Now parents are more anxious about their children playing games, parents want to go out to work to make money, when there is no time to manage their children, they will worry about their children playing mobile phones and not studying hard.
Many parents common practice is to confiscate the child's mobile phone, even if the child goes out to play in the case of seeing the child playing mobile phone, will scold the child in public, but in the long run, the child seems to be more inseparable from the game, as the child grows up, parents are more and more helpless.
There is a father, his early family is poor and has no money to continue to study, so he works hard, buys this and that for his son, wants to meet all the material needs of his son, but there is only one requirement for his son to study well, which is to pin the hope of reading to the next generation and let his son fight for him.
In fact, the child's academic performance is not bad, and the usual homework is also completed on time, but in the eyes of the father, as long as the child does not play games, then the child can spend all his time on learning.
So this father may not have thought about why children like to play games so much, which needs to figure out a problem, in fact, children naturally like to play, children's entire childhood, the best way to teach is to understand the world in play, grow new knowledge. Think about when we were children, did we love to play, but at that time we were kicking shuttlecocks, jumping rope, smashing sandbags, playing these sports-related games.
So why are we so happy playing sports games, and now children rarely participate in traditional sports games. Is it that sports games are not as good as mobile games, or mobile games are really easy for children to indulge.
Speaking of the advantage of mobile games, it is convenient, a person can participate in a group of people's games, children do not need to know other friends, just by relying on a screen name, you can play games, get fun outside of school.
And the traditional sports game, you need to find a few familiar small partners, find a venue outdoors to carry out activities, wait until the activity starts, an hour or two will pass, if the small partners live far away from each other, there may be no more than a few people in an activity. Especially for children living in big cities, such outdoor activities are more time-consuming and difficult for children. Gradually, children began to tend to play mobile games, so mobile games became the choice of most children.
Speaking of this, perhaps parents have understood that in fact, traditional sports games and mobile games are only children's extracurricular interest activities. Children also do not prefer mobile games, but traditional sports games are too difficult to organize.
So if you want to adjust your child's extracurricular activities, you also need the interaction of parents, how to meet the child's basic material needs, put down part of the work at hand, you can sometimes take your child to play outdoors, accompany your child to participate in real activities, when the child's entertainment activities have more choices, children will naturally not be addicted to mobile phone games.
She resolutely forbade her ten-year-old child to play with the king, but the classmates around the child are playing, and the chat content is also about the king, and the child has not played, which seems incompatible with everyone. This child, very smart, he thinks of a solution, that is, to use the content of the a classmate to talk to him in the first person, the eyebrows fly dancing to the B classmates, to create a kind of himself is also playing, and the play is also quite good illusion, just to brush a wave of existence.
EDG won the championship circle of friends brushed the screen, even I, a layman, specially found relevant reports to understand. Underneath the report, tens of thousands of comments followed, in addition to full of pride, flowers and applause, I saw a group of deep concerns. Yes, this group is Chinese parents. Parents have mixed feelings, and everyone is worried that the media reports from all sides will lead the children astray, and worry that the children who are addicted to games at home will play games more rationally.
Many parents regard games as the culprit of their children's abandoned studies, and they chase and block to prevent and restrict their children from playing games, and fight with their children. But parents will soon find that the larger the child, the more difficult it is to control, especially the child who enters puberty, willful and impulsive, many parents in order to avoid the child to go to extremes, can only helplessly choose to surrender. In fact, the reason why parents' efforts have not worked is mainly because many parents have used their strength in the wrong place. Today I will talk about the root causes of most children's addiction to games from another perspective, and I hope that you will be patient after reading it and find a new direction in preventing children from addicting to games. For example, experts say that the Internet cuts off the connection between children and reality, allowing them to live in a virtual world, lacking the ability to empathize with practices, and planning is not all right. The reason why many children are addicted to games is precisely because online games have a very powerful function, which is the social function.
There is a mother, she resolutely forbids her ten-year-old child to play the king, but the children around the classmates are playing, the chat content is also a lot about the king, the child has not played, it seems to be incompatible with everyone. This child, very smart, he thinks of a solution, that is, to use the content of the a classmate to talk to him in the first person, the eyebrows fly dancing to the B classmates, to create a kind of himself is also playing, and the play is also quite good illusion, just to brush a wave of existence.
Many children play games, not simply for fun, to find a sense of achievement, the deeper reason is to integrate into the collective, to be accepted by the collective, essentially a kind. Social needs. But the problem is that today's children, their social needs are far from being met, and can even be said to be extremely scarce. This deprivation is caused by three reasons.
The first is that there is no time. The child's free time in school is only ten minutes between classes, and after school, he has to write homework, or he goes to the cram school, the time is full, the child is bored, and it is difficult to make an appointment together. Secondly, there is no venue. The State General Administration of Sport has released a 2019 national sports statistical survey data, data show that as of December 31, 2019, the average field area of Chinese is only 2.08 square meters, there are many venues, not free to everyone, children have no venues, can only be trapped at home, what else to talk about social? Finally, no one could be found. Children can make social connections, in addition to teachers, classmates are parents, teaching tasks and various trivial school tasks make teachers have no more energy. To establish a strong connection with students, classmates, it is difficult to date, parents should be busy earning money, often overtime, earning money and accompanying the baby can not be both. When children's social needs cannot be met in reality, they will naturally turn to online games, after all, social networking in online games is the lowest cost and most accessible, as long as a mobile phone that cannot access the Internet is enough. Therefore, Professor Chu Yin said that online games are not causes, but effects, which is really in a word. On August 30 this year, China's State Press and Publications issued a notice on further strict management to effectively prevent minors from addicted to online games, requiring all online game companies to provide one-hour service to minors from 20:00 to 21:00 every day on Fridays, Saturdays, Sundays and statutory holidays. The emphasis here is on gambling from the source, but what is more important is the book. Let children no longer indulge in games is not only the responsibility of parents, but also the common responsibility of the whole society, parents give children more respect.
Accompanying and affirming children does not have to go to the virtual world to seek recognition. Parents usually create some social opportunities for their children, such as students living in a neighborhood or adjacent communities can often meet together, learn together, and play together. At the same time, I hope that the double reduction policy can be continuously implemented to allow children to have more free time. I also hope that the relevant departments can build more free and open activity venues like children's boring, which can not only allow children to have a place to exercise, but also create a healthy and upward social field for them. Okay? Today's video is here, if you like my video, don't forget to like, bookmark and retweet, look forward to your interaction with me in the comment area, we will see you in the next video.