In the last month of 2021, the most important melon in the entertainment industry appeared:
Late at night on the evening of December 17, the first generation of "high-quality idol" Wang Lihong, following the divorce storm, was hammered by his ex-wife Li Lianglei with the hammer of Thor. These include, but are not limited to, the king's marital infidelity, dating, summoning prostitutes, ma bao male, bisexuality, widowed marriage, bullying...
After reading Miss Li Lianglei's 5,000-word complaint, I was angry and heartbroken.
She is logical and rigorous, gentle and powerful indicted the evil deeds of scumbags. Her 5,000-word essay is both introspective and sobering.
And these 3 pieces of advice about marriage and love, I hope all girls will remember!
01 Stay away from the "garbage" man
"Garbage" men include mommy men, violent men, and spiritually desolate men. To put it bluntly, they are unscrupulous, morally corrupt, selfish... Being close to this type of man will only make it more unfortunate.
Emotionally, "garbage" men can't provide you with love and respect, they just keep plugging you up.
Miss Li Lianglei mentioned in the text that Wang cheated on her in marriage, contracted p, and summoned prostitutes, and also joined her family to constantly humiliate and coldly violence her.
Materially, the "garbage" man clings to his financial power, is only calculating and wary of you.
Miss Li Lianglei was forced by the king to sign an "unequal" treaty before marriage, and the other party was scheming and held the private property tightly, which she tolerated.
But what is infuriating is that the marital property of the two working together has also been swept away by the king. The house was in the name of Mother Wang, and the property was also transferred very clean, for fear that she would take advantage of half of the "cheap".
Seeing this, across the screen, you can also feel chills, fear and discomfort.
I thought that the fairy tale Prince Charming and Snow White would eventually live a happy life, but I didn't think that the prince was just a papier-mâché prince, in the end, a piece of garbage.
Girls, before falling in love, must learn to identify "garbage people".
No matter how powerful the idol aura is, it can't hide that ugly and dirty heart, and no matter how gorgeous the appearance can't hide its selfish and greedy nature.
When the other party can neither provide you with emotional value nor provide you with a material basis, disgusting and humiliating you all day, run away.
02 Don't flood the Virgin's Heart
I once heard such a saying: A girl must not flood the heart of the Virgin, some people have no heart, and his blood is cold. Don't try to save him, his heart has long been twisted, and the only people who can save him are the doctor and himself.
In the marriage relationship, we must also keep this in mind: do not let the virgin heart flood
Miss Li mentioned in the text that before marriage, she actually knew that Wang had behaviors such as summoning prostitutes and dating p, but when Wang sincerely shared her inner loneliness and secrets with her, she still felt moved, thinking that Wang's image was so high-quality, it should be hurt by what kind of harm.
Therefore, she constantly tolerated and tolerated, thinking that she would impress the character of the king.
One side is weak, the other is strong, and once the payment is not equal, the relationship will become unfortunate.
In Miss Li Lianglei's 5,000-word long complaint, she faced "the sense of role in the marriage relationship", "the dilemma of the full-time wife", "the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", "widowhood parenting", "not being respected"... Pulling out one alone is enough to suffocate.
And all of this, she experienced for 8 years.
Fortunately, she finally saw the person in front of her completely and stopped the loss in time. Even if you are injured all over the body, you must bring your own experience and reflection to more girls and wake up more girls.
There is a saying on the Internet: Girl, you must be mentally independent, independent in personality, and free in the economy. When you have enough confidence and self-confidence, and have outstanding wisdom and ability, it is possible to avoid falling into the scam of marriage and love, and get rid of misfortune in time.
Girls, don't be blinded by love. One wrong step, one wrong step.
If you fall into an unfortunate emotional relationship, you must also stop the loss in time.
Cultivate yourself first, then cultivate love.