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In terms of money: Brothers and sisters clearly settle accounts, and there is no need for "relief".
When you are short of money, the first people who think of borrowing money may be brothers and sisters. After all, the kinship of blood thicker than water is there, and as long as conditions permit, most of them will lend a helping hand.
In the early years, there were several families in our village, in order to have a son, three or four daughters had already been born in the front, and a lot of fines were paid for this.
But it is this kind of life that makes these children very successful: they either rely on study or part-time work, and they all go out of the mountains and settle down in big cities.
At first, parents most wanted their children to go to college and find a formal job. But now, just from the perspective of making money, those who have a formal job are the least rich.
Fortunately, these brothers and sisters are very united, for the "big things" of buying a house and buying a car, they are all a family, who is richer, who will be the first to come out. But also agreed, borrow money to borrow money, pay back the money to return the money, but do not need to pay interest.
It is with the help of brothers and sisters that each of their small families can be settled, even if they encounter difficulties, they will not be confused, and a strong "support group" has become the source of motivation for them to drift outside.
In the "Cai Gen Tan", it is written: "The father is kind and filial to the son, even if he is extreme, he deserves to be like this, and he cannot have the slightest thought of gratitude." If the giver is virtuous, and the recipient is a passerby, he will become a city. ”
This means that parents are kind and filial to their children, brothers are friendly, and younger siblings are respectful, even if they do their best, they are taken for granted, and there should be no thought of gratitude between them. If the person who gives the favor thus confesses his kindness, and the person who receives it is thus grateful, then the flesh and blood of the dear one becomes a stranger, and the love of the flesh and blood becomes a market transaction.
Brothers and sisters get along, money and wealth must not only support each other, but also in time to "level", only the two do not owe each other, can return to the same origin, can speak with confidence, work with temper, can the most sincere brotherhood continue.
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Social: Etiquette is still exchanged, there is no need to look at it.
Every New Year's Festival, visiting relatives and friends, it is always inevitable to give gifts, and there is generally such a mentality, sending out what you think is the best to show sincerity and generosity.
For people with a wealth of money, you don't have to think too much about what you want to buy. For those who are financially stressed, they have to consider the cost-effective, that is, to prepare the best gift with the least amount of money.
It is not surprising that people in the countryside will start early and personally prepare some local specialties, chickens, ducks, fish, pigs, vegetables they grow, snacks they make, and so on. But anyone who has spent time and thought, the memories of childhood, the taste of childhood can always come to the face.
And people who return home from abroad often bring back gifts that are trendy, fashionable, and even rare things that are not common in the countryside. These fancy, bright and modern gifts always give a feel for city life.
In this regard, some people gladly accept it, but some people feel that it is "not equal", afraid of owing to the other party, and always eager to give as much as possible.
In fact, between brothers and sisters who really have feelings, the exchange of courtesies will never pay attention to "equal exchange", but will accept everything of the other party calmly, and will not be treated differently because of the lowliness and preciousness of the gift.
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Career: Go your own way, don't have to be tied.
As the old saying goes, "The Son inherits his father's inheritance." Some people also said: "There are people in the DPRK who are good officials." "In a family, if brothers and sisters inherit the mantle of their fathers and engage in the same profession, they can often rely on each other, make full use of various resources, and develop and grow.
It is true that this kind of family-style economy or family-style business has many advantages, but at the same time, there are also huge hidden worries of "one prosperity and one loss".
Just like the four major families of "Jia, Shi, Wang, and Xue" in "Dream of the Red Chamber", when they are prosperous, they can be described as "cooking oil on fire, prosperous with gold", and every family has endless glory and wealth. And once it decays, it is like a domino, and it is destroyed.
Between brothers and sisters, people have their own aspirations, do not have to force, have to be tied together, do the same thing.
Those who are good at reading will go to school; those who are good at doing business will do business; those who are satisfied with part-time work will go to work; although their respective ways out and incomes are different, as long as they are suitable for themselves, it is the road to success.
And after each of them stands, do not envy others to mix better than themselves, and expect the other party to use personal connections and customer resources for their own platform.
Between brothers and sisters, the same is true: "To help you is a love point; not to help you, is the duty." ”
Only by working hard and living the most wonderful appearance can we become the most powerful reliance on each other.
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Conclusion:
The Book of Verses reads, "All men of this day are like brothers." Brothers are on the wall, and they are outside the house" means that no matter how close the relationship is, it cannot be close to the brother. Brothers may have fights at home, but they can always help each time they encounter an insult.
It can be seen that brothers and sisters are the luckiest fate that God has given us.
Cherishing this brotherhood is not to hang the other party on the heart and mouth at all times, but to show support with actions and give glory with achievements.
Each of them is the best!
Author: Like the wind is light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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