Although the state now advocates late marriage and late childbearing, there are many people who do not want to marry out of fear of marriage, and the biggest difficulty in marriage is to raise children. Especially like now, when both husband and wife have to go out to work, who will take the children has become a very big problem. Especially if the economic conditions at home are not very good, if one of the spouses resigns, then the pressure of family life will rise sharply. Ordinary families can't afford to hire a nanny, so the most common way to think of it is to ask their parents to come and help with their children.
Xiao Zhang and her husband's respective families are ordinary families, and the two of them got married after 4 years of talking. The marriage room is the down payment paid by the in-laws, Xiao Zhang and her husband only need to return the mortgage every month, but as a condition, Xiao Zhang's mother-in-law and father-in-law also live in.
As a contemporary woman, Xiao Zhang does not want to have children as soon as she gets married. And now they still have a mortgage, they need to spend money on daily expenses every month, and they are planning to buy a car, and the financial pressure every month is not small. One more child is equal to a large amount of money, and Xiao Zhang wants to wait for a few years before he has enough money to have children. But the mother-in-law does not think so, since the two people got married, the mother-in-law has been urging to have children early, always nagging about the disadvantages of having children late. And the mother-in-law also told Xiao Zhang that as long as Xiao Zhang gave birth to a child, she would help take the child in the future, and the child's affairs did not need Xiao Zhang to worry about. Later, Xiao Zhang really couldn't stand her mother-in-law's nagging from time to time, and her mother-in-law also said that he would help with the child, plus he actually liked the child very much, so Xiao Zhang began to actively prepare for pregnancy.
Half a year after preparing to get pregnant, Xiao Zhang went to the hospital to check out that she was pregnant, and she told her in-laws the good news. On the phone, Xiao Zhang asked again if I would really help myself with the child, and after getting a positive answer, Xiao Zhang was very happy. Because Xiao Zhang was afraid that her mother-in-law was just a casual word at that time, in case the mother-in-law did not help with the child, then the child did not dare to ask for it at all in terms of the current economic situation. After returning home, the mother-in-law took Xiao Zhang's hand and kept asking this and that, and patted her chest and Xiao Zhang to ensure that she would definitely take the child after the child was born.
Xiao Zhang thought that things would always develop in the expected direction, but did not expect that when the child was 5 months old, the mother-in-law suddenly said that she did not want to take the child at home, her friend found her a job, if he stayed at home with the child, then her insurance was not handed over. The children are 5 months old, Xiao Zhang is not willing to shed the child, Xiao Zhang is angry and helpless, and finally can only compromise with his mother-in-law and promise to help his mother-in-law pay insurance. But after such a long time together, Xiao Zhang found that her mother-in-law was a person who had no integrity in speaking at all, often rebelled, and the things promised today would not be recognized tomorrow. Xiao Zhang is worried that the mother-in-law may not help with the child after the birth of the child.
Xiao Zhang's worry is not wrong, after the child was born, the mother-in-law changed her face again. No matter what Xiao Zhang said, the mother-in-law insisted on not taking the child at home. Xiao Zhang held the child and watched her mother-in-law and husband quarrel in the living room. Before her husband could say anything, her mother-in-law had already made a big fuss, smashed all the things in the house, and then slammed the door and went out.
Because there was no one to take care of the children, Xiao Zhang had to quit his job and become a full-time wife at home. The money earned by the husband working alone is simply not enough for the family's expenses. In desperation, my husband also had to go out to do odd jobs to subsidize the family after work. Even if the money earned in this way is still not enough, Xiao Zhang has no money to buy clothes for his children, but he picks up the clothes worn by other children from relatives.
Xiao Zhang and her husband discussed, this is not the way, it is better to sell the family house, the agent came quickly, the house also talked very smoothly, can not be the mother-in-law reacted, Xiao Zhang and her husband have sold the house. Xiao Zhang and her husband went out to rent a house. They returned the down payment of the house to their mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law was very angry, pointing at the two of them and scolding them, not only that, but also the mother-in-law brought the seven aunts and eight aunts from time to time to scold the two of them for being filial piety. In the past, when there were no children, Xiao Zhang could still compromise with his mother-in-law, but now that he has children, for the sake of the child's future health, Xiao Zhang must fight for himself. Therefore, Xiao Chang and his mother-in-law argued with reason and did not back down. Xiao Zhang asked her husband if it was too much, but her husband said that Xiao Zhang did the right thing.
Later, Xiao Zhang and her husband were really tired of their mother-in-law's behavior, and they told their mother-in-law that if they continued like this, they would break off their relationship. Seeing that her son had made up his mind to stop paying attention to himself, the mother-in-law completely panicked. But the husband told her mother-in-law that after the bridge returned to the bridge and the road returned, they would not contact each other again in the future, and he would not have such a mother. In the future, he only wants to take care of his own small home. The money they also give to their mother-in-law is enough for the mother-in-law to live.
Listening to her husband's words, Xiao Zhang's heart is very warm, her husband understands himself, even if others do not understand, but it is enough to have a husband. Later, the mother-in-law repented and realized how wrong her behavior was. The TV series Xiao Zhang and her husband also forgave their mother-in-law and the family's happy and harmonious life.