#40多岁还没娶到老婆, everyone said that this life can only play single sticks # I think not necessarily, after all, it varies from person to person, a few days ago @ Smile Mom 2015 also brushed to Jining, Shandong

#40多岁还没娶到老婆, let's talk about this life can only play single sticks # I think not necessarily, after all, it varies from person to person, a few days ago @ Smile Mom 2015 also brushed to Jining, Shandong, a 78-year-old grandfather married a 48-year-old bride, and it is the first marriage, the wedding is also lively.

In fact, everyone has their own fate and marriage, but the time is different, some people marry early and some people are particularly late, some people need to talk about love several times or experience several marriages to find the real right person, some people may be able to find the right person at the beginning, and from then on, they will grow old and froth.

If you wait until you are very old and still don't find a suitable partner, such as 40 years old and have no wife and children, how to face such a situation?

First of all, we must learn to self-analyze, did not find the object because their vision is too high, or did not find their favorite object, or their own conditions do not meet the requirements of the other party and are left behind?

If it is the first kind, then try to reduce some requirements, especially to abandon unrealistic standards, after all, the perfect person before marriage will always have deficiencies after marriage, and try to find the advantages of the other party.

If it is the second type, then try to ask what type of people you really like, find more places that make you feel excited, don't always use some hard rules to eliminate some people, more contact and more understanding is always good.

If it is the last one, then try to improve your own conditions, such as economic strength is not good enough, then find a way to improve, if not, enhance your competitive advantage, such as being very diligent and will take care of housework after marriage, like children will spend a lot of time with children and so on.

Secondly, we must learn to adjust our mentality, don't feel so old, doomed to hit the bare stick, if the heart is like ashes, even if you find the right one later, it is difficult to rub out the spark of love.

Now many older unmarried young women know to "freeze eggs", no matter whether they can get married or not in the future, whether they can have children, they should make plans in advance, prepare regret medicine for themselves, and they can be foolproof.

If you are a man who can strengthen physical exercise, keep yourself in a healthy body all the time, and don't consume your body too much, then the reproductive age can be delayed even longer.

Finally at this age, if you want to find a partner, you will not have too many requirements for the material aspect, but you will have more pursuits for spiritual fit, so you try to improve yourself and make yourself excellent, and you will always meet the person who is suitable for you at the right time. After all, every age group has its own unique charm and style!

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