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Title: A woman in Jingzhou suspected of kneeling in front of her boyfriend to admit her mistake, whispered the whole time, and kept saying "I was wrong"
"Ask what the worldly situation is, and the Orthodox Church promises life and death"
From ancient times to the present, how many heroes have been sad about beauty, and finally fell into it for the sake of beauty.
In fact, not only men, but also many such women in today's society, they all eventually lose their self-esteem for this ridiculous love.
On the Internet we call such people "licking dogs", and if analyzed from a psychological point of view, we call this phenomenon "PUA".
Recently, in Jingzhou, Hubei Province, some netizens broke the news that a woman suspected of kneeling in front of her boyfriend to admit her mistake, whispered the whole time, and kept chanting: "I am wrong about everything!" I've always been wrong! ”
From the video, we can see that the woman kneels in front of a white car and constantly admits her mistakes, her body trembles slightly and seems to be very excited, and she did not give up after many unsuccessful apologies, but confessed her mistakes again to the people in the car, looking very persistent.
But despite the woman's humility, the man in the car was indifferent and indifferent, allowing her to kneel on the ground without the slightest intention of forgiving.
Looking at the scene in front of them, the onlookers expressed their anger, they thought: "Love should not be like this."
Although she did not see the woman's face, judging from her dress, she should be a simple girl, if it was an arrogant person, they would not have done so much for a relationship.
Many netizens can't help but sigh after watching the video, some people think that women are too humble in this relationship, even if it is to admit mistakes, they should not abandon their dignity to kneel for each other, and the other party's indifferent appearance is more like mockery.
Some people also think that the woman's behavior looks very abnormal, like the real-life PUA, she has been pinched to death by the other party, not to mention dignity, even life can be abandoned.
In my opinion, lovers also need mutual respect, and women are destined to be the party who is "bullied" from the moment they kneel. Blindly forbearing and seeking perfection will not let the other party cherish you, but will only make him feel that you are very cheap, then your relationship is no longer a lover but a master-servant relationship, as long as you do not obey will be abandoned.
In fact, it is not difficult to avoid being PUA, first of all, we must learn to keep ourselves in the relationship, adhere to our own principles and bottom line. Fate misses one and there will be a next, but it is not easy to pick up after dignity is discarded, so even if we meet someone we like very much, we can't give up everything for each other, love and dignity We must choose dignity first.
Of course, people who understand PUA are not fuel-saving lamps, and their routines are also updated from time to time, so we should polish our eyes when making friends, and once we find that the other party has this tendency, we must learn to stop losses in time and take the initiative to stay away from each other.
Finally, I would like to say that PUA is only a case after all, and everyone should not be afraid to fall in love, as long as they know how to protect themselves in love. If we encounter troubles, we can also communicate with our families, do not bury all the grievances in our hearts, so that we will fall deeper and deeper, and eventually we will not be able to extricate ourselves.
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