As we all know, there is an important principle in the workplace, that is, mix IQ in small companies and mix emotional intelligence in large companies!
How to judge whether a man's emotional intelligence is high? In fact, it can also be seen through the emotional field, that is, people with low emotional intelligence, if they do not pay attention to speech, will often say the following six sentences to women; on the contrary, the higher the emotional intelligence of men, the less these six sentences are said!
Next, let's talk about this topic and see how much you've said! It should be noted that the following six sentences (not necessarily the original words, including words with the same similar meaning), the less they say, the higher the emotional intelligence!
First, can you please stop making unreasonable trouble?
This sentence is very "vicious", or brainless, for two reasons: (1) a "again" word, indicating that it was the same before, negating the past, and (2) characterizing things as "unreasonable trouble"! With such a vicious statement, can you expect a woman to respond gently?
Second, drink more boiled water!
It can be said that 99% of men have said this sentence, and it is estimated that 99% of men who have not said it should be single dogs! In fact, when a woman is sick, men don't know what to do, don't drink boiled water to drink? This sentence, not people with super high emotional intelligence, may say it!
Third, you look a lot like my former girlfriend!
Frankly speaking, whether it is a hook-up or a relationship, it is very inappropriate to link the appearance of the current girlfriend with the ex! Once the man says this, what are the consequences, everyone knows, there is not much to say here, almost brain damage will say so!
Fourth, you love it!
This sentence is actually not vicious, the key is to say the tone and attitude of this sentence! Obviously, when men say this, they express a contemptuous and uncaring attitude! So, once a man says this, the woman will blow up the nest almost immediately after hearing it, or sulk inside!
Fifth, it's time for you to lose weight!
Men don't allow others to say he can't, and women don't allow people to say she's fat! Men say "you should lose weight", typically saying "you're fat"! When women hear such harsh words, how many will be calm? Not much of a fight, it is estimated to be light!
Sixth, think what you will!
This sentence is very serious, there are two levels, (1) why do men say this sentence? One thing is for sure, that is, two people have a dispute, (2) the man's attitude is very bad, the typical dead pig is not afraid of boiling water! So, when a woman hears this, she may even have the idea of divorce!
From the above six points, we can see that men with really high emotional intelligence will almost never say this, at least even if they are very annoyed inside, they will avoid using these stimulating words! The reason is simple: once these words are said, it will not help to solve the problem at all, but will bring greater trouble.