Don't stay up late, the harm of staying up late is very great, do you often hear doctors say this? However, some young people just like to stay up late, brushing videos, chasing dramas, and watching novels. However, there are also people who stay up late not because they are willing, but who are forced by real life, for example, mothers with children.
Bao Mom, who is in her twenties, stayed up late and was admitted to the hospital, but her family scolded her for being too stupid
Yan Yan is a second-born mother, her son is 10 years old, and her second daughter is just over 7 months. The life of both children and daughters was originally very beautiful, but recently there have been some problems with Yan Yan's physical health.
She got up at 5 o'clock in the morning, finished breakfast, and called her son and husband up for breakfast. Before she could eat, her daughter woke up, and when she ran to the bedroom to hug her daughter, her eyes went black and she fainted in the doorway.
When the ambulance took her to the hospital, she had already woken up in the car. After the doctor's examination and diagnosis, her condition was arrhythmia, which was related to her frequent staying up late, tired, and malnutrition.
The mother-in-law came to help with the child, and as soon as she entered the door, she began to complain: "Now young people really have no way to say, look at the mobile phone too close, do not want to sleep every day, this is good, the body is broken." The husband also echoed the mother-in-law and said that she was just too stupid.
Yan Yan was in the bedroom, listening to their conversation, and the two lines of tears flowed down without a fight. The mother-in-law did not understand and did not feel sorry for herself, and the husband even said this about himself. What she has done during this time, the mother-in-law does not understand, but the husband knows.
The daughter is 10 months old and has to be fed night milk several times a night, and she hasn't slept a full night since giving birth. In the morning, every day is half past five, get up on time, prepare breakfast for my son and husband, take care of them after they go to work and school, and eat a bite of it yourself.
When the daughter was happy in the morning, let her play by herself for a while, and the mother rushed to wash the dishes and prepare for lunch. At noon, when her daughter is napping, she can wash her clothes and clean up her room.
In the evening, after the husband comes home, she plays with her daughter, and she also has to tutor her son's homework. After the son finished his homework, he washed and coaxed her to sleep with his daughter, and almost every day it was more than 10 o'clock.
It is because there is no job, the mother-in-law is not willing to come with the child, saying that she is also playing at home anyway, and does not go out to make money. The life of a stay-at-home mother, like a spinning top, can't stop 24 hours a day, and the body finally can't eat. The terrible thing is that the family did not see her hardships, and said that she was not in good health herself, calling her "stupid".
After giving birth, the burden on the mother is too heavy, and it is "stupid" to bear it alone.
I think such a mother is quite stupid, stupid is stupid, a person to take on all the family labor, to destroy their own body.
Why the mother stays up late is nothing more than two things in the family, one is to take care of the children, and the other is to take care of the housework. Some mothers need to work, recharge their batteries at night, and work overtime. The family gives women too many responsibilities, they want to do everything well, busy during the day, stay up late at night, the body can not eat.
If you are always alone to take on these families, lives, children, and work, too much labor will drag down your health, and your husband and family will not appreciate your efforts. Therefore, the more the mother loves her children, the more she should drive away the fatigue and ensure sufficient sleep time and rest time.
Moms who want to get a family, kids, work, and want to be healthy can do that.
After the family is formed, the husband will become the sharer of housework.
Men are part of the family, and many women are now also laborers, and they all work hard in their jobs. Even if a woman doesn't work, it's not okay to take on all the family's work alone. A wise woman, from the moment she marries, trains her husband to take on family affairs together, and a good husband needs his wife to train him well.
The child's education and companionship are not the mother's business alone.
Children are the common children of parents and also need their parents to accompany, care for and educate. Mothers should cultivate more fathers with children, not only for their own ease, but also for the good of children, and the company of fathers for children also has many benefits for children.
If necessary, it is also possible to ask the elderly for help.
Parents are not obliged to help us with our children, but they are also willing to enjoy the joy of bringing children. Therefore, if the parents are willing and the physical health is still good, it is also good to ask the parents to help with the children.
Marriage should bring women a good life, and the family and society should give them a little more love and tolerance, so that the family can be happier and the society can be more harmonious.