Can you accept cross-border marriages going to Africa, Chinese girls marrying far away from Africa, this sounds unreliable, but this happened to female graduate students who graduated from Tsinghua University.
She had excellent grades and excellent looks, but in the end she married Africa for love, took care of ten mothers-in-law, and wasted her great future.
Today's life makes people sigh, how can a talented Tsinghua girl marry far away in Africa?
25 years ago, Wang Lihong, a female high school student who graduated from Tsinghua University, was almost filled with this sentence. And the source of all this, only because he fell in love with a black African,
As soon as Wang Lihong was born, she was the "child who won at the starting line" in most of the population.
She was born in Beijing, and her family has an older sister, but her parents have stable jobs, so the sisters and brothers eat and wear without worry.
In that era of material scarcity, she had left many people behind as soon as she was born, and as the pearl in the palm of her family, her parents had great hopes for the sisters, hoping that they would be able to get ahead and grow into the best talents.
She has not lived up to her mother's hopes, and has always been an excellent student in the eyes of teachers and a well-behaved and sensible child in the eyes of parents.
In the blink of an eye, Wang Lihong was admitted to Beijing No. 4 Middle School with quite excellent results, and she has been studying diligently and diligently for three years in high school.
In that era of lack of college students, she once again became the pride of her parents and was admitted to Tsinghua University with her own efforts. Born well, with a good education, she will have a bright future.
After arriving at the university, Wang Lihong was pursued by many people, and she was regarded as the girl in her heart by countless boys, but the arrogant Wang Lihong all refused.
No one would have thought that the goddess in the eyes of many boys would finally be chased by this black boy.
The black boy was Suma, an international student from Africa.
In 1990, Wang Lihong graduated with a bachelor's degree, and she continued to stay at Tsinghua University to pursue a master's degree. So Su Ma, who was also studying for a master's degree, met Wang Lihong.
At first, Wang Lihong did not have much good feelings for this black boy, and in that era, everyone still had some prejudices against Africans.
But gradually, In the process of getting along with Suma, Wang Lihong found that Suma loved to learn, he was humorous and funny, and helpful. In daily life, Suma gave him meticulous care,
Wang Lihong has no intention of falling in love with him, because she has no intention of leaving her hometown. After all, his next life will be smooth, and the ordinary show of love for Suma 99 was touched by Suma.
She agreed to Suma's date, and the two fell in love on the Campus of Tsinghua. Wang Lihong, who is immersed in love, is happy, and she never expected that their love would be so difficult.
Love of different skin colors was doomed from the beginning to be full of bumps in the road, and the news of two people being together spread on campus. Gossip poured down on her and Suma,
Wang Lihong recalled those days when they all said I was a casual girl.
A girl who can date anyone casually, she was under considerable pressure in that era of considerable fame.
The eyes of others Wang Lihong can not care, but her parents' strong obstruction surprised her, but unfortunately the good times were not long, and their love affair was known by Wang Lihong's parents.
No one in the past would have consented to this affair with a black son-in-law, and no parent would have wanted to marry their children to Africa and suffer. What's more, Wang Lihong has always been the pearl in their hands,
Her parents tried their best to block the two, and her parents even threatened her by severing the relationship and forcing them to break up. But for the persistent Wang Lihong, it has no effect,
In order to continue to break up their parents, wang Lihong was sent to Japan to study.
But what they did not expect was that Suma chased all the way to Japan. Say anything to be with Wang Lihong,
The discussion between the parents and the people around them strengthens the feelings between them. Wang Lihong's parents saw that the obstruction was fruitless, and her daughter was so persistent, and finally her parents softened their hearts.
They finally agreed to the marriage, and on the day of the engagement, Wang Lihong's mother cried and blushed, thinking that her daughter would go to suffer when she married into Africa. It is even more difficult to let go of the heart,
However, parents still want their daughters to be happy, so they don't say anything more.
In 1993, Wang Lihong officially married Suma, and soon after, Wang Lihong gave birth to a mixed-race baby. Three years later, Su Ma and Wang Lihong officially graduated from Tsinghua University.
A big problem they faced after graduation was that Suma was going to return to their home country. His family was in Africa, and her hometown needed her
Wang Lihong, who loves her husband deeply, made a painful and difficult decision. He's going to take his daughter and Summa back to live in Africa.
