Author: Lee Walnut
Source: Daughter Pie (ID: nverpai)
The fate of a person's life is rooted in the original family.
The epic opening drama "The World of Man" has come to an end.
The story begins in 1969 when intellectual youth in a provincial capital city in northeast China went to the mountains and went to the countryside, and finally began in 2016, when the urban transformation began, involving the whole life of characters from all walks of life, which can be called an epic of the life of contemporary Chinese people.
Where there are ordinary people, there are fireworks and education.
The nearly 50-year struggle of the three generations of the Zhou family allows us to see the inextricable connection between personal development and the original family.
I am thinking, as the children of the common people, why only the children of the Zhou family have become the lucky ones of the times?
I summarized six causal laws about family education from the play, and the more I look at them, the more real they are.
01
The family style is positive, and the children and grandchildren are prosperous.
02
A good mother, Nengwang for three generations.
If "behind a successful man there is a great woman", then behind the prosperity of a family, there must be a great mother.
03
That ordinary child came to repay the favor.
So, please cherish the child with mediocre qualifications around you!
Although the children who stay around are ordinary, they can bring their parents steady happiness.
04
The closer you are to the person, the better you have to talk.
Although it is true that he could not go to college, it was not his father's "wounds and salt" that made him sad, so angry that he ignored his father for many years, and did not even tell his father about moving.
Years later, after the heartbroken old father figured out the reason, he cried and scolded and apologized to Bingkun.
He loves his child, but the words he says seem to blame the child.
That's how many parents speak, and many viewers call it "too real."
To be fair, Father Zhou was already a relatively patterned father of that era.
He also repeatedly praised Bingkun as the "most satisfied" of the three children, which was a completely avoidable misunderstanding.
05
No matter how hard it is, you must also take your child with you.
Although her uncle and aunt never treated her badly, her parents were not around, and she always had a sense of inferiority under the fence.
So, no matter how hard it is, please take your child with you.
Because the companionship of parents has a "validity period", if you miss this deadline, it is difficult to make up for it later.
06
The price of not reading books must be repaid with a lifetime.
The diploma is only a thin piece of paper, but it can draw a deep gap and open the gap between people, which is the power of knowledge.
Chao Chao soberly saw this, so before dying, he told the child a thousand times:
"The level of education is very important, and your generation is even more important." If there is no culture, sooner or later it will be eliminated by society. ”
This is the last entrustment of a father who has suffered all his life to his son, and it is also the deepest feeling of his struggle for half a lifetime.
Don't read, don't say hello at all when the times eliminate you.
Therefore, we must tell our children that life is not easy, and we must arm ourselves with knowledge.
Only by making knowledge as the foundation can we withstand the torrent of the times and change the fate of mediocrity.
07
At the beginning, we mentioned that in the poor light piece, why only the Zhou family stands out?
Everything has a cause and effect, and the answer is clear:
It lies in the simple and good family style of the Zhou family;
It lies in the mother's warm and tenacious love;
It lies in the care of parents and siblings for family affection;
It lies in reading and enterprising throughout life...
Writer Deborah Tana said that a good original family should not only create the world for the child, but also tell the child how the world should be warmly interpreted.
"The World of Man" tells us with 50 years of life changes:
The fate of a person's life is rooted in the original family; the future of the child is hidden in the words and deeds of the parents.
What we want to do is to be a family style, respect parents, love children, and pass on the virtues of warmth, goodness and positivity from generation to generation.
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