The impact of family education on children is of far-reaching significance, if the husband and wife coexist harmoniously and raise students to grow up, children are bound to study hard and not steam steamed steamed buns. But if the couple argues all day, how can they help the child grow up healthily?
Sometimes, for some reason, the couple cannot continue to live and choose to divorce. It's just that the child is suffering, whether it is following the father or the mother, he has to face another relative, the stepfather and stepmother. In the impression, the step-father and step-mother have a really bad attitude towards the child.
Xiao Zou (pseudonym) is a native of Jiangxi, she was young and beautiful at first, but she did not marry a local, but chose to marry in Jining, Shandong. She was married from afar, and she was not familiar with life, but his husband respected him like a guest, and the relationship between the husband and wife was very good.
It's just that the husband is not married and has a 3-year-old child. And Xiao Zou naturally became the stepmother of the child, but she did not want to be talked about by others, wanted to live in harmony with the child, for more than ten years, she did not let the child suffer a little, suffered a little sin.
The boy has affection and uses the bonus to buy earrings for his stepmother
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, 18 years have passed. Xiao Zou, who was once young and beautiful, has a lot of wrinkles on his face, and her husband is running for life, and he also has a few strands of white hair on his head. It's just that the child who didn't understand the world at the beginning has become a 21-year-old college student and has matured a lot.
The child studied hard from an early age, and was bound to repay the kindness of his parents with the title of the gold list, and with his personal efforts, he also entered the university campus. The 21-year-old, currently in the second grade of school, worked weekdays and won a scholarship of 6,000 yuan, but he did not spend it carelessly.
I don't know if it was a long time of thought, or a whim, the child chose to buy a pair of earrings for Xiao Zou. Not only that, the child also prepared gifts for other families, just for the stepmother, which is indeed different: a thousand yuan earrings, pinning the child's strong love.
The stepmother has love, and is moved to tears in an instant
Hard work to raise the child for more than ten years, do not ask for any return, only hope that he can study well, grow up to be able to get ahead. Perhaps Xiao Zou is too good to the child on weekdays, so that the child does not think that Xiao Zou is a stepmother, so he carefully selected this gift for Xiao Zou.
What is this concept? As a restructured family, it is difficult for children to trust themselves and treat themselves as a family. But Xiao Zou did it, and she pinned her wish on action, so that the child could feel the warmth and care of her mother.
When the gift given by the child was opened, Xiao Zou was instantly moved, and tears slid across his cheeks, which was not only touching, but also sad. Laughing and laughing, I cried, this gift may not be much to others, but it is extremely valuable to Xiao Zou.
When I was a child, I resisted the wind and rain for you, and when I was old, I needed you to protect me thoroughly
Xiao Zou has lived in this family for 18 years, and many stepmothers are prejudiced against their children, and children do not like stepmothers. However, the relationship between Xiao Zou and the child is not as stiff as others think, but Xiao Zou cares for the child well, and the child also remembers it.
Even if he and her husband have a daughter, they do not look at their children differently. As the years passed, Xiao Zou guarded the family for 18 years and carefully cared for her husband's son. Although he is not his own son, Xiao Zou's care for the child is better than his own.
Sincerely care for and care, carefully nurture the growth of children, Xiao Zou did it. She used her own actions in exchange for the child's return, 6,000 yuan scholarship, he took out more than 1,000 yuan, bought a pair of earrings for the stepmother, enough to prove that Xiao Zou has a heavy weight in the child's heart.
When Xiao Zou shared this joy with others, she left a sentence: "True heart for true heart, although it is a stepmother, but it is better than her own birth, when you were a child, I resisted the wind and rain for you, and when I was old, you protected me thoroughly." Simple words, but a strong parent-child feeling.
Filial piety comes first, which is an example for us to learn
From ancient times to the present, how many people have passed on this excellent culture and derived many real stories. But it is easier said than done, not to mention the relationship between the biological mother and son, the relationship between the stepmother and the stepson has always been delicate and unpredictable.
Xiao Zou married from Jiangxi and formed a perfect family with her husband, even if he had a son? Xiao Zou takes good care of the child and treats him like his own son. In 18 years, the child can also feel Xiao Zou's love, that kind of mother-child affection.
This sophomore told us with his actions what filial piety is first. He is an example for us to learn from, not to mention the relationship with our stepmother, if we can be down-to-earth filial piety to our biological parents, how can it not be a kind of happiness?
True heart for sincerity, in order to get real happiness, rather than deceitful mutual suspicion, real feelings need not be said much, are pinned on daily actions. The thousand-dollar stud earrings condensed not only a thousand yuan, but the son's gratitude for his mother's care for many years.
What do you think?