The 32-year-old Ame is five months pregnant and is about to become a mother, which should have been a happy thing, but not long ago at 11 o'clock in the evening, she and her boyfriend had a conflict, afraid that her boyfriend would move and she ran out. But now that more than ten hours have passed, her boyfriend does not pay attention to her, so the stalemate is not the same thing, Ame now wants to talk to her boyfriend. While talking, Ah Mei returned home with the reporter, but did not see Ah Mei's boyfriend Xiao Bin.
Seeing this, Ame also talked about what happened that night, she said that her boyfriend often drank, and if he drank too much, he would lose his temper with her. At about 11 o'clock that night, her boyfriend came back drunk and found that she had locked the door, so she made a fuss outside the door, and even broke the doorknob of the door, scaring her into asking the neighbors for help. With the help of her neighbors, she ran out of the house, thinking that she would take the initiative to contact her when her boyfriend woke up, but she has not moved until now. Then Ame took the initiative to contact her boyfriend, but was blocked by the other party.
Subsequently, the reporter contacted Xiao Bin by phone, and the other party said that he would soon be home. Just met Xiao Bin complained, he and Ah Mei came to Taiyuan to start a business for a year, has been renting a house to live. Since Ame became pregnant, he went to work Amey rested at home, usually at night he came home Ame never locked the door, but that day suddenly locked the door, he was in a hurry to break the door lock. In this regard, Ame explained that she was worried about arguing with her boyfriend, and it was reasonable to say that Ame was pregnant with Xiao Bin Bing should be more considerate to her, how could she be angry with her?
Ame said she and her boyfriend had previously had a failed marriage, and both children were cared for by their ex. Three years ago, the two were introduced to each other, last year in the hometown to do a banquet, but has not received a marriage license, originally planned to go back to the hometown these two days to get a license to do a maternity examination, but did not expect to accidentally learn a situation that made the boyfriend change. Since the boyfriend always wanted a boy, but others said that she was pregnant with a girl, the boyfriend believed it. When the two went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the marriage procedures, the boyfriend suddenly threw a tantrum at her. In her opinion, the boyfriend just dislikes the girl he is carrying in his belly, so he will lose his temper with her.
However, Xiao Bin said that the boys and girls are the same, the girlfriend is too sensitive, and the reason why he lost his temper in the Civil Affairs Bureau is that he has not received a marriage license with his ex before, so there is no divorce problem. Although there is a judgment, the marital status on Amei's household registration book is still married, so if Ah Mei wants to get a marriage certificate with him, she also needs a certificate of effective judgment. He joked with Ame that it was really troublesome for a big and small man to marry a divorced woman, but he didn't expect Ame to feel humiliated, so the two did not get a marriage license that day.
Ame feels that her boyfriend is disgusted that she may be pregnant with a girl, and this speculation is once again confirmed at the party where the two return to Taiyuan in the evening to meet friends. At that time, her boyfriend's friend gave her an apricot, and her boyfriend shouted at her in front of everyone, you are not pregnant with a boy who eats something sour. Speaking of this, Xiao Bin still looked disapproving, saying that he was just casually saying it at that time. Ah Mei said that Xiao Bin stimulated her so much now, and the fundamental reason was that he had never loved her. At that time, she and her boyfriend had just divorced, and after spending some time together, she was attracted to her boyfriend's handsome appearance. In order to be able to marry her boyfriend, she has been giving unilaterally. In the first two years of their time together, her boyfriend not only spent all his money but also owed a bunch of foreign debts, and in order to help her boyfriend pay off foreign debts, she also overdrafted her credit card.
Xiao Bin admitted that there was indeed such a thing, but he did not think much of his girlfriend's efforts, because before the two did not hold a banquet, he advised Ah Mei to leave, but Ah Mei wanted to return his money, but he had no money, and finally thought that he could receive some gift money for marriage, and the two got married. Speaking of this, Ame is still a fire in her stomach, she said that when she got married, her boyfriend only bought her a dress to wear when she got married, and there was nothing else, but she still had no remorse for love, hoping to touch her boyfriend with sincerity. After that, the boyfriend said that he would take the dowry money to repay the money he had overdrawn on his credit card, but it was gone, because the money was lost, and he even owed a foreign debt of 60,000 yuan.
Ame said that the housework is done by herself, even the foot wash is she helps her boyfriend to soak, and the boyfriend lies in bed and plays games after he comes home. The more Ah Mei said, the more aggrieved, Xiao Bin did not know how to cherish the woman who loved you so deeply in front of him, and when he really missed it, would he not regret it? At this moment, Xiaobin also recognized his own problems and said that he was also changing now, and then planned the future. Ame saw the hope of continuing with him and decided to give her boyfriend another chance.
Men and women in the relationship are equal, do not just blindly ask for and do not know how to give. We must know that people's patience has a limit, and when one day when the heart is really cold, it is impossible to restore the previous situation. So everyone should learn to cherish and give their lovers enough security. Of course, this sense of security is not just lip service, but to do things that reassure the other party sincerely and truly.
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