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This life is not easy, and the pain, torture, difficulties and lows experienced along the way are really too much.
In this life, if people want to live themselves well, if they want to live out their charm and brilliance, they must go through a lot of efforts.
In the first half of your life, you have lived into the appearance that others like, you have lived in the expectations of others, only forgetting yourself, forgetting your dreams, forgetting your own attachments.
When you are a teenager, you study well, hoping to become a child that the teacher likes, and hope to become a good child in the mouth of the parents.
After joining the work, you dare not relax at all, work hard, and hope to get the approval of colleagues and bosses.
You always think that it is good to be middle-aged, who knows that people reach middle age, but they have to bear the pressure of being old and having small ones, even if they are doing jobs that they don't like, they don't dare to resign easily, because when people reach the age of forty, the risk of finding a job is too great.
When you need comfort, when you need strength, the people around you can't understand, and you still think that you are living too pretentiously.
Who doesn't live like this, whether it's a matter of doing it or making it up, isn't it all like this, living a lifetime? But what you want is so different; what you want is not to live like someone else, you want to have your own special.
When you reach middle age, when you see everything around you, everyone needs you, everyone depends on you, there is no one around you who can be relied on, you don't even have people who speak from the heart.
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When you reach middle age, you need a person with a soul. Because you know that the people around you, no one can count on, you should find more of an outlet for your emotions.
Someone said, "A soul mate is a person with whom we feel deeply connected, as if communication and exchange with each other is not out of the deliberate efforts of mortals, but by the guidance of God." This relationship is so important to the soul that it can be said that nothing is more precious in life. ”
When a person reaches middle age, it is truly lucky and precious to meet a person whose soul is accompanied by his soul.
She is the only person who can understand you spiritually and emotionally, support you, and comfort you, rather than just looking at your status and status and treating you differently.
When you meet a real soul mate, you find that Heaven has never treated you harshly, it really treats you not thinly, so you can meet, your soul mate in this life.
You are so agreeable, he seems to be another you, those others do not understand you, in front of him, you do not need to do anything, he can understand and understand.
Once you thought that you were the loneliest person in the world, now you know that there is really another you in this world.
When people reach middle age, the biggest fate is that they can still meet a soul mate, and you now understand yourself better, the meaning of displacement and hard work in the first half of your life.
The most important thing in a person's life is that there is a person who can rely on each other, and there is a person who can understand you, understand you, and tolerate you.
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And this feeling between you really has nothing to do with love, what you want is that your souls depend on each other.
When people reach middle age, they meet a soul mate, which has nothing to do with love, nothing to do with the desires of the body, but the hearts of the two of you are together.
You are in different places, but your hearts can be connected to each other.
When you meet a true soul mate, you never think about disturbing the happiness and family of others, nor did he think of disturbing your happiness and family, you are a kind of sympathetic friendship.
When you want to help, he will help you without hesitation; when he needs help, you will also help him without hesitation, you have no idea of each other, only hope that you can give each other the help you can, so that the other person's life will bear less pain.
It is difficult, it is more difficult for people to reach middle age, but because of the existence of the soul to accompany people, you feel that your life has a new meaning.
When you reach middle age, the soul mate you meet may be someone of the same sex as you, or it may be a friend of the opposite sex.
The feelings between you are beyond the worldly love and beyond the existence of gender, and you are the two people in the world who know each other and are most similar.
When people reach middle age, the person who really makes you comfortable must be your soul mate.
Some people, no matter how much you give, he is still not appetizing to you; some people, no matter what you give him, he feels that you take it for granted; and others, no matter what you say, he feels that he is talking to the chicken and the duck.
The soul mate that belongs to you, you have the same energy, you have similar magnetic fields, so you are attracted to each other, so you are so similar.
You're with some people and you feel exhausted, as if he's sucked all the energy out of it because your energy is higher than the others, and when he complains to you, when he gets close to you, that's when he absorbs your energy.
It is precisely this kind of person, the person you need to stay away from, because he cannot give you any help except for the negative energy in his own body that he cannot give you.
And some people, as long as you get close to him, your body is like being illuminated by the sun, warm, full of spirit, full of strength, that is, the person who gives you strength, the person who is giving you energy, this is also the person who nourishes you, and the person who accompanies your soul.
Someone said: "When a person reaches middle age, he often feels lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, there is no one around to rely on." ”
When people reach middle age, they are always full of loneliness and impermanence, and people you think you can see again suddenly never see again.
Fortunately, the person who is with your soul can dispel your loneliness, and when you feel the impermanence of fate, he can let you know that life is the greatest constant.
The best encounter in this life is that when you go to the road of middle age, you can still meet the soul mate who truly belongs to you.
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