"The path to true love is not smooth." — Shakespeare
On March 3, 1996, duras, the female writer who could write about love the most and was most eager to enjoy it, died in the arms of her lover.
Some people say that her life is rotten, but she does use her life and works to make more people bravely pursue love.
As Shakespeare said at the beginning, the real love process in the world will be full of ups and downs, and this small woman Duras, who is only one meter and five meters tall, really makes too many people have a new understanding of love.
From the fairytale first love of teenagers to the 66-year-old falling in love with a 28-year-old boyfriend, Duras is destined to be the most blooming rose above love.
The girl is petite and cute when she first grows up, and her first love makes her fascinated by the taste of love
Duras was born on April 4, 1914 in what was then Indochina, an authentic French who came to the Indian colony because her parents wanted to pursue wealth.
And this is also doomed, Duras's life trajectory, from birth, is very different from other French girls.
Unfortunately, when Duras was seven years old, his father died, and his mother contracted a rice field on her own to support her three underage children.
However, because of the saline land and the proximity to the seashore, the mother's hard work has not brought significant changes to the poor family's situation.
For Duras, she had experienced poverty from an early age, but fortunately she was old at home, and her mother did not deprive her of her right to education during the most difficult years.
In this way, Duras grew all the way to the age of fifteen, a small man, but with a different petite beauty.
Just as Duras was about to turn sixteen, this girl who had just opened her heart met the most memorable man in her life.
On that day, Duras wore a skirt changed from old clothes, cheap leather shoes, and a men's flat-brimmed hat, but these ordinary attire still did not hide her charm.
As everyone knows, a rich man from China who is next to her has already fallen in love with her at first sight.
The man's name was Li Yuntai, and he was only in his twenties at the time, and he had a private mansion on the local Mekong River, because he had been well educated in France, and he also spoke fluent French.
"Your hat is very special", this is the first sentence that Li Yuntai said to Duras, and after getting to know each other, the two became a couple of lovers.
You know, at that time, the feelings of white and yellow people were not accepted.
After Duras first tasted the forbidden fruit, the mother was greatly dissatisfied with her daughter because she knew about her love affair.
Perhaps because life is too tight, after learning that her daughter's lover is a rich young master, Duras's mother, the first thing that comes to mind is to use her daughter to get certain benefits from Li Yuntai.
On the other hand, Li Yuntai's parents learned that their son was in love with a foreign girl, which was also difficult to accept. You know, they have already arranged a family affair for Li Yuntai.
At this point, Li Yuntai's father, after giving Duras's mother a considerable compensation, the relationship between the two ended without illness under the intervention of the outside world.
Duras was only seventeen that year, and his satisfied mother took her to Marseille.
Before leaving, Li Yuntai came to the dock to send off, but unfortunately, he could only sit in his luxury car and silently watch his lover leave, and Duras could only choose to say goodbye to his lover in his heart at this moment.
This past was later written into her own work by Duras, and in her opinion, she was already old at that moment, but such a love experience, even if only once, was enough for Duras.
The fairytale beauty of the first love is destined to make Duras unforgettable for a lifetime, and she is so deeply yearning for the taste of love that she has been constantly searching for it all her life.
Entering marriage but giving birth to four corners of love, no one can stop her from chasing the footsteps of love
Leaving his birthplace, Duras began his academic career.
She is indeed a talented girl, after being admitted to the University of Paris, whether it is majoring in law or part-time literature, politics, mathematics, she has obtained a degree, and it is undeniable that Duras is indeed a Western talent.
When she met her classmate La Glorai, the two quickly fell in love, unexpectedly, Duras actually fell in love with La Grolet's good friend Robert after this, and when the love was in a dilemma, Duras still followed his heart and chose Robert.
During World War II, Duras couldn't help but write a letter to Robert on the battlefield to express his thoughts.
On September 23, 1939, the two were married at a time when the war was raging, but what is even more unexpected is that this marriage just evolved into a four-corner love.
While the two can live peacefully in Paris, Duras becomes moody due to an accidental miscarriage, while still loving her husband in her heart, and actually has another woman, Anna.
At this time, Duras actually empathized with another Mascolo who was "as handsome as God" in her heart.
The four people who should have had an awkward relationship actually appeared to appreciate each other and get along well with each other between love enemies, and the four-corner love made the people around them stunned.
It was at that time that Duras began her creative career and gradually rose to prominence in the literary world, and she eventually divorced Robert peacefully because she fell in love with Mascolo.
Unfortunately, Duras did not remarry Mascolo, and after giving birth to a son, the two gradually grew tired of each other and went their separate ways.
Qianfan is still charming, and the youngest lover gives her the longest confession of affection
Perhaps such a tortuous emotional experience, placed on others, will already be a state of discouragement of love, but Duras has always maintained an attitude of enjoyment of love.
After breaking up with Mascolo, she continued to create and constantly changed lovers in Paris, for Duras, enjoying love is the highest pursuit of her life, as for the many ties and constraints brought by marriage, it is not what she wants.
In this way, time flies, and Duras has also become an aging woman from a charming woman, and because of her long-term alcoholism, the speed of aging has become faster.
But in the eyes of those who really loved her, this woman who was only obsessed with love was still so beautiful, even more beautiful than when she was young.
In 1975, Duras was 61 years old, and this time, she actually met the most special lover of her life, a young man 38 years younger than her, Yarn.
The two met at a film seminar, and it turned out that Yarn had long admired Duras, and when he saw her in person, Yarn took the initiative to talk to Duras, and then Yarn actually maintained the habit of writing letters to Duras for five years.
In fact, Duras initially refused to arne, but the young man's perseverance eventually impressed Duras.
In the summer of 1980, this unusual love changed the lives of two people.
To express his deep love for Yarn, Duras wrote a book, Summer of '80.
And what Yarn gave Duras was the longest confession of affection— companionship, or rather, that Yarn fulfilled Duras's special love for himself— "captivity."
However, this relationship is indeed very special, because the real Yarn is a homosexual, he can not satisfy duras who craves carnal pleasure, and the two often quarrel over this.
But even though Yarn had publicly stated that he had had enough of Duras, in fact, the two of them did indeed make it inseparable.
In his later years, Duras still did not stop creating, and all this went smoothly thanks to the help of Yarn, who can be said to be the most important lover in Duras's life.
Duras died of a serious illness in 1996, leaving in The Arms of Yarn. When a loved one died, Yarn even closed himself for two full years.
epilogue
Duras once said, "I live life as a myth." ”
Indeed, she dedicated all her life to love, no matter what the world said about her life, she did it in front of love to obey her own heart, not to please, to cling to anyone, just to feel the most authentic love between men and women.
Although for most people, we really can't do the brave pursuit of love as Duras.
But the love process of such a Western strange woman can give us more enlightenment: the road to love will always have many ups and downs, don't give up, don't be anxious, the next second you will be the happiest one!