner or later she will cheat.

A woman with a heart is unacceptable. If you meet such a woman, all you have to do is stay away as soon as possible, remove all contact details, and stop pestering her.

In short, whether a woman really loves you or not, you can know through these two things.

If a woman really loves you, she will take the initiative to find you, because love requires courage and is only meaningful if affirmed by the loved one.

Good feelings need to go both ways. If the other person doesn't love you, forget it, don't force it, and don't give it silly.

A woman who loves you will think of you in the first place in anything. She is always watching your every move, close to you, and there are topics to tell you, indicating that she really loves you. Instead, it means she probably doesn't really love you.