When I went to my relatives during the Spring Festival, I met a divorced cousin, she called me aside and asked me to borrow 40,000 yuan, saying that renting a house in the provincial city was expensive, and her monthly income was only more than 3,000 yuan

When I went to relatives during the Spring Festival, I met a divorced cousin, she called me aside and asked me to borrow 40,000 yuan, saying that renting a house in the provincial city was expensive, and her monthly income was only more than 3,000 yuan. I looked at my mother and my aunt who were chatting with embarrassment, and told her the truth: "I started a company with money from my girlfriend, and I expected you to pay back a little bit of the 100,000 yuan you owed me." ”

As soon as I finished speaking, my aunt came over, and she glanced at the car I parked outside: "My nephew is very powerful, more than 300,000 cars have been bought." I hurriedly explained, "Auntie, how can I afford such a good car?" This is my girlfriend's car. After working for so many years, I only saved 100,000 yuan, and I lent it to you..."

My cousin interrupted me: "I blame your ex-brother-in-law, I don't help me when I owe a debt, I only paid me more than 20,000 yuan, and I have to divorce me, I really don't have any conscience." If you hadn't borrowed me 100,000, I'm afraid I wouldn't have been able to survive. My aunt pulled my mother over: "My nephew has a job, I found a girl with a good family, and our family has been saved." ”

My mother understood the meaning of her words, and without thinking, she took out a mortgage contract from her bag and lit it in front of my aunt's eyes: "Sister, I even mortgaged the house for my son's business, and his father and I just don't want him to use the money of the woman's family to do anything, which will make him never look up in front of the woman's family." ”

My aunt was stunned: "You guys are also too funny, the woman is willing to spend money you should be happy is it, husband and wife always have a weak party, you say you do this strong, in case he fails to start a business, then is not even the house gone?" Why don't you leave yourself a way back? ”

I answered, "Why is there no way back, don't I still have 100,000 in my cousin's place?" My aunt reacted quickly: "That money has paid off the debt, and now she can't even get the rent in the provincial city, alas, I don't know when I can pay back your money, I'm also very worried." But it doesn't matter, she still has an aunt, and when her aunt is gone, your aunt's house you can go to live in..."

Looking at the way she talked, I vaguely felt that the money lent to my cousin was likely to be adrift, which also blamed my mother for being too righteous, and my sister's family had difficulties, so she would not hesitate to find me to take money to help her, because at that time she always thought that I had a stable job, even if I could not afford to buy a house in the provincial city, I could also go back to my hometown to live and develop after saving money, and borrowing money to help my cousin would not have much impact on me.

She didn't think I would suddenly start a business, and she would use my girlfriend's money to start a business. Although my girlfriend did not care about this matter at all, she and my father did not think so, and had to give me 500,000 yuan to return the money to the woman's family, they were worried that the woman's family wanted to use the door-to-door son-in-law to make a fuss, and they were afraid of laughing at our family in the street.

In fact, the emotional matter is only known to the parties, the girlfriend's heart is still very traditional, I said one she did not dare to say two, most things are listening to my decision. Cousin mixed badly are her own self-inflicted, but I don't have much to say, after all, are adults, personality has long become a fixed number, and then want me to lend her that is impossible, I told her that I have an old house in the provincial city is about to withdraw rent, let her go to live, rent I will help her renew.

I also showed her the picture of the house, she glanced at it a few times, and said: "Such a small house, in case I find a boyfriend, how do you let us live, my mother went to visit me to play for a few days, will she sleep on the sofa?" I was not at all surprised that this kind of words came out of her mouth, and I could only smile helplessly: "Then there is no way, I used to live in a worse place than this, you are afraid that you will spit it out when you see it..."

She smiled and said, "You're a man, and of course you don't care about the requirements and details of these residences." "Yes, but who cares about the living conditions if you have money, I was forced to save more money, but the money was finally saved for her." To be honest, I regret it now, and it is better to spend all the money on the house than to lend her a water drift.

After eating and preparing to leave, my cousin came over and told me that I was willing to live in my house, but I had to pay the landlord half a year's rent in advance each time, lest she live in the house and be afraid that the landlord would drive her out because of the rent. I understood the heartache of not having money, and nodded my head in agreement with her, but at the same time I also said that I would only bear it for 12 months at most. She didn't nod her head or disagree, just smiled and wished me a quick start to the family.

Seeing her holding my aunt's hand and leaving happily, my mother came over and asked us what the two of us were talking about, I didn't want my parents to worry, casually perfunctory, saying that my cousin promised me that she would work hard to earn money and return the money owed to me a lot...

It is difficult for the qing officials to judge the family affairs, especially the disputes of interests between relatives, and the cutting is still chaotic, but everyone's family credit limit is also limited, as long as we uphold this concept, we can properly handle the relationship between relatives, even if in the end in case of irreparable trouble, it can only sigh, indicating that what should be done has been done, and there is no regret in life.