Hua Lan is the eldest daughter of the Sheng family, raised by her parents in the palm of her hand, in the eyes of her father she is proud and unyielding, in the eyes of her mother she is cool and bright, and a little bitter and mean, in the eyes of Master Kong Mama, she was raised by her parents to be "arrogant and delicate".
On the whole, the evaluation of Hualan by the crowd is proud and squeamish. But it was such an arrogant daughter, who did not expect to be pinched to death by her mother-in-law after marrying into her in-laws' family, and had no power to fight back, until Minglan gave her that "bad idea".
Hua Lan, who was suppressed to the end
Choosing Yuan Wenshao as his son-in-law, Sheng Xuan also took pains to think about it, although he hoped that his daughter's marriage could help the Sheng family, but he hoped that Hua Lan would live happily, but he did not expect that the in-laws he had painstakingly selected for his daughter were so insulting to his daughter.
The grandmother of the Yuan family is a relative of Lady Yuan, so Lady Yuan is very partial to the eldest daughter-in-law. After Hua Lan entered the door, Mrs. Yuan let Hua Lan take charge, and Hua Lan thought that the in-laws attached importance to themselves, but they did not expect that this was to dig a pit for her!
The Yuan family's interior has long been hollowed out, and Hua Lan has to use his dowry to subsidize the Yuan family, which has caused a lot of losses. Moreover, the housekeeper has been in trouble for three years, the cats and dogs are suspicious, HuaLan's foundation in the Yuan family is still shallow, and now the housekeeper has offended many people, while Mrs. Yuan's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are sitting on their success, and Hua Lan's heart is also hateful.
In addition to secretly using Hua Lan's dowry, Lady Yuan also targeted Hua Lan in particular, and every three to five minutes she went to Yuan Wenshao's house to stuff the room. Compared with the two sons, there were few concubines in the old house, but there were a lot of warblers and swallows in the second house, and even the son Yuan Wenshao had an opinion on his mother. After all, Yuan Wenshao wants to make a living outside, if others know that he has so many rooms in his room, how will that family look at him!
Hua Lan in the Yuan family, did not lay a good foundation of contacts but put in a lot of dowry, the husband is still surrounded by more than a dozen young and beautiful women, it can be said that the first ten years of Hua Lan's marriage is living in the depths of the water!
The bottoming out brought by the Sheng family
Ten years of marriage, Hua Lan has been humble to the dust, until the rise of the Sheng family, Yuan Wenshao awakened, the Yuan family was afraid, Hua Lan turned over.
The Sheng family is becoming more and more prosperous, sheng shao's children have basically climbed up to the good family affair, Changbai and Changfeng have entered the shi, and also married the concubines of the famous and prestigious families, Mo Lan and Minglan have all married into the Hou Mansion as wives, it can be said that the in-law relationship of the Sheng family is getting stronger and stronger. It turned out that no matter how high the Yuan family was in front of the Sheng family, now they had to bow their heads in front of other relatives. Gradually, the Yuan family realized Hua Lan's embarrassing situation, and Uncle Yuan and Yuan Wenshao had to start caring for Hua Lan.
Hua Lan did not move for several years after giving birth to her eldest daughter, and later gave birth to two sons in succession with the help of Old Lady He, but when she was pregnant with her third child, Hua Lan's eldest daughter Zhuang Jie and the eldest son Shi Ge'er were injured because of their grandmother Lady Yuan.
Mrs. Yuan saw that Hua Lan could not be remedied, so she took away the two children during Hua Lan's pregnancy, but she did not take good care of them, resulting in the two children being burned, Hua Lan broke out in an instant, desperately resisting this and leaving the child around.
When the third child was full moon, Minglan went to see Hualan, and Hualan cried about her experience, and Minglan gave her an idea. Go to Yuan Wenshao's aunt Lady Shoushan bo and help give Yuan Boye a good concubine. Hua Lan understood and quickly implemented it, and the effect was very good.
Soon, the dignified Aunt Song entered the door, and Uncle Yuan was quite fond of this aunt, not only because she was young, but also because she was reasonable, people delayed family affairs in order to take care of the family, and also read books, Aunt Song soon captured Uncle Yuan's heart. And Lady Yuan, even if she resented her, did not dare to tell Aunt Song what to do, because as long as she did it, Uncle Yuan would find out at night, and the next day Lady Yuan would be punished. Gradually, Lady Yuan put more energy into the negotiations with Aunt Song, and Hua Lan's life turned around.
Aunt Song's help
Aunt Song was a wise person, and before she entered the door, Lady Shoushan Bo asked her to stop the Yuan family brothers from killing each other!
Uncle Yuan is already old, but she is still young, the big house has been making unreasonable trouble for many years, the Yuan family is already an empty shell, and there will be no great deeds after the boss inherits the title in the future, on the contrary, the second elder Yuan Wenshao has a bright future, plus the help of the Sheng family, so Aunt Song quickly stood in line.
Lady Yuan constantly embarrassed Hualan and Aunt Song, and Hualan was not easy to defend, but Aunt Song was Uncle Yuan's pillow person, and a little blowing pillow wind moved Down Lady Yuan.
Uncle Yuan never cared about family customs, and what Mrs. Yuan said about family affairs was what it was. Later, Aunt Song analyzed for Uncle Yuan, in recent years, the Yuan family has no big expenses, basically more in and out of less, it is reasonable to say that there should be surplus, but Mrs. Yuan cried all day, where did this money go? With a few words, I asked Uncle Yuan to check the accounts, and this investigation found that Lady Yuan had actually hollowed out the Yuan family over the years. She secretly stole money to do business for her mother's family, and the results were gone, Mrs. Yuan's bottom leaked, Uncle Yuan was furious, and even the eldest son did not turn to her, after all, she stole the future family property of her eldest son. In an instant, Madame Yuan became the target of everyone.
Uncle Yuan ordered that from now on, Hualan butler, and do not have to ask the mother-in-law every day, Lady Yuan lost people, lost power, and even more lost people's hearts, and every day she had to entangle with the concubines, and life was really not good!
Daughter-in-law Hua Lan helped her father-in-law to take concubines, which sounded a bit strange, but after careful consideration, I found that some people and some things cannot always be stuck in what should and should not be, to learn to surround Wei to save Zhao, to understand PUBG, it is very important to change their thinking.
epilogue:
Hua Lan, who was pampered by thousands of arrogant people in her mother's home, did not expect that in the in-laws' family, it was in the depths of the water, which stemmed from the social system at that time, the mother-in-law could suppress the daughter-in-law without a bottom line, but the tutored Hua Lan could not do anything against ethics. In addition to her husband's "inaction" and "nest bag", Hua Lan could only secretly weep. It can be seen that the life of the ancient daughter-in-law was not good!
Unexpectedly, Minglan changed his mind and gave Hualan an idea, not only saving Hualan, but even saving the Yuan family. The appearance of Aunt Song made the Yuan family deeply aware of their own problems, and in time curbed the deterioration of the situation from the root cause, yuan Wenshao also changed from the original unknown and foolish filial piety son to the pillar of the family with quite opinion, which was the turning point of Hualan's happy life.
As the saying goes, smart people can understand it, shrewd people can see accurately, and smart people can see far. Some people can constantly think and actively find new ideas to break through the problems in life, while those who lack thinking will gradually become laggards on the track of life, and even struggle in pain. So, to change your destiny, you have to change your mind first, what do you think?