"Wood is called hua, grass is called glory, those who are not proud but real are called beautiful, and those who are proud and unreal are called heroic."
Lu Yingben is a honeysuckle plant, bitter taste, just as the life of this Fanghua woman we are going to say is as bitter as the life.
Lu Ying was born in Yangzhou into a family of salt merchants, and his family was well-to-do.
From an early age, he was intelligent and capable, with a good face, and was loved by his elders.
She is the second lady in the family, and she enjoyed the glory and wealth that ordinary people did not have at birth, but her life did not go smoothly because of this, but she suffered a lot.
After growing up, Lu Yingwen was gentle and elegant, and was quite famous in Yangzhou City.
Lu Ying is beautiful, and has poetry books in his belly, his speech and demeanor are quite beautiful, and the people who come to the door to ask for relatives are endless.
However, the Lu family's parents loved the little girl and did not want her to marry early, so they stayed for a few more years, and finally they were favored by the Zhang family, and the man was Zhang Wuling, the grandson of Zhang Shusheng, the feudal governor.
When Lu Ying got married, her parents thought of their daughter marrying far away, and made plans for her everywhere, even the dowry was prepared for a long time, it is said that the Lu family's parents began to make preparations a year in advance.
The items that can be used in daily life in the dowry, gold, silver and jade, and silk satin are all in the thousands, and no one who sees it is not surprised by this face.
When Lu Ying got married, there were ten whole streets in the dowry line, and the crowd followed in a mighty way, all lamenting the great joy of marrying her daughter, which was very pompous, and Lu Ying was also very much looking forward to her new life.
Lu Ying entered the Zhang family with a rich dowry in this way, but would her life be smooth sailing because of this?
Lu Ying thought that she could not be deceived by the Zhang family for the rest of her life, but the woman at that time, where she could control her own destiny, was nothing more than "flowers and flowers flying all over the sky, and the red incense was cut off."
After marriage, she and her husband Zhang Wuling fell in love at first sight, and their lives were full of taste and taste, and their hearts were sharp and sharp.
Lu Ying honored her in-laws in the Zhang family, served her husband, and did her best.
But because of the mission of inheriting the lineage, Lu Ying also began her unfortunate life. After marriage, Lu Ying gave birth to three daughters, and Mother Zhang was very satisfied with this, and she strongly asked Lu Ying to have a grandson.
She had a son, but unfortunately died prematurely. Although Lu Ying's heart was in pain, Zhang Mother looked at Lu Ying, who could not give birth to a son, and in front of the whole family, scolded her as a broom star of the Zhang family, believing that Lu Ying had killed her grandson and cursing Lu Ying that she would not have a good life in the future.
Lu Ying listened to these words but did not dare to argue, all day long frowning, washing her face with tears every day, she actually began to feel that it was her own fault in her heart, and she blamed herself for not being able to give birth to a son for the Zhang family.
Before she was a person, she had to endure her mother-in-law's cold words to her, and after the people, she was still worried about her husband who was far away, tossing and turning at night, unable to sleep, and could only spit sorrow on Yueyi.
Finally, after giving birth to the fourth daughter, Zhang Chonghe, Lu Ying could not stand the strength of Zhang Mother, and in order to temporarily escape the whirlpool of the birth of the child, she and her husband Zhang Wuling decisively left the Zhang family and moved to Suzhou.
In Suzhou, where people are brilliant, the couple's life is particularly happy, teaching and educating people, listening to plays and reading books, all of which are joyful.
In order to raise her children, Lu Ying tried to find books from all over the world for children to read and educate them.
Lu Ying and Zhang Wuling's efforts were not in vain, and the four daughters did not live up to their expectations, and each of them excelled as the four talented women who were famous at that time.
After that, Lu Ying gave birth to five sons in succession, and the Zhang family finally had a successor, and the Zhang family was very happy and accepted Lu Ying.
However, the good times did not last long, in 1921, after Lu Ying, who had reached the age of 36, gave birth to his fourteenth child, his physical condition deteriorated, and finally he died of sepsis due to tooth extraction.
In this way, Lu Ying's life that was not easy to improve came to an abrupt end, and the dying Lu Ying knew her body incomparably, she knew that her life was short, but she also knew that she could not grow up with several children, and could not grow up with her husband. She looked tearfully at the crying child and her husband in front of the bed and left with regret.
After Lu Ying's death, Zhang Wuling was devastated, but it was not long before Zhang Wuling married Wei Junyi, leaving his love for Lu Ying behind.
The eldest daughter, Zhang Chonghe, was very angry at her father's behavior and accused her father of this kind of behavior. How can children accept this stepmother, who is only a few years older than themselves?
And Wei Junyi is not a kind of good, she is narrow-minded, she is not used to Zhang Wuling being so good to her ex-wife's children, so she is everywhere difficult for Lu Ying's children.
Not only do they often bully them in life, but they are also abused, often secretly beating and cursing children, and several children often wear warm clothes and do not have enough to eat.
However, Lu Ying's children did not succumb to her, they were as strong and brave as their mothers. Wei Junyi was jealous that Lu Ying's children were better at learning than her children, so he tried every means to organize the children to go to college.
The servants were grateful to lu Ying for his kindness, so they did not abandon Lu Ying's children, which allowed several children to grow up safely under Wei Junyi's difficulties.
And Lu Ying's children did not live up to her expectations and became a famous talented woman at that time.
Lu Ying's life is short and wonderful, from the carefree food and clothing when she was a child, to marrying Zhang Wuling when she grew up, she did not have the right to choose, and the concept of passing on the generations after marriage and relying on her mother and son to rely on her children forced her to try to climb forward on the road of childbirth.
Lu Ying is not without her own personality, but in that era, her persistence and her pride were also suppressed by the standard of having a son and passing on the generations, so that she could not breathe.
"If life is only like the first sight, what autumn wind and sorrow paint fan." Waiting for idle changes but the old people's hearts, but the old people's hearts are changeable. ”
In the past, everything was a cloud of smoke, how could she think that after her death, the vicissitudes of the sea and the world would change. Even if she is talented, she cannot escape the fate of her husband and godson, and her life has become the talk of people after dinner.