Uncle Lover's Introduction:
What does marriage mean for a woman? Some people think that getting married is to find a home, and some people think that getting married is just an option to reach the age. It's like someone longs for love, and someone refuses to get married and have children. There is no right or wrong, but it is just your own choice of life.
It is not an easy thing for a woman to get married, although many people get married at an age, but it is not necessarily because of love, and it is not necessarily possible to get happiness. Women, if you don't have these three conditions, don't get married easily.
Economic
We need to understand what marriage is for, rather than following the blind decision of the masses. Many women marry to find a dependency, but women you have to understand what marriage will give you first. It doesn't have to be dependent, it may be a lifestyle that requires you to pay more yourself.
Marriage is certainly full of expectations, and the days of being accompanied by someone every day when I come home from work are indeed full of warmth, but this is not the norm of marriage. We must first have the conditions to live well.
Most people come into this world to experience a lot, so women should not marry for the sake of marriage, nor should they pin the happiness of life on marriage.
Marriage is just another form of life, women, if you choose to get married, it must have an economic basis, and a marriage with an economic basis will have a lot less contradictions.
Many people think that getting married first and then saying something else, but it is difficult to find happiness, and the chai rice oil and salt in marriage will really overwhelm women a lot of times. If you want your marriage to be happier, then you should choose love on the basis of having a basic material life.
Mental preparation
Getting married is not something that can be decided in one day, and getting married also requires your own careful consideration. Women should not be reckless in doing things, especially life events, we should think a lot, at least you yourself should have enough psychological preparation.
Some women themselves have not yet thought about the life of marriage, will not deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and are not mature enough to raise a child, if so, do not rush to get married.
Marriage can not be in a hurry, even if love comes, we must be prepared enough and then to meet our own married life. Mental preparation includes that you have a clear understanding of married life, including that you are ready to deal with various relationships. If you feel like you've been able to stand on your own, you can choose to get married.
Future planning
A conditional marriage will be happy, and an unconditional marriage can only be a makeshift life. Women get married is a big deal, don't decide casually, you have to have this condition to choose.
Women, if you don't even have your own plans for the future, then don't contact you to get married. Marriage also needs to be planned, you must at least know what you need, what life you want to live in the future, if you don't even have the most basic planning and ideas, then you can't come up with any practical actions, so that even if you get married, you will be very passive.
Your plan can be a job or a car and a house, and a woman must have her own pursuits to be able to make the marriage icing on the cake.
Uncle Epilogue:
Most women who want to get married are because they feel that they have met love and then look forward to living with their loved ones, but marriage is not simple, do not touch it easily until you have no conditions. Women, when you are capable, responsible, and planned, you are brave enough to pursue the life you want.