Not all families will have a second child seamlessly.
Many couples will have other ideas with the change of time, such as having a child after marriage, and there is no intention of having a second child for the time being, perhaps because raising this child is too hard, or because they have more than enough and lack of strength.
But after the children went to school, these parents underwent some changes in their thinking, thinking that they could consider having a second child? After all, two children with each other is a good thing for anyone.
Mom bore you a brother, would you like to?
Morning morning is going to go to primary school in the blink of an eye, for morning morning, going to school is a very interesting thing, there are more children playing with themselves, and their favorite teachers, and it also means that morning morning has grown up!
So before the start of school, Chenchen was very happy every day, and I was very much looking forward to going to school immediately, after all, the primary school described by my mother to Chenchen was so interesting and beautiful.
And just the night before the start of school, my mother felt relieved, Chenchen finally went to elementary school, and she had a lot of time to enjoy her life, and even to have another child.
Therefore, my mother went to Chen Chen's side and said: Mother will give you a little brother or little sister, are you willing? Hearing his mother say this, Chen Chen immediately became very worried, because he was not prepared for such a thought, and he was even unwilling to share his mother with others.
But a wall did not repel the mother, in later life, the mother always subtly instilled in Chen Chen, she will have a little brother or little sister thinking. Slowly, ChenChen became less repulsive and resistant.
Only after the child was actually born, Chen Chen was no longer as carefree as before, but always very distant from his mother and brother, but closer to his father.
Husbands and wives over this age to fight for the second child, in addition to the embarrassment of the old assembly, they are also very guilty
It is not uncommon in life to be like Chenchen's mother, who will ignore it because of a momentary arousal and make unremitting efforts for some purpose at this moment. After the goal is achieved, it is not only a thankless effort, but also a child's resistance and rejection.
In particular, both husband and wife are over 35 years old, which will not only ignore the mother's physical condition, but also suffer like the mother's spirit. For the quality of the child, it is also lamentable.
Couples over the age of 35 are very worried about the quality of sperm and eggs
It is reasonable to say that from the age of 25, the bodies of men and women will go downhill, and the body functions will have a certain degree of aging, and the existence of this force majeure has caused many couples to suffer from it.
Although for couples, 25 years old is the beginning of life, entering the society and slowly accumulating social experience, whether it is their own IQ or emotional intelligence will begin to develop at this time. Even many couples will choose this stage to develop their careers instead of having children.
But even so, bodily functions cannot deceive people, and if there is no clear idea to become a Dink family, the sooner the child is born, the better. If you wait until you are 35 years old and then think about having children, sperm and eggs may not be able to pass.
The age difference between the eldest and the second is too large, which will make the boss very embarrassed
We can often see on the Internet that the age difference between brother and sister reaches about 20 years old, and after the mother risked her life to give birth to her sister, didn't she have to entrust her sister to her brother?
In this way, when the brother goes out with his sister, he will definitely be criticized by others, and perhaps the idea that this little girl is the daughter of this man will be born. Isn't this a helplessness out of nothing?
In addition, even if there is no such extreme situation, the age difference between the two children is not more than 10 years old, which will make the boss feel stressed. Because I am too old, I have to take on the responsibility of forbearance and care.
In terms of energy, the test is the greatest for couples
Many couples believe that they have accumulated some experience in raising a child, and there will be no too tricky situations when raising a second child. You can rest assured and boldly do whatever you want.
But in fact, even if the couple has experience, but if they want to really implement it well, they always feel that they have more than enough and lack of strength, their physical strength is declining, and the child is like the rising sun, how can it be compared?
Today's summary:
If you were over 35 years old, would you still consider having a second child? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!