As parents, how do we view our children's homework? In fact, many parents attach great importance to the quality of their children's academic performance, and the management of their children's learning is of course very strict.
For example, arbitrarily interfering in children's activities, harshly stipulating children's reading time, homework time, and make-up time, but rarely personally participating in the child's learning activity process.
It is conceivable that such a strict supervision of the child is only a phenomenon, superficial, and does not fit the child's mind and soul to a high degree.
If parents want to truly achieve the effectiveness of their children's management, they must enter the child's heart, share the pain and happiness with the child, share the sorrow and joy, and advance and retreat together. So, what can parents do to get into their children's hearts?
Here, the author introduces a practical method, that is, parents often read their children's homework books, and parents often take time to look at their children's homework books, which is conducive to accurately grasping the children's recent learning.
Therefore, we believe that the child's homework book is not only one of the ways for parents to enter the child's inner world, but also an important link to communicate between parents and children's subject teachers and understand their children's growth.
Therefore, as a parent, you must learn to read your child's homework book.
1, to "read" frequently. Parents should not read their children's homework books because they are busy at work; do not think that learning is the business of the children themselves and the school teachers, and do not read the children's homework books.
Regularly read children's homework books, parents should be expensive in persistence. Read it over and over again, back and forth. Look, did you understand the previous mistake?
The quality of the read and write assignments has improved. For example, the child will show the high-scoring test paper to the parents, and accordingly, the low-score test paper will be hidden.
The school's teaching has regularity, if each subject, each unit has a test question, it will not be three days of fishing and two days of drying the net to do several spot checks, parents can see the learning progress according to the homework, know which unit is tested, which unit is also about to test.
Once parents find abnormal clues in their children's homework, they should ask them carefully and seriously, and they can also avoid students from passing through the barrier.
2. "Read" reflectively. When parents are together or talking to their children's classroom teachers, they will say that my child is slow to do homework and my child is sloppy in doing homework. Some children are weak in science, and some children are strong in liberal arts, which is a rough summary of children's learning.
In view of the weaknesses in learning, parents should insist on being the backing of their children over the years and help their children develop good habits. From writing posture to careful completion of homework, this process requires interaction between children and parents.
Parents can't understand, at least they will look neat; if they can't help knowledge, they should also try to do more auxiliary work to guide children to take the initiative to learn. What children are asked to do, parents themselves should set an example.
3. "Read" appreciatively. Read the child's homework book, while understanding, to discover the child's advantages, to learn to appreciate. Good writing should be praised in time, and beautiful pictures should be praised in time.
Going from praise to encouragement is the perfect way to teach children. For example, if your English is so good, it means that your brain is smart and it will not be difficult to learn mathematics; if you sing so well, you must have no problem taking physical education class, and so on.
For example, children with average grades, or children with poor grades, once the quality of homework has improved, it means that the child has made progress in learning, the attitude is correct, the quality has improved, etc., should be affirmed in time, so that the child is constantly maintained and improved in the parents' motivation.
Appreciate, encourage, understand and use, learn to appreciate, you learn to have, you have the child's recognition of themselves.
If parents can understand their children from their children's homework, it should be said that it is an easier and effective way. To understand the child's inner world, it is recommended that parents be patient and carefully read the child's homework, but also read the child's heart.