One question is classic:
Why do people like silence the more they grow up?
Here's an answer:
Because some people have nothing to say, some things have nothing to say.
No matter how smart a person is, he can't see through everything. No matter how wise a person is, he cannot be understood by everyone.
To see a person clearly, there is no need to debunk it, because saying it will not change anything.
Therefore, when a person becomes more and more silent, the reason is not coldness, not helplessness, but precisely a kind of maturity.
Half of the troubles in the world stem from survival, and half from calculations.
Sometimes, because of a trivial matter, you get red in the face with others.
Or because of a statement of disagreement between the three views, he is in a big fight with others.
In the end, it wastes its time and energy, and it increases unhappiness and annoyance.
Not all people deserve our attention; not all things are worth our efforts.
Some people can't fight, and some things don't have to be fought over.
The tao is the same, and the tao is different, and the tao is not conspiratorial.
People who don't trust you won't care what you think at all.
People who only look at the results will not care about the process of your efforts at all.
Fight with familiar people, win, lose decency; fight with strangers, fight and lose, lose mood.
Life is not a debate game, and not everything must be understood.
A little confused, but more comfortable.
The world is big, and we will always meet all kinds of people.
Some people, with different views, do not have to force it.
Those who are not familiar with it only say three points; those who do not understand it, do not talk deeply.
Zhuangzi Youyun:
The well frog cannot speak of the sea, and the summer worm cannot speak of ice.
Meaning: a frog living at the bottom of a well, you can't talk to him about the rough sea; the worms that are born in summer and die in summer, you can't talk to him about the ice and snow in winter.
There is no right or wrong in people's lives, and some are just three different views.
Haruki Murakami said:
Not all fish will live in the same sea.
Everyone has different life experiences, creating a high level of hierarchy.
As the old saying goes:
When the water is clear, there is no fish, and when people are aware, there is no vain.
The more authentic you are, the more happiness diminishes.
There are some things that you know but don't say, not because you don't care, but because you know that saying and not saying are the same.
The water is silent, and the people are steady. Since you're already the winner, you don't care if your tongue prevails.
A sign of a person's maturity is not to do futile things.
The height of life is not how many things you can see, but how many things you can look down on.
Some people say that the water is clean, not because it has no impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate.
Because no matter how turbid the water is, as long as there is a long period of precipitation, it can become clear.
No matter how big things are today, they are small things tomorrow; things that are big this year are stories next year.
Alone to guard the heart, the group to keep the mouth. All your silence will be secretly glad to you in the future.
Seeing every silence as a process of cultivating oneself and letting the impetuous heart take root.
Mountains and water can be forgotten in pairs, and the sun and the moon can have nothing to do with each other.
Red dust is strange, and we will eventually walk alone.
Look down on it, people will be happier.
For the rest of my life, tell myself that I will not argue or argue, I will not be silent, I will gain and lose indifferently, and I will smile and be safe.
In a quiet location to see the hustle and bustle of the world.
With a silent and indisputable attitude, talk to your own soul.