On the wedding day, the bride ran away because of 3,000 yuan throwing away the next month old baby, and the husband of the mother treasure was silent.
"Once upon a time, the carriage and horse were very slow, the letters were far away, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime." Perhaps only in the previous era had such pure love. Today, the most enviable thing is not the couple who hug each other on the street corner, but the elderly couple who are in love with each other. With the progress of society, the development of the economy, and the opening of people's minds, the word "feelings" has become less pure and firm. It's more about seeing different things after ten thousand years.
So when such news breaks out frequently, many people are full of fear of marriage. However, this fear is not resistance, but to make yourself fully prepared and carefully considered before choosing. Because marriage is full of too many unknowns, choosing well is the temple of marriage, and choosing wrong is the grave of marriage. Especially for children, it is a great injustice.
Such an unfair incident occurred in a rural area of Guizhou: Han Jun and Sun Xiaojie were high school classmates, both of whom were in their teens, and the two became lovers in a long-term relationship, and after graduating from high school, they went out to work together. The vigorous love affair also began to waver after seeing the lights outside, and the two chose to break up in December 2020. From warm to calm, and all quickly began a new relationship. In fact, it is also excellent that a relationship can afford to put it down, but things do not end there.
In mid-November 2021, Han Jun had just finished getting married to his current girlfriend, but a phone call shattered their happiness and vision of the future. Han Jun suddenly received a call from his ex-girlfriend Sun Xiaojie, and all he heard on the phone was Sun Xiaojie's helpless and frightened sobs, "I am in the hospital, I am going to give birth, it is our child." You come, I'm alone afraid. Sun Xiaojie said silently. Han Jun was directly stunned, hesitated for a long time, or rushed to the hospital.
Because she had children out of wedlock, Sun Xiaojie did not dare to tell her parents, and had no choice but to call Han Jun. No one ever thought that the lives of the three people were completely disrupted by the plot of this dog's blood. Han Jun's parents, who have always been partial to their daughter-in-law, immediately changed the direction of the wind after knowing that Sun Xiaojie gave birth to a son. Without asking why, they say that they must be taken home and are responsible for them. The sudden appearance of an ex-girlfriend, as well as the sudden arrival of a child, turns the girl who is supposed to be the bride into an outsider.
What is even more ridiculous is that Han Jun's parents are immersed in the joy of holding their grandson, and they can't wait to change the wedding that has been scheduled for December 27 to the grandson's full moon wine. He said, "Just happened to be the son's wedding and the grandson's full moon wine together." But at this time, the daughter-in-law became Sun Xiaojie.
For everything that came suddenly, Han Jun did not refuse, but he was not very happy, and he even doubted whether the child was his own. However, parents are not allowed to do the identification. Confused and become a father. But more than that, on the wedding day, the bride left her one-month-old baby and ran away. The reason is because of the 3,000 yuan change fee. Before getting married, Sun Xiaojie's mother-in-law said: You see, we are all ready for marriage, and building this house has not cost you money, or the bride price will not be used. When the time comes, we will give you a 3000 change fee. Sun Xiaojie also readily agreed. Because she can't take care of the children alone. I don't ask too much.
However, on the day of the wedding, the mother-in-law repented, and even said straightly: I will not give, can you still not marry this marriage. The small one has more places to spend money later, but we still spend money. Sun Xiaojie was so aggrieved that tears swirled in her eyes, she regretted it, she didn't want to be so humiliated as an appendage. Waiting until the evening, after most of her relatives had left, she quietly climbed out of the window and ran while Han Jun and his family were greeting the relatives who were left behind. Only the children who are still asleep are left. The wedding went from one joke to another bigger joke.
The next day, the news that the bride left the child and ran away on the day of her wedding became the talk of the village. It was said that Han Jun was too unproductive to even control his daughter-in-law. Some people also say that Sun Xiaojie is an unscrupulous person, this child is estimated to be someone else's, looking for someone to take over. Some relatives came up with the idea to let them send their children or go for identification, and if they were not their own, they called the police. However, Han Jun's parents, who want to die for face, firmly believe that their children are their own, and after struggling for a while, Han Jun can only choose to raise themselves. Some people think that he is weak and cannot keep his marriage, and some people think that he is pitiful and that he must take on the responsibility of being a father at a young age.
But the poor man must have something to hate, if he can be an opinionated person, do not let his parents take care of everything, maybe things will not develop like this. A man who listens to the wind is rain, likes to go along with others, can't make up his mind about anything, and asks his parents for advice, how to support a marriage? And how to support a child's future? No woman in such a marriage would be happy.
But when everyone is pitiful or blaming adults, what did he do wrong with a baby who was still swaddled and waiting to be fed? Adults' marital misfortunes and misfortunes are their own choices, and every new life, they do not even have the opportunity to choose. I have not even seen the blossoming of the world, and I will experience the devastation of my parents' marriage.
What is the meaning of marriage? In fact, when two people benefit more together than one person, marriage will exist. If your partner is not capable of sheltering you from the wind and rain, but he is himself a storm, it is doomed to the failure of the marriage.