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What happened in the Yi neighborhood of my sister's family (9)
Before, I only heard that my sister's family had a bookkeeping book, but today I have seen it. From 2017 to 2022, a total of five pages, visual inspection of 500, 1000 many, and a few 5000, about 890,000 or 100,000 looks, really want to shock me!
In the past few years, relatives and friends who have just married have sent out so much, no wonder the sisters say that they can't save money for a day, either this marriage or that lives in a new house, or the dead, anyway, they have to go, they have to give money when they go, and they can't get money out of it. Now at least five hundred starts.
Today, my sister and brother-in-law went to the banquet again early in the morning, and someone called to ask the child to get married and had to go.
My sister was in a hurry to change her clothes and said that we had made our own breakfast and eaten it ourselves.
When I left, I didn't know how much money to take, so I said I would take a thousand with me first, and then I'll see how much to give.
I said you haven't asked for this yet, someone has invited you first!
The sister laughed and said that this is a family, and there are two gifts to be rushed on the 24th. In the countryside, the more people get married, the more they have to celebrate the New Year.
I sighed: Why so much?! How much do you have to give away?
My sister said that she would have to take it back anyway, only to save money!
After my sister left, I kept sighing.
Teacher Zhao and I live in Xi'an, even if I am not familiar with life, there are few friends and no relatives, colleagues, usually have not encountered this kind of thing, even if we are in Xinjiang, the unit colleagues get married, I will also bring money to go.
However, I have never thought of sending the money in a notebook like my sister now, and when my children get married or do something, they have to get the money back.
My sister said that this is their custom here, the family is like this, and the money sent out will be recovered when the time comes.
I said what if I can't get it back?
The brother-in-law said that they have such a thing here, if you went to send him money when he was running errands, and now your family is running errands, you call him, if he doesn't come, someone will hang a piece of meat at his doorstep, which means to upset his face, to see if he is still a good person?! Let the neighbors or the people in the village come to see him laugh and make him unable to lift his head.
In this way, he has no money to borrow money and has to return the money he received from others, and he still has to pay back more. For example, if you give him 500, he will pay you back 600 or 700.
Therefore, generally there is no money here that is not repaid.
The sister said that Zhaojue once had a family, and when he first collected money and collected it comfortably, he was also comfortable in returning the money. Why? He said you can't collect money for others to kill pigs, sheep and cows? That's all money! Kill enough for those people to eat."
Of course, eating is very wasteful, and in the end the ground is thrown everywhere, that is all money! Later, if you want to pay back other people's money, you have to pay back more, that is not to collect money and collect comfort, and the money is also comfortable?!
In short, the more you ask for more, the more you spend, and the money you collect may be just enough money for the banquet, but the more money you collect, the more you pay back, right?
Therefore, this time their son got married, saying that he was not ready to do a big job, so he called those who had given money, that is, those who were written in the book, as long as they could get the money back.
Friends, I wonder what your customs are like there? Is this also the way the money sent out has to be repaid? [Shy] [Prayer]
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