I like what Zhuangzi said, "Zi is not a fish, but the joy of knowing the fish." ”
Everyone is a fish, and everything that others look at you is like looking at a fish, looking at your love, and so is it.
So when you are happy for your little happiness, some people may say that you are stupid; when you complain about the unhappiness in love, you will also get not to worry about it, but it is a small matter of persuasion.
You feel that others don't understand you, and your lover doesn't understand you. Yes, you are a fish, how do others know that the bubble you spit out took a little effort?
When you're lost, imagine you're a fish, think differently about you, figure out where you want to swim, and then try it with steadfastness, even if it might hit a wall.
The listening and opinions of others can be used as a reference but not necessarily the right direction, and who else but yourself can fully understand your every thought? In love, if you don't lose yourself, as long as you still pay attention to yourself, then important decisions will be made by yourself, get married or break up, and listen to the inner voice.
Romeo and Juliet, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, the story is poignant and beautiful. When facing the voices against your love, you look at this Chinese and foreign love classic, recognize whether you and your lover are already dependent on each other, and then rejoice that the times have changed until now you have the right to choose, and strive to be a fish.
And when you are struggling with whether you should break away, don't just listen to what others tell you to endure, tolerate, and don't care. The wound is on your heart, and the pain is a little bit that others really can't understand. People who love spicy can endure the special spicy, and people who do not love spicy can cry slightly spicy. The small things in the eyes of others may have been a huge wave in your heart. Why suffocate yourself and live as others say? You are a fish and you can choose your own big river or ocean.
Others look at your love like a fish. The next time, when others point fingers at your love, when you ask others about the things about love, you may wish to silently remind yourself in your heart, "Son is not a fish, do you know the joy of fish?" "
Love is like a fish, you should enjoy yourself!