When I, as a mother of an ordinary family child, went to see this film, the most common moments were tears. Just like "Wind and Rain Harvard Road ☔️", "Gifts and Gifts" is enough to move the world's cold students. What underpinned Ben Carson's dream from a discriminated poor man to a "holy place" in the minds of medical students and doctors around the world, ranking first in the United States for 21 consecutive years as a neurosurgeon at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine? Ben Carson was often discriminated against and frustrated because of his black identity. He always thought that he was a stupid and clumsy child, always lagging behind others every time he did arithmetic problems, but his mother always encouraged him to "you are not stupid at all, you are the smartest child."
His mother, illiterate, divorced her husband and came to Detroit alone with her children, working as a cleaner for others and supporting her children on a meager income. But it is such a mother who is not successful in the eyes of ordinary people, but silently gives her children full of love and support, and encourages them to do better than others. He learned to spend his time watching TV reading books. In the ocean of knowledge, he enters a wonderful world of the unknown. And by a child with poor grades, he was admitted to the world-famous Yale University, where he harvested wonderful love.
Later, among the many outstanding students around the world who applied for admission to Johns Hopkins Hospital every year, it was a miracle that only two of them passed the examination results in the hospital. With his own wisdom and medical ethics, he accepted various challenges and created one miracle after another of life. In 1987, Carson and his team received worldwide attention for their excellent siamese infant separation surgery, which gave Carson great honors.
We always lament the injustice of fate, but ignore the internal causes of our own lack of combat effectiveness, the important thing is not whether you can pursue it? It's about whether you can start taking the first step now.
Many times, I always lament the inability to extricate myself from my youth in the past, thinking that if I were to give time and re-plan, maybe now I would be a child of another family. The truth is: even if I go back in time, I may still be me, and I haven't changed anything. Why are there so many people at the bottom of the world, but how many people have succeeded? The most terrible thing is not that I don't dare to think about it, but that I have always thought that such a low-level life is my destination.
The difference between the essence of long-term determination and long-term determination lies in the persistence of the will. We always see many parents who like to ask the bottom question, "How is your child so good?" "The real reason is that when you take your children to dinner with colleagues and friends, when you let your children relax a little, eat and play a game, others are sticking to the lonely learning camp." Because the time of the poor child is calculated in seconds, you were not born in Rome, and you have to enjoy the treatment of Rome. That is completely doomed to failure.
I have a friend, a marketing manager for beauty products, running around for life, very much like to dress up themselves, which is understandable, is selling beauty products? It's not wrong to be beautiful. The key problem is that she often takes her children to sweat steam ("▔ᄌ▔)" sweat houses, KTV, bathing cities, and enjoy the treatment of the adult world, she believes that by doing so, children will be happy. It is conceivable that the child is happy, the learning has plummeted, and as a result, she still wants to get grades, and she is too early to get involved in the drunken gold riddle, which child is interested in reading!
Zhuge Liang's Book of Commandments has a cloud: "There is no clear mind without indifference, and there is no distance without tranquility." "If you want to look forward to the future, you still have to keep your loneliness first." Success is not easy, suffering must be a life experience. May the children of the cold door stick to their original intentions, only strive for the day, and live up to Shaohua. Dedicated to all inspirational children!