What accompanies you to the end is the best for you

People who leave halfway

It's all the wrong people

The one who stays last is the right one

01

"Let's break up, I'm tired and I don't think we're fit together."

Yes, there are a lot of friends who feel that breakups are all because they are not suitable for being together. But what is right to be together? What kind of people are really suitable for together?

I don't think being together has much to do with whether you fit together or not, what matters is whether you love or not, whether you want to be together or not. We are constantly growing, experiencing different stories, and the so-called fit in our hearts is constantly changing. I believe that all lovers who are new together will come together when they feel that they are suitable for each other. But after slowly understanding, I feel that it is inappropriate, why is this?

In fact, our minds are changing with our own experiences, and at a certain stage, what we want and what we want after a certain stage will be completely different things. When you were in junior high school, did you think that the boy with particularly good academic performance was like the Prince Charming of your dreams? He has a pure face and a clever mind, that is his ideal lover. At that time, you don't think about his family situation, how his personality is, just want to be with him and think he is very good.

When you are sick, you must feel that the man who stays by your side, takes care of you, feeds you porridge is the most suitable for you. When you cry, the person who accompanies you and wipes your tears is the most suitable person for you. When you are short of money, give you money to spend, and do not want you to pay back, the most suitable for you, right?

02

In our hearts, we don't know what kind of person is really suitable for us. The feelings of the world are not perfect, and everyone has their own shortcomings, including ourselves, no matter who we choose, there will be contradictions after getting along for a long time. In the years of youth, we have also experienced possession and loss along the way, walking and walking, the heart is tired, do not know what is the most suitable for themselves.

I don't think it's that hard to find the right person for you. First of all, what you have to do is to accept that there is no one in the world who is the most suitable, only the people you love and love you the most, and the people who are willing to spend time with you. If you want to be with someone for the rest of your life, you have to understand her strengths and weaknesses, what she likes and dislikes, rather than being selfish and only knowing what she hates and never knowing how to accommodate.

Falling in love with someone, you want to be with her every second, and no one or thing in this world can stop your love. I read a special warm passage: "My wife scolds me and complains about me, I will not blame her, as long as she is around me, I can accept anything, I am afraid of the world without her, without her, even if everyone in the world laughs at me, I will not be happy." 」 ”

03

The most suitable person is not the person who is just excellent when you need it, but the person who is with you from beginning to end. She teaches you what accommodation is, what tolerance is, what love is! The people who do a little wrong and say they're leaving you don't love you that much, or you really don't fit in.

The warmest love in the world is companionship; the longest confession of affection is companionship; the most suitable person to love is companionship! Companionship is what we really want. So, my dear, don't waste your time on people who only know how to torture you, don't shed tears for people who don't love you. Sometimes, there is no one who is willing to accompany you to the old age, don't be lonely and will be, happiness can withstand waiting, the person who really loves you, it is worth your waiting.

No matter what you are going through at the moment, you must remember: the person who left you halfway is not the right person; the person who is the most suitable for you is not necessarily the best person in the world, but it must be the person who loves you the most and is willing to accompany you to old age!