There is a famous saying in Belgium: "Some people can't dance and always complain about their shoes." "Meaning, sometimes people like to complain and are looking for excuses for poor performance. Now, some people lose on excuses. They complain and find reasons is the biggest problem, in fact, this just reflects the incompetence of the complainer, the inability to solve the problem, and do not want to admit their incompetence, so they put things on others, forming a variety of unpleasant complaining noise.
If the people in the world are divided into categories, they can be roughly divided into three categories: capable people, intelligent people, incompetent and stupid people, and those who complain about things (complaining about social unfairness, complaining about their own inopportune birth, complaining about their family poverty, etc.) are incompetent and stupid people.
Ankoko, the year she had just graduated, experienced a loss of love, and the grandmother who loved her the most in the family died, and became very depressed for a while. As a result, she once went to take a picture and found that she looked like a woman in her thirties. She was suddenly frightened, what should she do to restore the face of a twenty-year-old? The photographer told her to smile more. When she got home, she found the picture of herself, saw her smiling self, tried to smile in the mirror, and felt that it was much better than not smiling. A year later, she not only received the company's commendation for her excellent work, but also gained love.
No matter what life is like, you have to face it. Whatever happened in the past is history. We should face the future with a more optimistic heart, and putting more thoughts and hopes in the future is the choice of the wise.
Recently, because of some things at home, I feel a little breathless, but also complaining about why God is so unfair, when I read these two books "Don't complain, everything will be fine" and "Mentality is good, everything will be good", the mentality is also slowly getting better, after the mood becomes better, some things at home are also slowly going in a good direction, people really have to maintain a good attitude, smile and face every day.
Yi Qianxi once said: Good things will always happen in the next turn