Children have to develop these good habits before the third grade, and it is too late to be late!

Introduction: Before the third grade of primary school, the influence of parents is very large, and our instructions and suggestions are more willing to be followed by children. After reaching the fourth grade, along with some physiological changes brought about by pubertal development, the child's sense of autonomy becomes stronger, disobedience, and it is difficult for parents to influence him.

Therefore, before the third grade, we must cultivate the children's life and learning habits, and it will be too late!

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First, cultivate children's concept of time and do not drag and rub

Wenwen is a rubbing child, every morning to get up to school by the mother "three please four urging", always hurt the mother late to work, at home when doing homework has been wandering, waiting for the end of the rubbing time to watch cartoons, the mother is helpless about it.

But Chenchen mother is different, from the child understands things, the mother will teach the child to learn to arrange the time of day, what to do in the morning, what to do in the afternoon, what to do at night, and then arrange what they want to do according to the priorities of things. Sometimes the child will forget, and the mother will be next to remind: "Baby, what time is it?" "What's the time to do it?" As soon as the child hears it, he will remember it and quickly and consciously implement the contents of the schedule.

After gradually developing the concept of time, if the child wants to deliberately rub it, he only needs to point to the clock on the wall, or ask him what time it is, and the child will clarify the time and do what he should do. As for getting up, brushing teeth, washing face, eating and other things that must be done every day, there is no need to repeatedly urge, the child will obediently listen to the command of "time".

Second, cultivate the habit of doing their own things

Ning Ning's mother is very doting on children, Ning Ning will not peel eggs when she was in the first grade, usually packing her school bags and sorting out stationery are all done by her mother. Now that Ning Ningdu is in the fourth grade, he will still call "Mother" for the first time.

Chenchen's mother did not do this, in her opinion, the child was actually very willing to try to do things on her own. Usually in the absence of danger, she lets the children do things on their own. The child eats on his own, often eating a mess; pouring water to drink, almost drinking and playing, half of the water is drunk, the other half is spilled everywhere; clothes, pants, socks, shoes are tried to wear by themselves, dressed crookedly, and finally by her help the child to complete.

In these processes, she tries her best to encourage children to do what they can, not only allowing children to slowly learn to live on their own, but also experiencing the joy of harvesting in doing things independently.

Third, cultivate the habit of preparing and reviewing homework

Many children do not have the habit of preparing and reviewing homework when doing homework, and children will feel cumbersome and waste time. But to develop good study habits, preparation and review are essential, parents must pay attention to.

When Chenchen was just in the first grade, he also did not like to prepare and review homework, thinking that it was not necessary, for this reason, Chenchen's mother and Chenchen after a long debate and verification, the final result is: after the pre-study homework, the next day the class will be much clearer, after reviewing homework, doing homework will be much faster. In comparison, after preparing and reviewing homework, it is actually more time-saving.

In the end, Chenchen recognized his mother's point of view and gradually developed the habit of preparing and reviewing his homework.

Summary: It is better to leave a good habit for the child to have a lot of money. Cultivating a child's concept of time is to make his life and work orderly; cultivating a child's self-reliance and independence is to make his life and work more smooth; cultivating a child's learning habits is to hope that he can learn easier and achieve good results smoothly and smoothly. Parents have good intentions, and they must use the right place!

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