Like a person, like is from the heart, can not be pretended. If you look closely, you will find that those who truly love you will not snub you, but will warm you.
Whether it is words and looks, people who don't love you are pretending to be different, on the contrary, if a person really loves you, in fact, like a cold and cough, they can't hide it.
Just like the male and female protagonists of the movie "Hawthorn Tree Love", although they were very young at that time and the way of expressing love was simple, they still could not stop the burning fire in each other's hearts.
Really love a person, no matter what you do, you are willing, just like the old third's friendship with Jing Qiu, be careful, do not cross the thunder pool, no matter when you always estimate Jing Qiu's feelings.
In fact, no matter who the love happens to, the reason is the same, really love a person, will always put each other in the heart, when you can't see each other, you will be full of misses, when there is no news from you, they are more anxious than anyone.
On the contrary, if a person does not love you, he will naturally take the initiative to have a relationship, and based on this, it is easy to distinguish whether a woman is true or false to you.
Offer to give you respect
Loving someone is actually very humble, whether it is a man or a woman, when facing the person you like, you are always not confident enough and afraid of losing, so you will always have a cautious posture.
It is not to bow down, but to know how to lower their posture, in the eyes of outsiders may be not worth it, in fact, only they know that behind this, it is love and respect.
Whether a relationship is happy or not depends on what kind of partner you meet, a blind, selfish person, which will only plunge you into sadness and pain.
Once on the Internet, I saw such a video, men and women quarreled, men knelt down in front of women to apologize, but women did not forgive, pointing at their noses and scolding.
There was an old man who couldn't look down and went up to pull the man up, but was stopped by the woman, no matter how the woman and the passerby argued, the man always kept his head down and was silent.
Whenever I see such news, I can't help but chill. At present, everyone is promoting the concept of equality in love, but there are still some partners in life, without the respect and understanding they deserve.
When a woman who says she loves you can't afford even the slightest respect, then her friendship can't stand the test.
Take the initiative to give trust
Really love the right person, the other party gives you the feeling, must be at ease and steadfast, no matter how far apart the two people are, you never doubt him, 100% trust, the other party also knows how to grasp the measure.
Zhang Ni and Li Shu established a relationship in college, and at first the two plans were to stay in the provincial city for employment, but everything was often not so good, and the work of the two in the six months after graduation was not so smooth.
Seeing that life has become a problem, in desperation, Zhang Ni was admitted to the compilation of her hometown, while her boyfriend Zhang Shu was not admitted, and the two became a long-distance relationship.
When she first went to work, the brother and sister in the unit have been instilling in Zhang Ni the idea that long-distance love is unrealistic, Zhang Ni is a smart person, how can she not know that long-distance love will face things.
But no matter what, the most uncomfortable thing about long-distance love is the original intention of love, fortunately, Li Shu did not change his heart, as always, he remained enthusiastic about Zhang Ni, wherever he went, he would report first, and do anything, he would share it with Zhang Ni.
Bit by bit, Zhang Ni was full of security, and zhang ni had long identified this friendship in her heart.
On the other hand, when a person does not trust you, it means that the other party does not love you so much, and distrust is full of suspicion, and it is a matter of time to do disloyal and deviant things.
A good partner can alleviate half of the suffering in the world, so when looking for love, you must know how to polish your eyes.
Remember not to go to the supermarket when you are hungry, because you will buy the wrong goods; in times of loneliness, do not choose love, because you will choose the wrong person.
When a person takes the initiative to approach you, do not rush to accept, especially women, their minds are difficult to understand, sometimes showing kindness to you, not really in love with you.
Just like the movie "Secret Fruit", Yu Chizi took the initiative to approach another opposite sex, in order to just forget the love and can't help Duan Bowen, sometimes the love in your eyes is just someone else's ulterior motives.
Therefore, a woman who takes the initiative to approach you must know how to judge whether the other party is true or false to you, and do not let yourself regret because of a momentary impulse.
Loving the wrong person can really be very sad.
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Text: Small senses
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