"Dear Child" will usher in the finale and officially end.
If you still think that the child in the title is the so-called child, you really did not understand the play.
Here, the child is no longer a child in the superficial sense, Hehe is a child, and the adults around Hehe are also children.
Qin Hao, one of the main actors, said goodbye and explained the true meaning of the title.
First of all, he explained the meaning of the title.
"Dear Little Kid" is a drama about growing up. This "child" refers not only to Hehe, but also to every adult who has been naïve, ignorant, paranoid, and selfish in the face of the waves of life. The process of healing hehe is also the process of being cured by hehe, and everyone grows because of it, and from this concept, everyone is a "dear child", which is also the true meaning of the title.
Children first refer to hehe.
The birth of Hehe is undoubtedly the key to the play, from beginning to end, a series of stories that happen around Hehe make people sigh, but also feel empathy. Whether it is becoming a parent for the first time or treating children, in this process, Hehe touches everyone's heart. In this process, Hehe is undoubtedly innocent, and he has also been greatly hurt, and he has been tortured by illness, which is pitiful.
In the innocent world of children, she does not understand why the adult world is so complicated, but she is also invisible, healing everyone, showing everyone's characteristics and humanity. Divorce is becoming more and more common at present, and for divorce, it is not a matter of two people after all, especially families with children, no matter what, it will have a certain impact on children. No matter what age of children, will be greatly affected, because people are social after all, once found that there is a lack of one of the parents around, there will inevitably be a psychological gap, accumulated over time, there will be psychological shadows. So divorce is also a time of extreme testing of human nature.
For Hehe, there is no doubt that she is lucky, whether it is her father or stepfather, her love for him is selfless, although she has experienced hardships, but in the end she has ushered in the light.
Second, children refer to a state, stage.
There is an immature side like a child.
As Qin Hao said: Every adult who has been naïve, ignorant, paranoid, and selfish in the face of the waves of life.
The most obvious characteristic sign of adults is age, but even if they reach the age of adults, it does not mean that the mind is mature enough, and in the adult world, there will still be immature characteristics, which is also brought about by limited personal experience.
In "Dear Child", everyone shows a not mature enough, rational side, which is also a true reflection of real life, because people cannot be flawless, so when dealing with things, they will always carry their own limitations, but as experience increases, through the world, the mind will naturally continue to mature and continue to grow step by step.
Growth is eternal and not temporal.
In the play, the process of saving Hehe quietly changes everyone, and it is precisely to heal everyone, so that everyone can face the pain of life, family difficulties, and their own limitations, and finally reconcile with themselves, reconcile with others, and grow.
For Xiao Lu, played by Qin Hao, his former focus was work and career, and he believed that all this was the focus, ignoring the family, ignoring his wife, and eventually breaking the relationship between husband and wife, and this was a manifestation of immaturity, confusion about life and life, and created a dismal marriage.
And this is also the appearance of many families in reality, but also the chinese traditional family model, as everyone knows, with the development of society and the times, the real harmonious family relationship, husband and wife relationship, is the need for husband and wife to pay for the family together, need to share, understand, tolerate between husband and wife, although life is chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, although they are all chicken feathers, but the marriage relationship, after all, still need to be maintained, not each desperate, in the end will only cause estrangement, parting ways.
The world of children and adults will always be treated differently, and in the past film and television works, the face of the characters, always let us have a misunderstanding, or too perfect, or too ugly, but the real world is not like this, most of them are ordinary people, are complex polyhedrons.
Children distinguish between right and wrong, and adults only look at the pros and cons.
This is not the case for adults, and not for children.
For adults, the so-called trade-offs and trade-offs actually mean polarization, but any result is always complex and will change with personal experience. In the play, it is fully explained that everyone's change is not weighed by the loss of interests, but more by adding human nature, and human nature, which cannot be said, requires everyone to perceive it with time and experience.
Xiao Lu went from selfishness, childishness, ignorance, and paranoia, and finally learned how to take responsibility and how to love, which is both growth and a kind of redemption.
As Qin Hao said, "Dear Child" is not to tell us about the misfortunes of life and the difficulties of reality, but to inspire us how to have a happy family.
Although "Dear Child" is about to end, but for everyone's life, life, will continue, through such a drama I hope to be able to let you stop, think about it, and move forward better.