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Every girl has a princess dream, but the dream can be realized by the princess, most of which is only the life of the princess's body slave. When love comes, the man will indeed give all his hopes to get the girl's true heart, but when all the dust settles, some promises may be just lies, and his true face of hypocrisy will be exposed.
Although we live in a developed era, we are still stubborn about some old ideas, especially the older generation. Getting married and having children seems to be the fate of every woman, but the difference is that some people marry a person who loves her, so they are still happy after marriage, while some people marry a woven dream, and it is the beginning of the nightmare after marriage.
Pregnancy is a matter of great importance, so the child has become the focus of the whole family before it is born. But as to whether the child will still receive so much love after birth, it depends on the attitude of the parents, if born in a patriarchal family, then it is not only the misfortune of the child, but also the misfortune of the marriage.
Most women after pregnancy are sensitive and vulnerable, so it is also the time when they need the most love, so if the husband can be considerate at this time, then the marriage will definitely have to be happier. In a family, only a happy wife can have a better future.
When Qin Yi met Li Jun, she thought she had met true love, so she also entered into marriage for love, originally thinking that it would be the beginning of happiness, but she did not know that the tragedy had just begun. The two met in 2015, when both of them were divorced and in a free body, at this time, the object of their choice was naturally dry firewood and fire and quickly walked together.
From acquaintance to acquaintance, the two also gradually learned about each other's situation, and both sides were in a state of divorce. Li Jun is 10 years older than Qin Yi and has a daughter from his ex-wife, and Qin Yi also has a child who follows her ex-husband. But Qin Yi didn't care that Li Jun had children and even offered to treat them kindly. In Qin Yi's view, older men are more stable and more painful, and indeed li jun spoiled Qin Yi as a princess when he was in love.
Both believe that it is a predestined love, so they enter the palace of marriage. However, before the marriage could be carried out, he was interrupted by the future father-in-law Li Yi, who believed that Qin Yi had a history of marriage and was not worthy of Li Jun, who was not worthy of a stable job, but later could not twist the love between the two and made a compromise.
After marriage, Li Jun stated that he already had a daughter and hoped to have a son. Qin Yi could not conceive naturally because of physical problems, but in order to give birth to a child belonging to them, she did not hesitate to spend high medical expenses and endured great pain to do IVF.
Fortunately, Qin Yi was really pregnant, but unfortunately, she was still a girl born after october of pregnancy. The in-laws' meticulous service during pregnancy was due to the hope that she would have a son to pass on, but the result was greatly disappointed. In the father-in-law's mouth, it was said that they had also visited after Qin Yi gave birth to a child, but Qin Yi said that when he learned that he had given birth to a girl's in-laws, he disappeared. Because the in-laws do not pay attention, Qin Yi held a full moon ceremony for the children at the confinement center and did not notify the in-laws, which caused the escalation of the contradictions between them. After returning home from the Confinement Center, Qin Yi found herself homeless.
The husband moved his daily necessities and clothes to a dilapidated old house, and although the house was renovated, the pungent smell after the renovation was not suitable for newborn children. Li Jun's explanation is that he and his parents are separated and can only live here now, and the family only needs to move in with all the facilities. Qin Yi believed that this was a conspiracy of her husband and in-laws to force herself to leave. Her husband who had just given birth not only did not care and take care of her, but placed their mother and daughter in an old house to make herself very confused, but at Qin Yi's request, her husband was still indifferent, and finally Qin Yi could only move to her mother's house.
During this period, because Li Jun's disregard for Qin Yi was very angry, he went to the local women's federation to sue Li Jun, and even went to Li Jun's unit to make trouble. Now she lives in Li Jun's unit with her children, and Li Jun and his family still haven't asked. Such a gap before and after marriage made Qin Yi unacceptable, at that time he thought he had found true love, and now it seems that he is just a machine that gives birth to a child.
Li Jun was very disappointed after learning that the child was a girl, and his love for his wife disappeared instantly, and he did not care about his wife's efforts. In order to give birth to his child, his wife posted hundreds of thousands of dollars in treatment fees, and they did not mention it at all.
As a result of the final mediation, Li Jun and Qin Yi were unwilling to divorce, and Li Jun paid 1,000 yuan per month for living expenses Qin Yi lived in her mother's house and moved back after the house could be lived. However, the question now is obviously not where to live, but how the husband and wife should get along in the future.
First of all, Qin Yi should return to reality from fantasy, understand that she has been married and has children, she should do her job well, and marriage is more bland and learn to face reality. Li Jun did not rent the thoughtfulness and care that her husband should have after marriage, as a husband should assume the responsibility of taking care of his wife and children in marriage, although he did not fulfill his son's dream, but boys and girls are their own flesh and bones.
Marriage is to think that love is to walk together, if there is only the interaction of interests in the marriage, then such a marriage is doomed not to last. Marriage is composed of small things, if the two can not take this relationship seriously, it will only eventually lead to failure.
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