Many men will complain, why their wives always suspect themselves of lying, sometimes some white lies will be recognized, every day suspicious, not to check the wallet, or to check the mobile phone, afraid of falling into which corner, every day is like staring at the criminal, interrogating the criminal, simply can't stand the collapse. Some people say that men are most afraid of women guessing, because one guess is right, however, another way of saying that women do not trust men, for men who do not have any problems, once or twice can endure, but many times suspect it. So why are women always suspicious? Let's take a look at it with me!
Women are prone to worry
1: Women are prone to worry
Women are prone to worry, mainly determined by their physiological composition. When worry occurs, the part of the tonsils in the female brain responsible for emotional response becomes unusually dull, while the part responsible for language and abstract thinking is active. At this time, all women's thinking is carried out in the form of language and abstract thinking, and it is difficult for the brain to distinguish the differences between various feelings. When the brain loses its judgment of emotion, the external appearance is worry. And when the brain ends the stage of only thinking and not feeling, that is, when the worry is initially lifted, the various organs of the body will undergo a stress compensatory response, that is, the organs begin to tense automatically. Over time, some women will have intestinal dysfunction, indigestion, and inexplicable pain. This further exacerbated the excessive melancholy symptoms of these women.
2: A woman's personality problem
A woman's personality issues
The influence of personality on people's work and life is very large, part of it comes from genetics, part of it comes from the acquired education methods and living environment. Your early life experiences do have a big impact on your personality because others are unfriendly to you and you are always in an insecure psychological environment. Therefore, you are distrustful of others, and such an attitude will always affect the way you behave.
3: Women are insecure
Women lack security
Many women are prone to insecurity and are very afraid of losing, resulting in a lot of concern for every word and deed of their husbands. In fact, as a man, you should be more tolerant of women, don't think that she doesn't trust herself, but make her believe in herself more.
So how should women adjust themselves when they are suspicious?
4: Academic Society Calm Thinking
Academic Society Calm Thinking
When encountering doubts, first make no conclusions, if things are not urgent, you may wish to wait a few days to see what is going on; if things are urgent, you can find a more trusted superior or colleague to ask the department clearly. Time is the best coolant.
5: Learn some positive psychological defense
Learn some positive psychological defense
For example, to learn to "deny" certain things that are highly doubtful but cannot be confirmed, instead of "forgetting", but "denying", as if it had never happened, treating things that are psychologically or emotionally unwilling to accept as if there were no such things, in order to reduce the psychological burden. That is, to find some "reasonable" reasons for yourself to explain, although these explanations are not necessarily very reasonable, but I emphasize these "reasons" to explain myself, in order to avoid mental distress.
6: Tell him about your insecurities
Tell him about your insecurities
Communication is the best way to solve problems. Communicate with him to find the right time, find the right place, find the right person, and talk to him. Time is when he is in a good mood; the place is that you are alone with him; the object means that you can only talk to him about these things, and it is useless to talk to others; to talk to means that you should speak in a proper tone, not too tough, too tough and can not talk about anything.
Conclusion: A happy marriage must be based on mutual trust, love someone, do not be uninvinthated suspicion. Because suspicion is the beginning of the breakdown of marriage. Your jealousy is the pusher that pushes the other half into the arms of others. A truly intelligent woman who knows how to give a man the warmth of his home, the feeling of love, will make him feel that there is a temperature in the home, not cold, he is willing to chat with you, like you to talk, but also willing to eat your meal, willing to put down the party of friends, more with you, and all this, trust is the foundation, love a person, please give him the greatest trust!