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Who loves or hates more? Who has more power?
Let's first analyze how love and hate affect us for ourselves.
Then analyze what effects love and hate have on others for the outside world.
Some people's success actually comes from hate, which can also be said to be revenge.
People have different motivations to do things, and different efforts come from different hearts.
Hatred will produce great power in a person's heart, called this hatred will not be repaid, and the oath will not be human.
Some people grow up being bullied by others and their hearts are full of hatred.
The poorer he was when he was a child, the more he was looked down upon, the more devastated he became, the stronger his desire to make money and take revenge became.
I asked my brother-in-law why you were so desperate to do business. He said that because he had been looked down upon by others before, he must get ahead.
If you look at those who are mixed up in society, which one is not full of wolf nature in his heart.
And those who have not been destroyed since childhood, and who grew up in the greenhouse every day, are now lying flat.
Therefore, the motivation of man is from the heart of revenge.
Thinking from the perspective of a master of human nature, there is really no need to care about what others say and look down on yourself.
But from the perspective of career and caring about what others say, it can make us full of motivation to prove ourselves.
Therefore, whether or not others say it should be measured by whether it is used or not. As long as it helps me, I should use this sense of revenge.
OK, let's look at love and hate, which is more powerful for your enemy.
In fact, love is better than hate, which can dissolve hatred, because hatred will grow and grow bigger in revenge.
If one person hates you and you respond with love, the other person will become an emotional product after the conflict between love and hate.
You're adding a dose, and the other person will suspect that there's something wrong with their hate. His hatred will collapse because of love and lose its strength.
Hate can only breed hate
Love can only make love
This is called planting what cause, what effect will be obtained.
Those who want to get revenge through hatred to hurt themselves will fall into a cycle of pain, and those who want to exorcise hatred through love will enjoy pleasure and self-confidence.
For example, your parents hurt you, and then you go crazy to retaliate against them, I want to ask, will you be happy?
But on the other hand, my parents hurt me and treated me badly, but I still filial piety to them.
Then my heart will be very open, and secondly, the heart of my parents will be condemned by conscience.
The same is true between husband and wife, retaliating against each other will only make the snowball roll bigger and bigger, and most lead to divorce.
Suppose your other party hurts you three times, you use love to return the other party three times, the other party still does not understand gratitude, indicating that the other party is not a person, then you can divorce the other party.
But you are also not qualified to hate the other person, because the person is chosen by you, it is your own responsibility, and it has nothing to do with the other party.
Of course, there is a premise here, that is, only when everyone is equally strong, or your strength is above each other, your love can dissolve the hatred.
A useless waste, even if it is as good as a thousand, all kinds of love, you can't feel the slightest bit
A person who is better than you is a little bit better to you, you can take this point and magnify it to ten million times
The least valuable thing in the world is the lack of strength to pay, and the gentleness to achieve nothing.
For those who look down on you, fight back fiercely, take revenge, because your love is not worth much.
For a person of equal strength and weaker than yourself, conquer him with love, because your love is valuable.
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