Russie online quick review: Children step on the seat to be educated by the mother, parents say that the mother is not educated, in the end who is right and who is wrong?

I believe that many people have heard and seen Shanghai Aunt on the Internet, this domineering sentence: "You don't educate, it's me who educates." ”

The cause of this incident was that a little girl was standing and playing on the subway seat, and the standing aunt said that the child was gone.

The little girl's parents said, "You said my child, right?"

"Can't your child say no?" Big Mom said.

The little girl's parents said, "You see she occupies a position, right?" Then I've given you my seat, so why don't you sit?"

The aunt said, "If you don't educate, I will educate." ”

This sentence is widely known, but dare to be angry and dare not speak, that is what is said on the Internet, you do not educate your child today, and in the future, society will hate to educate him. The girl's parents obviously did not manage to teach the child well, even if they gave up their seats, it was also wrong in the front, and the passengers blamed the child and then pulled up the throat to be hard, that is, the mistake was added to the mistake. On the one hand, people feel that if there is a mother, there must be a daughter, because you are a mirror of the child; On the other hand, what the child gets at this moment is not love and protection, and the satellite TV quarrel wins is connivance, and the quarrel loses is fear. In any case, it is the child who suffers deeply.

The training mother stands in the perspective of society, defends the public interest, and naturally gets more social support. But if you think about it, it's not all right. Children are young, have not formed the right values, and do not know what is right and what is wrong. The child makes such a move in public, obviously because the parents do not understand things, you can blame the child's parents, or even reprimand. But if you can't live directly with your children, you really think of yourself as a society.

The words on the Internet are widely circulated, saying that the child's education should be done in advance, otherwise the child will make rules for him when he grows up, and on this occasion, the child is innocent, and the society can educate her parents, but do not have to directly teach her child. Are all mothers, empathize with it, maybe the big mother will step on the child's seat is not right to tell her mother, let the mother to manage, this mother may not show the "mother is just" side.

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