The current marriage market is very weird, a bunch of men say that they are looking for a partner girlfriend, after all, now there are more men and fewer women, and it is normal for boys to find an object.
But many girls can't find an object, many people can't understand, then you say that their conditions are not bad, why can't they find an object?
Recently, a 31-year-old beautiful woman in Nanjing went on a blind date, and when her blind date request was announced, many netizens unconsciously laughed, and some netizens said that they finally found the reason why many girls could not find a partner.
First of all, let's take a look at the personal conditions of this girl, the woman's 31 years into 10,000, 31 years old is not too old, but it is not small, can only say that it will be, now to find a partner is OK, and it is difficult to find a partner later.
Monthly income of 10,000 in Nanjing is actually quite good, belongs to the relatively excellent, do not be deceived by those who make millions of dollars on the Internet, that is packaged, look at many big bosses now, when they are in their 20s, they are also worried about their livelihood.
The woman has an apartment in Jiangbei, outsiders may not understand, Nanjing locals should understand that Jiangbei is actually a bit remote.
The woman's own house is very good, it is true that the apartment is cheaper than the average house, and the apartment is generally relatively small, and it is OK to live with friends, and it is indeed a little unrealistic for the family to do it.
But in any case, the 31-year-old buys an apartment by himself, and if he doesn't rely on his family, it is quite good, at least ahead of most people.
The woman herself has an apartment, and the monthly salary is more than 10,000, which belongs to a relatively good young person, but her requirements for the man are somewhat outrageous.
For example, the man is required to have a house of not less than 10 million, and then he must also have a car, a sense of enterprise, a sense of self-motivation, and know how to work hard.
The man's annual income can not be less than five or six hundred thousand, many netizens are happy to see this blind date request, and some netizens are even more blunt, accusing the woman of being whimsical.
The woman's conditions themselves are good, but she just did not recognize herself, first of all, the monthly income is 10,000, the annual income is only 120,000, to find a boy with an annual income of 200,000 is already a high climb, but she requires that the man's annual income can not be less than five or six hundred thousand, which is simply several times her own.
There is also a requirement for the man to have a house of 10 million, although the woman also has an apartment, but the value of this apartment is estimated to be even a fraction of the 10 million others, which is really too outrageous.
As for those who are self-motivated and enterprising, they work hard, to put it bluntly, they want the man to have money, but it is more euphemistic than those who directly ask for money.
The woman herself is in good condition, but her problem is that she does not recognize herself, knowing that she has an apartment and a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, which is much stronger than many girls who only know how to open their mouths and ask for money.
Think about it in another way, if a man has a house of 10 million yuan, and then has an annual salary of hundreds of thousands, and his career is successful and self-motivated, this is definitely delicious.
Don't say it's Nanjing, even if it is put in the north, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, it is also the object of many women's competition, and there is certainly no shortage of women around, and there are a lot of girls upside down.
So, if there is really a boy who meets such conditions, he will certainly not choose a woman who has a salary of more than 31 years and has a million apartments, he is more willing to find a beautiful woman with a family background equivalent to his own, or younger.
The same are in your 30s, you can only earn more than 10,000 yuan a month in your 30s, buy a cheap apartment, others can have more than 10 million houses in their 30s, and there are hundreds of thousands of annual salaries, as well as various assets, which is completely unrealistic.
And you watch a lot of neighborhood videos, many girls can't move to ask boys to have millions of deposits and millions of deposits at the age of 30, and those who drop out of school early have no culture, and it is likely that they will not be able to save this money in their 30s.
And those who have culture, ordinary college graduates have more than 20 years, casually go to two years of class is 30, where to save millions, and what to buy 10 million houses, there are many 30s have not yet graduated, then what do they do?
To put it bluntly, in this era when everything is fast, people's hearts have become too impetuous, many people have no concept of money, and extremely double standard, for themselves and others are completely two sets of requirements.
Why many people can't find a partner now, first of all, people are too impetuous, have no concept of money, and can't make any money, but they hope that the other party will make a lot of money.
The second is that people are too selfish, boys and girls are the same, many people are completely only thinking about themselves, not willing to be on others, but in the feelings, do not compromise for each other, and talk about what love?