This walk meant that they would have to settle in Africa completely. No matter what life is like in Africa, even if they suffer and suffer, they can only grit their teeth and insist, but Wang Lihong's future love still follows Suma to their hometown of Uganda.
Suma's hometown is one of uganda's oldest villages, where people maintain the most primitive living habits. I have always lived on a stove, occasionally using electricity,
And what made Wang Lihong most difficult to accept was that they slept under the tree.
The whole village is Islamic, so the women here have to live in a headscarf, and she also has to go to the countryside to live with a headscarf.
Not only that, but women are of a very low status here, all men have more than one wife, and only men can sit in chairs, and women have to kneel on the ground.
After arriving here, Wang Lihong made sufficient psychological preparations, but there was still a huge contrast with her imaginary life.
Suma's father was the chief of an ancient tribe, with ten wives alone and 45 of Suma's siblings. Fortunately, his family was rich enough that Wang Lihong's first day in Africa was plagued by a huge problem.
Su Ma introduced him to his ten mothers, how she should get along with ten mothers-in-law, and what made Wang Lihong even more headache was that the local area would also cut off water and electricity from time to time.
Wang Lihong is not accustomed to eating local food, she can only cook her own meals, and there is no water, no bathing, and no cooking when cooking
Strange customs of lifestyle. This made Wang Lihong, who had not been worried since she was a child, have words of suffering in her heart, she had the idea of giving up, she began to miss her hometown, but he still gritted his teeth and persevered.
As the days passed, Wang Lihong was able to live comfortably in the local area, and soon she became pregnant again. The birth of his son made Suma love him even more,
After that, Wang Lihong gave birth to a daughter, a family of five, and the scene of melting. It strengthened her determination to live in Africa.
Soon their four children were born, and they thought it was a lucky little angel, after all, he was Wang Lihong's 40-year-old who risked his life.
But just when my youngest son was one year old, bad news struck that he was infected with malaria. Malaria is a hopelessly serious illness for impoverished Africa.
They took their young son around for medical treatment, but there was still no cure. Soon after, the younger son died, and the death of the younger son dealt a heavy blow to Wang Lihong.
A great thought arose in her mind, he wanted to change the situation, even if it was a spark, insignificant, she still wanted to do something.
In the 25 years since his marriage to Suma, China-Uganda relations have flourished during a period of great increase in relations between China and Uganda.
In 2010, SuMa and Wang Lihong spent all their savings to buy a school in Uganda and started a middle school named Luyangzi Chinese Middle School.
Wang Lihong became the principal, this school gave Uganda great hope, at first this school was a bad boy shelter, Wang Lihong took over and began to carry out centralized renovation of the school.
In the time that Wang Lihong took over, the middle school, which was originally known as a bad boy shelter, slowly became a well-known local school.
With her knowledge, she opened a lot of interesting Chinese classes, under his teaching, many students began to master the Chinese language also has a strong interest in China.
Watching these children slowly get on the right track, she felt that it was worth it to be tired no matter how hard she was.
More and more students began to enter the school, and later Wang Lihong felt that her own strength was limited, and the children she could teach were also limited, so she set her sights on the teachers in Uganda.
The Chinese she taught to the teachers has teachers who continue to join the school, the name of the school is getting better and better, and the school is getting bigger and bigger.
Wang Lihong also often finds financial support for some poor children, and slowly, more and more children are successfully admitted to universities after graduating from here.
Wang Lihong's education in Africa has also begun to flourish. She became the backbone of Uganda's education and was respected by the locals.
The same is true of what she does. To promote the influence of our motherland in Africa, she has made great contributions to the cultural exchanges between China and Uganda.
Now that 25 years have passed, Wang Lihong is still tirelessly doing education in Africa, and during this period, African society has also undergone tremendous changes.
Women have long become the backbone force in the development of the country, and Wang Lihong is still controversial.
Some people say that he graduated from Tsinghua University and finally went to other countries to become a teacher, which is simply a waste of the precious teaching resources of the motherland.
Some people also say that for love to go away and dare to pursue their own happiness, this is what many people dare not do, and Wang Lihong said that he will always be Chinese.
No matter where she is, she hopes that more people will understand China and speak Chinese, so there is no right or wrong in her life, and in the end, she will live up to herself, which is the most correct choice.