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Inside the young girl, there will be a perfect prince who has sketched out by herself.
This prince, handsome, handsome, mighty, rich... The thing he rejoices and excels at every day is to please his beloved princess. He can give her companionship at all times, he can give her eternal protection, and he can easily meet all the goals she thinks cannot be achieved.
However, such a prince can only appear in fairy tales.
In real life, even a prince needs to work hard to achieve and improve himself in order to consolidate his position; in order to live without far-sightedness, he will definitely move forward with a sense of urgency in the present moment; for real responsibility, he will not just talk about abandoning chai rice oil and salt...
In real real life, there are not so many surprises that do not require excessive effort. A person, too, never has an unearned gain.
If all the perfections that are illusioned really exist easily, they are not called illusions!
However, some people are still dreaming of being able to ascend to the sky step by step without effort. At a time when everyone else has to endure thorns in the present moment in order to make their lives better, these people are being driven by desire to enjoy themselves in the present moment in time and completely ruin the rest of their lives.
Desire makes them unable to correctly recognize themselves before the actual suffering, and also allows them to waste their best years on short-lived "enjoyment" in the gradual loss of themselves.
When it comes to such people who want to be satisfied without trying hard, they have to talk about Guo Haiweed in "Snail Residence".
When I was young in the past, I don't know how many girls envied Guo Haizao and had a Song Siming by her side, thinking that she left Xiaobei to choose Song Siming, even if she did not have a name, she was a rare happy woman.
In fact, the young only love Song Siming, and only after marriage do they understand Xiaobei! If someone never understands the good of Xiaobei, it means that you do not understand the reality of marriage and love!
Guo Haizao from birth to life was disintegrated, this step by step, did not rely on herself for a moment. In the past, I relied on my sister's protection, and when I grew up, I had my sister to take care of me, and then I had Xiao Bei's care, and later I had Song Siming's "responsiveness"...
All this doomed her unequivocal greed and the fate of not being able to bear good results in the end.
On the question of who is worth choosing between Xiaobei and Song Siming, many people have taken sides with Song Siming, and few people have understanding and sympathy for xiaobei who treats seaweed rudely.
However, it turns out that Xiao Bei, who looks shabby, is a real rich man who cannot be underestimated compared to the noble Song Siming.
Song Siming has a superior material foundation and a high personal talent, but he is driven by desire, making a betrayal against morality and greed against his conscience, causing too many people to be hurt by him.
The Song Siming that the young girl saw was a god who responded to every request. The married woman sees a scumbag who is rampant with desire after stepping on his wife's ascension to the throne.
Song Siming, all the "needs" for seaweed are all outrageous to others.
Song Siming, betraying his wife and not divorcing, and later shamelessly entrusting his own and seaweed children to his wife, all of which are accurate to the wife's soft heart and obsession with herself.
Look at Xiao Bei, although he is a middle- and lower-class migrant worker, he knows that a gentleman loves money and has a way! Through his own efforts, he saved money to buy a marriage house for the sake of seaweed saving money. It's just that no matter how bitter he himself is, he gives his best to his beloved girl.
Although many people think that Xiaobei did not take 60,000 pieces of seaweed to buy a house for his sister, it was because his pattern was too small. But in fact, of all the humility of Xiaobei in the seaweed, only the bottom line of sixty thousand pieces should be kept.
You know, in addition to the fact that Xiaobei has "donated" 20,000 pieces to seaweed relief sister, the remaining 60,000 pieces are all of Xiaobei's savings.
And seaweed has been blindly satisfied more than once for her sister without regard to XiaoBei's feelings. What's more, Xiao Bei's seemingly selfish behavior is all his responsibility for the rest of his life.
If you love someone, you will give her a name and a home! Xiao Bei, the "sponsorship" of 60,000 pieces of seaweed, is the best expression of his love for seaweed.
When I was young, I only felt that love was a payment that never counted returns, and only after adulthood did I understand that behind the payment for people, there needed to be a "not overloaded" premise.
As soon as xiaobei's rude treatment of seaweed came out, too many women said that Xiaobei was not worth choosing, because his violence was a "big problem" sooner or later.
However, Xiao Bei's violence is not out of intention, but a "heart disease" after being deeply hurt by seaweed betrayal. However, few people are willing to tell such truths, for fear of being used as a "favorable" self-defense by those who are really malicious and violent.
Compared with the malice of Song Siming and Seaweed both betraying the pillow people, what is the violence caused by Xiao Bei's "heart disease" of being betrayed and no longer "sunny"?
After marriage, I understood that Xiaobei's goodness to seaweed was "incomparable" to Song Siming. One is willing to give all the love to surround the future of seaweed freedom, and the other can only use the seaweed as a canary to feed and sometimes "make" it happy.
The combination between men and women, whether rich or poor, chai rice oil and salt is the real life. Only after understanding Mrs. Song's suffering, I knew how scummy Song Siming was, understood the goodness of XiaoBei, and understood what a good man Seaweed had missed for desire.
Song Siming's success is the result of Mrs. Song's accumulation of understanding, support, virtuousness and encouragement. If you are a grateful person, you will not betray such a woman, if you are a grateful person, you will certainly maintain your sanity in the face of desire and cherish everything that is not easy to get.
However, Song Siming betrayed his wife without the slightest sense of guilt, without the slightest hesitation of desire and self-control, and "sold his life" for greed. Such a hypocrite with a straight face has harmed everyone around him.
Song Siming's every "need" for seaweed is a joke of fishing and baiting. It fully highlights the dirty humanity that there is no free lunch in the world and no accidental "show of hands".
When desire and desire meet, the unbearableness of each taking what is needed will be staged without a moral bottom line. When Song Siming happened to meet Guo Haiweed, he was nakedly "taking what he needed". In the end, they also paid a heavy price for their respective desires.
The loyalty, kindness, and principle of being a human being are the most attractive similarities between Seaweed and Song Siming. That's why they hurt the pillow person in the same way, without any guilt.
It's not that XiaoBei and Mrs. Song are not good enough, it's just that they are too good to spoil the two evil people to repay themselves with resentment.
Song Siming, when life is difficult, he needs a crutch like Mrs. Song, and when he is noble, he needs a girl like seaweed who can make up for his youth and regrets and give himself a "long face" and please himself.
If you can, I would rather be a self-reliant man like Xiao Bei, who has three views and is considerate of himself, and has always been on the road to hard work, rather than cultivating a Song Siming who is in the same boat in the wind and rain and steals joy alone when the sky is sunny.
Song Siming's life for seaweed is an empty joy without landing.
And the life of Xiaobei to seaweed is indeed the sense of security of fireworks in the world.
As for who is more worthy of selection, the details will be known at a glance!
Unfortunately, under the human heart and human nature, people's desires are smoked, and it is not surprising that they miss people who are truly worth cherishing and lose the good times that are worth cherishing.
I only hope that no matter how old you are, you will always remember it soberly: life, always do not get rid of the fireworks of the world, otherwise it will be more than worth the loss.
Sobriety, sanity, and self-control of desire also avoid the tragic end.
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