I am a 42-year-old divorced woman, introduced to a 48-year-old man, after listening to my conditions, he said: "Give me 500,000 bride price, otherwise I will not talk", and heard him

I am a 42-year-old divorced woman, introduced, and a 48-year-old man on a blind date, after listening to my conditions, he said: "Give me a 500,000 bride price, otherwise I will not talk", hearing his words, I was shocked, simply speechless, there is such a person.

I am 42 years old, divorced for 3 years and have an 18 year old son. I work in a state-owned enterprise unit, the job is stable, but the salary is not high, about 5,000 per month.

My son had just gone to college and had bad grades, so I didn't have much money to let him go back to school, so I had to let him go to a junior college. After the divorce, I am a woman, it is not particularly easy to take the baby, I just want him to start a family after graduating from college as soon as possible, then my burden will be reduced.

When I first got divorced, I also thought about remarrying, but I kissed each other several times, but I couldn't talk about it. My condition is also very simple, the other party must have a stable job, a little savings, and then help me raise my son together until he graduates from college, buy a car, buy a house and marry a daughter-in-law, of course, I will also be single-mindedly with the man.

One of them was a blind date, the other person was as old as me, after hearing my conditions, he was very satisfied with me, but he was not willing to help me raise my son, after all, he himself had two children, so that time ended in failure.

And another blind date, the man is 10 years older than me, belongs to the kind of economic conditions are better, but it is a little squinty, his request is that I have to give him another child, and I am resistant, after all, I am in my early 40s, if there is another one, the child has not grown up, but I am already old, there is not so much experience to raise a child, so I directly refused.

The next few blind dates, either the man is unqualified, or others hate my family background, but they have not succeeded. And I can only slowly take one step at a time, after all, the feeling of this thing, pay attention to the word fate, if the fate arrives, everything will come to fruition, can not be forced.

And yesterday weekend, under the introduction of relatives, I went on a blind date again, listening to the introduction of relatives, the man is handsome, the age is not very large, and there is money. I had the mentality of trying it out and went to meet him.

He was 48 years old, six years older than me, in business, looked mild-mannered and personable, had a better family, had a son, and his wife had passed away two years later.

I had a great chat with him and to be honest, I'm already happy with his performance. It's just that I said my condition, that is, to help me raise my son and help him buy a car and buy a house and marry his daughter-in-law in the future.

After listening to my conditions, his face changed instantly. He said to me: "You give me a dowry of 500,000, I can help you raise your son, buy a car, buy a house and marry a daughter-in-law, otherwise you will not talk."

Hearing his words, I was speechless for an instant, and I did not directly ask for much money, after all, the two are together, my son is also his son, help his son buy a car, buy a house and marry a daughter-in-law These conditions are necessary as parents, not to mention that my son is only 18 years old now, and it will take at least seven or eight years to wait for him to grow up.

If seven or eight years of marital feelings, plus a white son, are not worth a suite + a car, then what feelings I still talk about with this kind of man is a waste of time.

I just want to say that I can't bear to let the child set the wolf, so cut back out what kind of kiss, I am single for a lifetime!

I just let him get out of the egg, and since I wouldn't help me raise my son together, I'd rather be alone. It's just that I don't know why several men hate me for having a son?

Isn't my woman's youth, plus a son, worth the price he pays?

@Moving Emotions I would like to say:

After reading your sharing, I think that as a woman, or a mother, your approach is correct, parents are for children and daughters, and even sacrifice their feelings for the sake of their children to do the exchange of benefits.

In fact, you also have to think clearly about a problem, after all, you are only 42 years old, your son is only 18 years old, you are very young, you don't have to put too much worry on your son, you should put yourself in your own shoes, you have found true love, and the man will sincerely treat your son as his son.

And you open your mouth and shut your mouth is the future of your son, ask the man to buy him a car, buy a house and marry a daughter-in-law, in fact, these add up to more terrible than you directly ask for a dowry of 1 million, and a man will be scared away by you. Because your son is still young, there are countless possibilities in the future, maybe he can go on the right path, or maybe he can only be a loser, so the man does not dare to gamble.

If you look like a sinking fish and a goose, and the moon is shy, maybe he will spend thousands of dollars for you, but you are already 42 years old, and you have passed the age of flowers like jade, even if the charm still exists, it is only a flower that is about to wither, and youth has long passed away.

All I want to say is that you shouldn't always put your son in your mouth, after all, you go on a blind date, not you find a son to rely on. Happiness is always your own, and your son will still leave you when he grows up. If you really go on a blind date for the sake of talking about feelings, I don't think others will directly reject you. #情感 #