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The picture shows Zhang Caifen and her son Nannan.
"Baby, look at Mom, your head is on Mom." Zhang Caifen knelt on the ground and kept his son in line of sight, guiding his son to look at him, but 4-year-old Li Haonan heard her voice and just tilted his eyes, but his head did not move. Looking at her son, whose eyes were squinting more and more seriously, Zhang Caifen sighed, thinking that the hospital had to pay again recently, she took out her mobile phone and began to call relatives to borrow money. "NanNan's cerebral palsy has been cured for 4 years, or like that, there is no need to cure it again, you are so young you can have another child, you must not let him drag down your whole life." 」 Relatives on the phone thought they were kindly persuading Zhang Caifen.
The picture shows Nannan crying.
Zhang Caifen did not refute the "good intentions" of his relatives, but he could not mention the borrowing of money again. After hanging up the phone, she looked at Nan Nan, who was playing with herself, in a desperate and powerless mood. At this time, Nan Nan did not know what to think, suddenly turned her head, waved her favorite pony doll at Zhang Caifen, and grinned. The son's innocent smile dispelled the haze in Zhang Caifen's heart, "You are not a burden, you are your mother's eternal baby." She looked at her son and muttered to herself.
The picture shows Zhang Caifen feeding Nannan.
Zhang Caifen's family lives in the countryside of Qujing, Yunnan, in 2017, 8 months pregnant, she suddenly felt stomach pain, was rushed to the local hospital in Qujing by her family, and finally gave birth to her son Li Haonan by caesarean section after several hours of rescue. Nannan, who was born prematurely, was somewhat hypoxic at birth, but fortunately survived without any danger. Although the doctor said that there was nothing to do, but holding her hard-won son, Zhang Caifen still had some uneasiness in her heart, and her son was still having a caesarean section less than a month, so that she always had a heart hanging in the days to come.
The picture shows Zhang Caifen taking care of her son to drink water.
Nan Nan gradually grew up, and the uneasiness in Zhang Caifen's heart became more and more intense, because Nan Nan could not sit upright when she was 8 months old, and she had little strength on her body, and his eyes were always oblique, and he rarely turned his head. Zhang Caifen took her son to Kunming Children's Hospital, and after examination, Nannan was diagnosed with developmental delay and strabismus. The sword hanging in her heart fell, and zhang Caifen's heart was pierced with holes, and she stood in the doctor's office holding her son, her mind was blank, and she barely stood up under the support of her husband.
The picture shows Nan Nan receiving rehabilitation training from a doctor.
"The sooner the child's rehabilitation treatment is done, the better, so that the probability of recovery will be a little greater, if delayed, it may need to be taken care of for a lifetime, unable to take care of themselves." The doctor's words made Zhang Caifen's consciousness gradually clear, yes, sadness can not solve the problem, the son is sick and still needs to be taken care of, he can not fall, Zhang Caifen forced himself to be strong, decided to take his son to start rehabilitation treatment according to the doctor said.
Of the patients in the entire rehabilitation room, Nannan, who is only 8 months old, is the youngest. Zhang Caifen looked at the rehabilitation room and many 7-year-old and 10-year-old children with cerebral palsy were also doing treatment, and when the family said that they had been treated for 4 or 5 years, her broken heart had some comfort. She believes that since other children can get better through rehabilitation, then her Nannan must also be able to, whether it takes 5 years or 10 years, as long as there is hope, she can always persevere.
The picture shows Zhang Caifen practicing walking with her son.
Because Nannan's age is relatively small, when she first started to do rehabilitation, the daily basic training is to climb the circle, the rehabilitation classroom is 60 meters, and Nannan has to climb around the classroom for more than 20 laps every day. In order to encourage her son, Zhang Caifen also knelt on the ground and climbed in circles with Nan Nan. "Climb a little further, yes, baby, climb forward." Zhang Caifen said, while always paying attention to her son's movements, to prevent him from suddenly falling, after climbing a circle down, she was more tired than Nannan. After doing it day after day, Zhang Caifen's palms and knees were grinding out thick calluses.
The picture shows Nannan's treatment room doing rehabilitation training.
