On the afternoon of December 8th, Fangyang Group Trade Union and Lianyungang Bo'ai Social Work Office undertook the public lecture on the education of employees' children with the theme of "Being Wise Parents and Cultivating Excellent Children", and more than 120 employees of Fangyang Group participated in the activity.
As a professional social work organization in Lianyungang, Lianyungang Bo'ai Social Work Office has set up a "Parent Classroom" lecturer group to create a professional team of "experts + famous teachers", absorb famous teachers, psychological counselors and education experts in various fields, and regularly hold "Parent Classroom" activities to improve the quality of family education, spread the new concept of family education, let every child grow up healthy and happy, let every parent care with wisdom, and make every family happy.
This lecture was led by teacher Xu Qian, a family education expert, Who is not only an expert teacher of the "Parent Classroom" lecturer group of fraternal social workers, but also a senior family education instructor of the Jiangsu Provincial Women's Federation "Mo Shuo Family Education" Famous Teacher Studio, who combines some common problems in family education, but parents are weak to solve problems, in the form of interactive simulation, analysis of causes, and guidance to solve, and through unique insights, specific and vivid case sharing, in-depth and simple explanations, Guide parents how to go into the child's heart to communicate frankly with the child, open the bridge of communication between the child and the parent, and educate the parent to be a peaceful and wise parent.
"The most happy is like reading, the most important is like the godson", hoping that the son will become a dragon, and hoping that the daughter will become a phoenix is the general psychology of parents. But I often hear parents complaining: "Children don't like to learn, but they are sad to die, what should I do?" At the beginning of the lecture, Teacher Xu went straight to the point and directly hit the pain points of parents: "How to make children fall in love with learning?" As a parent, you should make your child fall in love with learning through the right educational methods. First, we must be good at discovering and respecting children's interests, and stimulate children's interest in learning. Second, we must create a good learning environment and atmosphere for children. Let them hear and learn consciously, this is the key. Third, we must often encourage children, children are reluctant to learn, very lazy, it is because of lack of motivation, children need our encouragement and respect, children hope that we use an appreciative eye to look at their advantages, pay attention to their progress. ”
At present, family education has risen to an unprecedented strategic height, improving the level of family education of contemporary parents, is a great cause, teacher Xu Qian believes that in the process of implementing the "double reduction" policy, cultivating children's interest in learning, so that children consciously integrate into learning, more important than children learn cultural knowledge. Parents want their children to feel that "learning is so fun - let children learn with interest", and family education is successful.
Confucius said: "If a young person is natural, habit becomes nature", and the educator Mr. Ye Shengtao also said that "the essence of education is to cultivate habits." The importance of habits is self-evident, teacher Xu Qian shared with parents on "helping children develop good learning habits", he stressed: "What really opens up the gap between children is not IQ, but the habits developed from an early age." The cultivation of children's good habits cannot only be hoped for in school, but the words and deeds of parents are the foundation. The formation of good habits in children must be the result of the correct guidance of parents and schools. ”
Finally, Teacher Xu Qian also combined the "True Scriptures" of her own education for her daughter, based on appreciation and encouragement, and discussed with the parents attending the meeting on the topic of "how to create an exciting dream for children".
At the end of the lecture, many parents had further in-depth exchanges with Mr. Xu Qian through interviews, telephone calls, and WeChat, and asked about the time and theme of the next family education lecture. Parents warmly welcomed and thanked the group company for carrying out such activities, and said that the lecture helped the employees solve some confusions and dilemmas in family education.
(Jiangsu Education Hotline Reporter Duoduo)