How to tell if the other person really loves you? How to tell if the other person really loves you? First, do you have a strong emotional connection Second, when you are together, the other party really cares about you, or do you think about yourself Third, are you a special and unique person in the other person's heart? Fourth, whether you like it or not, you can know by watching her dress up. Fifth, the intimacy index, the body will tell you the answer

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What exactly is love?

Love can bring the greatest joy and pain to people, so what is love?

There is a special concept of love in psychology called attachment, and love in intimate relationships is the human attachment instinct.

Many people say that they can be unmarried and infertile, and they don't need emotional life, which is impossible, because emotion is just needed, no one can escape from this, just did not find the right one.

What is attachment? There is a very close emotional connection between the child and the parent, especially with the mother, called attachment.

Attachment is essential for the survival and development of the baby. Similarly, love in intimate relationships is the same as the attachment relationship between an infant and a mother.

Because of this emotion, there is a physiological basis for acquaintance (dopamine and oxytocin) and the experience and characteristics of acquaintance

Children will cross thousands of mountains and rivers to find their mother, and so will lovers, because humans have attachment and the instinct to seek intimacy.

Throughout their lives, people seek an emotional link with their lover, and they are eager to get emotional links from their lovers, so it is human instinct to desire love.

When you are in a relationship with someone, the other person seems to be good to you, but you are also a little uncertain. How do you tell if the other person really loves you, or if they're making a scene, or if people just want to be friends with you, or if you think too much?

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Do you want to know if the other person really cares about you and how much they care?

Will he remember some of the things you said, some important days like your birthday, wedding anniversary

Will he remember what you like and what you don't like?

Will it not be seen for a day as if it were three autumns apart

If you were to break up, would the other person be sad, bitter, or indifferent?

These are all indications of whether you have a strong emotional connection.

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Is it pleasant to talk to him? Can you talk about going together? That means if he's interested in what you're saying

For example, if I raise my salary today, he will say, really happy for you, instead of saying, isn't it a salary increase? What a pleasure

I had a nightmare yesterday, so scared, he said, what a dream, this is the response, not to say, isn't it just a nightmare? And it's not true

I lost five pounds, I bought a dress today, how's it going, does it look good?

The other party said impatiently, look good, lose weight is good, fat is good.

Responding effectively to each other is a sign of true love.

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Is it good for you alone, or is it good for others, and what has been said to you is also said to others?

If he has a passion for a lot of the opposite sex, you'll feel like you've been cheated on

Special and unique is the sign of true love.

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Under what circumstances will you have to dress up elaborately?

Either to meet an important person or to attend an important occasion.

If a woman dresses particularly casually in front of you, there is only one possibility that she doesn't care about your evaluation at all.

Liking a person is to show the best side of yourself to the other party, so as to hope to get the other party's good feelings, so as to deepen your impression in the other person's heart.

A woman's nature is to love beauty, but at the same time women are also particularly lazy, if not to meet an important person, she is really too lazy to dress herself, too lazy to waste that little cosmetics, but if it is to meet an important person, it is worth the money.

So to know if you are important in a woman's heart, just look at her dress. But whenever a woman likes you, even if she can only see you for five minutes, she will happily spend fifty minutes at home dressing herself up in advance.

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The body is the most honest, does the other party resent contact with your body? If your distance is less than 0.5 meters and you break through the safety line of interpersonal communication, will the other party show resistance (such as crossing your hands over your chest, adjusting your posture to re-open the distance) or are you willing to accept it?

In this regard, girls have a more sensitive sense than boys. When facing people you don't like, you will especially mind that the other party touches your hair, pats your shoulders, puts your arms around your shoulders, and even regards these behaviors as harassment.

If you don't know if you like someone, imagine getting up close and personal with them and your body will tell you the answer

Of course, the intimacy index also includes physical intimacy, whether you like to share each other's bits and pieces, and whether there are little secrets between each other.

It can be said that the higher the precision intimacy index, the closer the relationship is. Even if you don't necessarily become a lover, you will be a rare good friend.

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