A person's life has never been inseparable from people coming and going

This is one of the things my mother-in-law told me.

My neighbor has a relative, usually, not much with friends, relatives walk around, the old couple is retired from the enterprise, there is no money, every day on the salary to live. There is only one child, and the work is average, that is, to earn a living money. The child is not currently married. The relationship with his own parent-child sister is also very general, once with the little sister who has been single, he has fought for the property left by his parents, although he can't sell for a few dollars, but it is also money. As a result, the little sister said, although I am a person, my parents were personally taken care of and sent away, if you want to divide the property, you have to wait for me to die. Listening to the mother-in-law, they are not very happy for the sake of the house.

The old two mouths, retired for many years, the old lady has been in poor health, many years of cancer, the first few days did not survive, swallowed the last breath at home. Get dressed, contact the community, make a phone call, and carry yourself down. Father and son put on clothes for the old lady, and I heard that when lifted, the father dragged the old lady's legs and asked the son to hold the old lady's head and lift it down.

No matter how old the child is, it is also a child, and he has never experienced this, so he is afraid of dying. While crying and complaining about the old two mouths, you said that all your life, how come you have not even handed over to a person, you can get out of this door on your own?

The old couple usually did not make any friends, and in addition, their age, relatives and others are also very old. The child also did not have many good friends, his mother died, and there were no friends to help. Come to think of it, it's a very bleak thing.

When I talked about this, both of us and my mother-in-law were sighing, my husband said, Mom, see no, this is the result of what people usually make friends with... The older generation does not give people hearts, and the younger generation does not give up some people. What a tragic result.

Yeah, the result is really pathetic.

When my father-in-law died, we both came home from out of town to mourn. At that time, the husband was really busy, so he found two of his classmates, and his two middle school classmates had been helping him. The third generation of the family, as long as there is a relationship, they all wear filial piety belts, and send my father-in-law's last journey with the etiquette of filial piety and grandchildren. My husband is an only child, and we are super super grateful to these relatives, without their help, we would not be able to get up, let alone do such a thing. Special mother-in-law's friend Uncle Zhang aunt has always been with me, when the master celebrant wants us to do something, I am in the circle, Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang directly tell me what must be, what is not necessary, and other things to pay attention to and so on.

At the time, these relatives were all in their 50s, and our third generation was only 30+ years old. There is no problem with both the body and the experience.

The matter behind the father-in-law was successfully completed. Thanks to the help of relatives and friends at home.

Today, we are all 40+ years old, my mother-in-law, and my parents are also 70+ years old. The luckiest thing every day is that there are no emergency calls of all kinds. Our aunt and grandfather are not in good health, and they have not been able to eat recently, let alone get out of bed. My aunt called my mother-in-law the other day and cried uncontrollably. We were also ready to receive a call at any time and go back to the funeral.

Now think about it, no one has a network.

There are many contacts in the phone, but how many people can really find help?

It is impossible for people to climb into the ground on their own, and they must have the full support of their families and relatives. Every relationship needs to be maintained, and every life needs to move forward and backward together.

Today, I am very touched, when I was young, I always attended the wedding and joyfully went to see the newlyweds enter the hall of happiness. Now we are receiving more and more funeral news, such as the death of XXX's parents or mother,,,,, and then I silently followed the part, but almost did not live. There was instinctive awe and fear in that place, and I really didn't dare to go. But my mother-in-law told me that day, the wedding you can't go, not one of you. Those who can attend the funeral must attend. Especially if the previous generation in the family has passed away, you, as the juniors, must be present. Last year, my brother-in-law suddenly died of a heart attack, and several of our juniors who were able to return to their hometowns all went back. I still have a very good relationship with my sisters. Although we are separated, we are always relatives. Our younger generation will continue to maintain the fun field of the older generation and let the days continue.

Therefore, life is always inseparable from people coming and going, whether it is to greet or send off, I hope that his close people are around! Strive to maintain my social relations, I hope that in the future there will be someone to accompany my son to send me away, my children are not alone, not afraid!