Social networking has always been an important part of life, many introverts in the work, because not good at social, not good at communicating with others, in vain missed a lot of opportunities, suffered a lot of losses.
Therefore, many parents now, when their children are young, have begun to pay attention to the cultivation of children's language ability, in order to let children take fewer detours in the future.
Before a parent posted such a video on the social platform, which attracted the attention of many parents, in the video he shared his child's daily life with netizens, the child in the video spoke decently, the speech logic was clear, whether it was with peers or adults, they could get along very well.
In this regard, many netizens lamented that this is really someone else's child, unlike their own children, when they encounter strangers talking, they squeak and whine, and usually talk to adults about things clearly.
Professor Tsinghua's remarks revealed the difference in the future development of children who talk more and those who talk less
In an interview, Tsinghua professor Peng Kaiping talked about the two abilities that talents must have in the future society, the first is the ability to have divergent thinking, and the other is to have the ability to communicate with others.
In his view, the ability to communicate with others is very important, if there is no good communication skills, it is difficult for others to understand their own thoughts, and it is difficult to achieve cooperation with others. Therefore, it is very important to raise a child who "talks a lot".
Children who are good at communicating with others tend to have higher IQs than others
Many successful people tend to be more talkative and able to make others understand their ideas. Even those science and engineering people who are not good at words in the eyes of everyone can clearly explain their ideas to others through their own ideas when discussing their own professions.
There are two areas in the human brain, one is responsible for organizing the language and explaining it to others, and the other is responsible for understanding the meaning that other people want to express in their language.
And children who are good at communicating with others, these two areas tend to be more developed than ordinary children. Children who are more developed in these two regions tend to have much higher IQs than ordinary children.
The reason why this situation occurs is because in our lives and learning, most of us are telling others our ideas, or listening to others.
[Example]: In class, we need to listen carefully to the teacher's lectures and understand the content that the teacher wants to express, which are the most difficult points? Who should seriously study? You need good language comprehension skills.
Children who are good at communicating with others tend to be more cheerful in personality
Ms. Li's son rarely talks to others in his life, does not see his children hanging out with classmates, and basically shuts himself in his room to play games after returning home from school, so his personality has become more and more introverted, and even he has nothing to talk to his parents.
After a conversation with her son, Ms. Li learned that the reason why her son had such a problem was because he was not good at communicating with others, which often caused him to break up without a few words.
In life, children who are good at communicating with others tend to make friends more easily than introverted children. Because they are more able to understand each other's ideas, they can make each other understand their own ideas through their own correct expressions, which are the two most important points of social interaction. Children who are not sociable are the opposite, which is one of the main reasons for their introversion.
How to improve your child's communication skills? Parents do these things to make their children social experts
1) Talk more about things that your child is interested in and guide your child to take the initiative to talk
If you want to communicate with your child in depth, parents must do what they like, talk more about topics that their children are interested in, and then slowly shift from topics that their children are interested in to other topics.
For example, talk about the cartoon that the child is watching recently, let him talk about his views on the various characters in the cartoon, which is actually to improve the child's expression ability in a subtle way, only by letting the child open his mouth more, can the child slowly develop the habit of talking with others.
2) Encourage and praise the child more, do not hit the child
Parents should learn to encourage and praise their children, after the child has made a mistake, in addition to correcting the child's mistake in time, it is not a big deal to encourage the child to make mistakes, everyone will make mistakes, and next time just do it well. After the child completes a thing, parents should learn to praise the child, which can improve the child's enthusiasm, stimulate the child's desire to perform, and improve the child's communication ability.
3) Help with stories
Cultivating children's social skills is not as easy as parents think. Because many parents find that even if they have set a good example for their children, made a demonstration, and told their children a lot of big truths, their children are still not good at socializing.
Then, parents may wish to use the story to help children improve their social skills, after all, children like to listen to stories, and like to imitate, long-term under the influence of the story, children will know more about the unknown scene, when they are in a similar scene, they will naturally think of the plot in the story, and imitate their way of processing, once they get good feedback, children will become more and more confident, and social skills will gradually become stronger.
This "Children's Social Skills Development Class" has 28 humorous short stories, and the stories are classified, such as speaking civility, understanding politeness, making friends by yourself, how to talk to children, and how to play well with children, children often read these stories, but also will be subtly affected, become polite, love to share, good at communication, easy to integrate into the collective.
In addition, behind the story of the book, there are playful and cute pictures, quizzes and interesting interactive question-and-answer sessions, which can attract children's interest, and while playing with children, children will slowly learn how to share and how to socialize.
epilogue
In modern society, verbal communication skills are crucial. Therefore, when the child is young, parents should learn to communicate with the child more, from the bits and pieces of life, to improve the child's language communication ability.
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