Most pregnant mothers know that during childbirth, women can not keep privacy at all, whether it is internal examination, or skin preparation, or lateral incision, etc., these so-called privacy is not enough to mention. Many women are slowly getting used to it, but what new mothers don't expect is that not only can't hide privacy during childbirth, but even after giving birth, some privacy may not be retained at all.
Case: After the postpartum doctor rounds the room, the mother feels uncomfortable, and frankly admits that it is more embarrassing than childbirth
When Ms. Zhang was pregnant, she heard many friends who had given birth to children talk about childbirth experience, so she was also mentally prepared and knew that she would encounter many embarrassing situations during childbirth.
Waiting for the day of the official delivery, Ms. Zhang first underwent an internal examination, and because it was the first child, the time to open the uterine opening was relatively long, and in the time of waiting for the opening of the uterine opening, the doctor did three internal examinations, and it was these internal examinations that made Ms. Zhang slowly adapt to the sense of embarrassment.
Later, after entering the delivery room, the skin preparation process is even less worth mentioning, after entering the second stage of labor, the focus is on how to give birth to a child faster, and at the same time, it is attracted by a strong sense of pain, so there is no sense of embarrassment.
After the child is born, I think it is over, and there will be no more embarrassing situations. However, after the fact, Ms. Zhang understood that some privacy after childbirth could not be retained. Ms. Zhang chose to have a normal birth, coupled with the fact that the degree of lateral incision was relatively large at that time, so on the fourth day after delivery, when Ms. Zhang was discharged from the hospital, the doctor also attached an examination of the perineum in the discharge examination, and this examination was directly aimed at the private parts, so Ms. Zhang was more embarrassed when examining.
After all, after giving birth to a child, all the attention is on the doctor, and once the doctor is aware that the doctor is examining the more private parts, most pregnant women will feel very uncomfortable. After going through the postpartum examination, Ms. Zhang later chatted with a friend and said that the feeling was more embarrassing than childbirth.
01 Childbirth can't hide privacy, why can't postpartum privacy be retained? Lucky mothers avoid embarrassment
Naturally, privacy is not retained during childbirth, but most women will gradually adapt. However, after the end of childbirth, some women still have to suffer some embarrassment.
For example, some women have experienced a more serious lateral incision during childbirth, which may affect postpartum recovery, so when they are discharged from the hospital, they also need to check whether there is a more serious infection, and if the infection is more serious, they must be treated if necessary.
In the eyes of new mothers, after all, it is directly related to the private parts, plus it is not like there is a sense of adaptation during childbirth, plus most of the attention during childbirth is on pain, and it is not embarrassing to care. However, the postpartum examination is different, and most of the attention is paid to the doctor's examination, so it is more embarrassing.
Another example is the postpartum opening of milk, some mothers have also experienced, mainly because the postpartum milk is not opened in time, resulting in the mother's breast canal is not smooth, or it is difficult to secrete prolactin, at this time some women will directly seek help from the doctor, because there are special prolactinists in the hospital.
Once the application for prolactin is made, then in the process of prolactin, new mothers will also feel more embarrassed. In addition, there are many prolactinators who are male doctors now, so it may make new mothers feel more embarrassed.
Of course, if the mother has better luck and does not encounter the above problems after childbirth, then she will not encounter those embarrassing situations after childbirth, and a routine examination at the time of discharge can almost be discharged. But new mothers should also be mentally prepared that when they go home to confinement, there will still be many more embarrassing situations, especially to avoid the embarrassing embarrassment of breastfeeding being bumped.
After all, in the local environment, when new mothers come home from the hospital to sit in confinement, whether it is the in-laws' families or relatives of the mother-in-law's family, some people will come to visit the mother and newborn at home, in this case, it is likely to be bumped into breastfeeding. Therefore, it is best to lock the door before breastfeeding to avoid the sudden situation of someone opening the door to enter, otherwise even if they are also women, young new mothers will feel very uncomfortable.
In addition, there are some new mothers in the treatment of postpartum lochia will also feel embarrassed, especially within a week after childbirth, some new mothers themselves really can not deal with, can only let the husband to deal with, but even if it is the husband, the new mothers are more concerned in their hearts, afraid that the husband will "dislike" themselves, there are more worries and pressures in the heart, and there are more embarrassments.
It is enough to see that for women, childbirth is not only painful, but also has a lot of embarrassment and helplessness, which is why it is repeatedly emphasized that the family can give new mothers more support and care.