Some people around you will often have a subtle impact on you, if you do not de-falsify the truth, and will be wrong, the misery of your old age will surely come unexpectedly.
First, the old wife who can't get along
The wife is undoubtedly the most important person in the later years, so the quality of the wife will play a crucial role in the old age. If you get along with your wife, it will be a great blessing in life, and there will be continuous happiness in your old age, often the older you are, the longer you spend with your wife, the more you will feel that there is no maximum, only greater happiness, and a variety of happiness will follow. If you can't get along with your wife, although your wife is not a bad person, but you are very likely to do bad things, in addition to not being able to get along with your wife, it is not excluded that your wife will be angry or angry at every turn, and often pick out a variety of problems: if there is a problem, it will exaggerate the problem, even if there is no problem in the first place, it will be out of thin air. In the later years, mutual help and mutual assistance are even more impossible to talk about, and if they are not good, they will make a tripwire, and not being able to get along with their wives is the so-called internal worry.
2. Inattentive sons and daughters
Raising children is already a basic task, but some children especially do not let their parents worry. Not only will they eat old age in their daily lives, but they will also have no grateful heart, and they will even go out and cause trouble. Although I don't want to manage the children's affairs again and again, but again and again will be involuntarily, in the end will be implicated by the children, the happiness index in the old age will be sharply reduced, the original birth of children is to prevent the old age, did not think that the children have the tendency to become the last straw to crush the old age. With inattentive children, the misery of old age can be staged at any time and anywhere, and the rest of life is not a comedy, but a tragedy.
Third, unreliable friends
Careless dating is rooted in a major hidden danger in life, the older the age, the greater the consequences of careless dating. Unreliable friends, even if they don't lead you astray, will drop the chain at critical moments. Unreliable friends are close to you not because of your popularity, but want to use you, usually when you have nothing to do, you will be invited to dinner, but where you need to pay or contribute, I would like to let you contribute more money, let you contribute more power. So that it will betray you at unexpected moments, and if there is no defense against unreliable friends, it will be invincible. Don't expect unreliable friends to shield you from the wind and rain, and unreliable friends will thank God for not bringing you wind and rain.
Conclusion: Whether the old age is miserable depends on the state of mind composed of the mentality, but also depends on some external environment, especially if it is unladylike, the misery of the old age will exceed the imagination and approach the limit of patience.
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