In addition to the daily fixed crawling, Nannan also had to do acupuncture treatment, and countless needle holes were pierced on the small body, and even the doctor could not bear to see it. Because of the number of needles, coupled with the pain, Nan Nan will cry as long as she sees the doctor who gave him the needle, but in order to treat, Zhang Caifen had to hug her struggling son tightly and let the doctor give him a needle. Her son was crying, and her heart was dripping blood.
In addition to the long and arduous rehabilitation treatment, Zhang Caifen also has to consider the dilemma brought about by Nannan's high treatment costs, tens of thousands of treatment fees per month are unbearable for the family, and Nannan's rehabilitation treatment is barely maintained with the help of relatives and friends. Because of the economic dilemma, Zhang Caifen had to replace Nannan's nutritional milk with cheap milk powder and rice paste, and she was even more frugal, sometimes in order to save money, Zhang Caifen only ate one meal a day. Under the huge physical and mental pressure, Zhang Caifen's figure became thinner and thinner, and her face was inconsistent with the vicissitudes of age.
The picture shows Nan Nan practicing walking on her own.
Fortunately, Nannan's day-to-day rehabilitation was not in vain, and by the time he was 2 years old, he could already sit on his own, understand speech and react. Although it was only a small improvement, this was enough to make Zhang Caifen ecstatic, and she believed that as long as she persisted, she could wait until the day when her son opened his mouth to call his mother. It's just that her beautiful hopes are soon shattered by reality, nannan is getting older, more and more treatment projects can be done, and with it is more and more expensive treatment fees. In order to let her son continue to receive treatment, Zhang Caifen took Nan nan to a rehabilitation hospital in Qujing with government support and subsidies.
The picture shows Zhang Caifen taking care of Nan Nan to wash her face.
Zhang Caifen rented an 8-square-meter small room outside the hospital, and every day she went out early and returned home late to take Nan Nan to the hospital for rehabilitation treatment. When doing massage in Nannan, because the massage of children with cerebral palsy is not the same as the general massage, it is not only uncomfortable, but it is very painful, and it is necessary to achieve a certain strength to help them relax their muscles in order to have an effect. After 40 minutes of massage, Nan Nan was in pain and rolled on the bed and cried, while Zhang Caifen looked at her "suffering" son and could only hold back her heartache and help the doctor hold Nan Nan's fluttering hands. Zhang Caifen also often follows the rehabilitation teacher to learn, remember the essentials of massage, and massage her son again after returning home at night.
The picture shows Nan Nan doing rehabilitation training under the guidance of a doctor.
However, the suffering is rewarded, Nan Nan can gradually stand up, can also be helped by people to step forward, Zhang Caifen is happy, every day will pay a lot of time to hold Nan Nan's hand to exercise him walking. Because she needed to bend over to guide Nan Nan forward, over the years, Zhang Caifen's lumbar disc herniation became more and more serious, and sometimes she was in pain and could not even walk. "Even if I have to teach him to stand, teach him to walk, teach him to talk over and over again every day, I will not feel tired, as long as one day he can take care of himself and call me a mother, then everything I do is worth it." 」
The picture shows Zhang Caifen sewing baseball.
Physically tired Zhang Caifen did not care, but the financial pressure made her unable to relax. Although Nannan is treated in a rehabilitation hospital with policy subsidies, many projects still need to be paid out of pocket, and this money is still not a small amount. In addition to her own food and clothing, Zhang Caifen also found a manual part-time job of sewing baseballs, sewing a baseball for nearly half an hour, and she could get 2 yuan of income. Zhang Caifen also cherished the salary of 2 yuan and never dared to abandon it, because there was no other income at home except for the meager agricultural income and the husband's monthly work outside the home for more than 2,000 yuan.
The picture shows Zhang Caifen holding Nan Nan to the rehabilitation treatment room.
"Relatives in the family say that I am stupid, in order to treat the child and lose the whole family, it is better to take advantage of the young to regenerate a healthy, but I don't want to, I just need to guard Nannan to see him grow up safely, I don't ask him to be rich and noble in the future, as long as he can take care of himself, I will be satisfied with being healthy and healthy." Zhang Caifen, who has no culture, speaks simple words, but she looks particularly moving. The advice of her relatives never shook her determination to insist on rehabilitating her son, even if the road ahead is difficult and hope is no longer reachable, she will accompany her son to walk fearlessly.
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