It is often said:
The so-called maturity is a process of removing the false and storing the truth, gradually seeing others clearly, and understanding oneself.
You used to be enthusiastic and smiled, and now you are silent and silent
Before you were simple and straightforward, now you are thoughtful
In the past, you helped whoever was helpful, and now you help depends on people
Along the way, it's not that you've changed, it's just that you finally understand.
Someone said:
You don't have to invite too many people into your life, if they can't get into your heart, they will only crowd your life.
In the past, they would sacrifice their preferences to cater to in order to fit in. Carefully look at the faces of the people around you, speculate on the intentions of the people around you, for fear of being bored.
Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, some circles can't fit in; even if you do more, some fates are like fishing for the moon in the water, and you can't catch it.
Later, we gradually understood that the more friends the better, and the three thousand general friends are not as good as one or two confidants;
Not everyone deserves to be friends, and some people not only fail to bring you joy and growth, but often add to your blockage.
Some people meet it as luck, and some people know it as obscurity.
When true friends are what you need, step up and help.
Appreciate from a distance and pay attention silently when you don't need to.
True friends can be relatively speechless and more speechless than they are, and their hearts are full of understanding.
I have read a passage that says:
Getting along with people is actually very simple, comfortable to get close, tired to stay away. The world is already very tired, at least don't embarrass yourself anymore, living happily is more important than anything else.
Deeply. Some people stumble in friendship for a long time, and in the end they find that true friends are not in many, but in truth.
In the past, I was wrong, I always liked to make a lot of friends, used to treat people with liver and gallbladder, but I was full of bruises.
Now I understand that there are not many friends, you are in the heart, and people who get along comfortably are suitable for being friends for a lifetime.
I especially like a sentence said by Zhou Guoping:
The feelings that really touch people are always simple and unpretentious, it is silent, not ostentatious, and buried deeply.
On this journey of life, there will be countless people rushing into your life, giving you ordinary days, bringing surprises and joy,
One day, he pulled away unexpectedly. Only we are left with the feeling that ended without illness.
People, I always feel that what I can't get is the best
Occasionally, the thought of you is full of joy. Always give, but you are careless.
Remember: Those who really care about you will never leave to teach you to cherish.
In this world, whoever leaves can live, and only who is more reluctant than anyone. The person who accompanies you is not always there; worrying about your heart is not nothing to do.
No matter how persistent the emotion, it cannot withstand ignoring it; no matter how fiery the heart is, it cannot stand indifference. Don't wait for people to leave before you repent; don't wait for your heart to be hurt before you rush to make up for it.
The scenery that appears suddenly is not necessarily the most beautiful; the feelings that are inseparable must be the most real.
Zhang Ailing said:
I've been looking for that feeling, that feeling of holding a pair of warm hands on a cold day and moving forward steadily
There is no romance of a lifetime, but there is a lifetime of warmth;
There is no lifelong entanglement, but there is a lifetime of companionship.
In the past, I was wrong, and I always liked to dwell on the past and be tied up in the fate of not belonging.
Now I understand that those long-lasting streams of love are more worthy of our cherishing.
Ancient poems have clouds:
I would have turned my heart to the bright moon, but the bright moon shone in the ditch. Falling flowers intentionally follow the flowing water, and the flowing water is merciless and does not love flowers.
The most frightening thing in the relationship is that you pay your heart and lungs to be good to a person, desperately paying, but in the eyes of others, it is taken for granted.
I have read such a message:
Sometimes, if I send a message to someone very important and he has not replied to me, I delete the dialog box, and I always feel that seeing that dialog box is like seeing my own humility and flattery.
Your goodness must be left to the right person so that you will not be disappointed.
In this life, what people are most afraid of is not to take the wrong road, but to give their true heart to the wrong person. For the wrong person, stop the loss in time after seeing it clearly, and leave your good to the right person.
Life is short, don't spend your heart on people who are not worth it.
You know, your sincerity is very expensive, don't waste it easily.
Dong Qing once said:
In a relationship, for him, it is a willing giving; for you, it cannot be taken as an ideal.
If the payment is not cherished, the sincerity is not treated well, no matter how good the feelings, there will be gaps, and finally turn away.
In life, we should not treat every passion, nor should we please any indifference.
For the rest of your life, those who are good to you should be grateful and give back, and those who only know that those who ask for you should stay away as soon as possible.
Cherish every encounter in life, cherish every sincere effort around you.
The mountains are high and the waters are far away, and we must leave the truest love to the warmest people.