Cancer people often have a feeling of charm into invisibility, even if they are not deliberately showing charm, but their gentleness and sensibility can also bring people a very different feeling.
Cancer is mostly good at giving, but at the same time, their delicate mind, and often easy to disappoint, between this cold and hot, many times, can "steal" other people's hearts, then, Cancer "steal the heart" in what ways?
What are the ways Cancer "steals hearts"?
Cancer people tend to have a feeling of being more adept at thinking about others, which may stem from their empathetic side, but more importantly, Cancer does not have too much self-will, they are used to serving others, to appease others.
Therefore, in the relationship, Cancer often seems to be very "sensible", they are the kind of gentle, delicate, but also able to silently care for the type.
Sometimes, Cancer can use its passivity and shyness to take the initiative, seemingly "prey", but in fact it is a hunter.
First, it is easy to be disappointed, but it is also easy to be coaxed
Cancer people often need a loving atmosphere, so when they face the person they like, they may show a higher expectation, but if this expectation is disappointed, they will quickly "close" their hearts and seal their emotions.
In fact, it is not that Cancer does not want to ignore people, but because they do not want to "hurt people", but if the other party can take the initiative to coax them, even if it is just to say some heart-warming words, it can instantly make Cancer smile.
They don't want to be angry with the person they love, and many times, it's just because they don't feel good enough or because they are "self-pitying" about themselves.
If you master this mentality of Cancer, you will naturally know how to coax them, and many times, this kind of cold and hot is often full of emotions.
Second, in the face of loved ones, often dare to pull down the "face"
I have to say that although Cancer people have a passive side in their feelings, it also depends on who they are, if it is the person they really care about, then Cancer is often unwilling to take revenge, let alone angry for too long.
They can even take the initiative to coax each other after a conflict with each other, or when they see each other sad, even if they are angry.
I have to say that Cancer is not a person who will only wait for others to care for and care, sometimes, they are very easy to be soft-hearted, they can look at people's faces and act, and even dare to pull down the "face", will not take their own face and self-esteem, too important.
They never feel that in the relationship, they need to distinguish between right and wrong, or they need to be stronger than each other, they are often able to consciously submit to softness, and they do not feel that there is anything remarkable.
Third, be good at paying in the way others need
Cancer people are often very good at giving, but they know better how to give in the way others need, because many of Cancer's thoughts and actions are for an altruistic purpose.
That is to say, what they want to do, what they don't want to do, many times, depends on the needs and reactions of others, perhaps, Cancer in the process of growing up, do not want to say this mentality, they feel that this will really make themselves suffer.
However, they do involuntarily show this mentality, so that they still know how to "vote for it", in the way others like, to care for and take care of others, it can be said that Cancer's mind is often very delicate, and it is easy to warm people's hearts.
Fourth, even if you are disappointed, you will not force it
Cancer people often have a mentality that will not explain anything and is difficult to force, that is, when they feel disappointed, it is easy to silently close their hearts, choose to escape, or leave the posture, to complete the other party.
This may make some people feel that they should take the initiative, thus stimulating the enthusiasm of the other party, indeed, many people may use the way of force, but the more they want, the faster the other party may escape.
However, Cancer often adopts a "let go" posture, naturally, can arouse the other party's desire to conquer, thus capturing the other party's heart.